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Topic: Betrayal.
calista29 Joined Tue 06/14/16 Posts: 3352	Sat 10/27/18 08:59 AM
Heartbreaks can scar us for life.They have the power to drastically change our perspective,our belief system,our way of life. How to deal with the frustrations?disappointments?

RustyKitty Joined Fri 05/15/15 Posts: 1601	Sat 10/27/18 09:05 AM
I've been lucky to have escaped any emotional scarring throughout my life. To get through the drama of life.. I smoke pot and drink wine

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Sat 10/27/18 09:05 AM
Look at them for what they are..stepping stones across a raging river. If they are not there, you never get to the other side.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21331	Sat 10/27/18 09:11 AM
Beer, lots and lots of beer.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 10/27/18 09:15 AM
Beer, lots and lots of beer. Beer is okay, but bourbon is quicker.

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17110	Sat 10/27/18 09:57 AM
I do my best to ignore those who frustrate or disappoint me. But I never forget what happened. I even give people a second chance, if deserved.

d__u__b Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 15048	Sat 10/27/18 10:00 AM
Heartbreaks can scar us for life.They have the power to drastically change our perspective,our belief system,our way of life. How to deal with the frustrations?disappointments? you tryin' to get tips on how to frustrate and disappoint someone?

hardBNhard Joined Mon 11/05/12 Posts: 2130	Sat 10/27/18 10:56 AM Edited by hardBNhard on Sat 10/27/18 10:58 AM
I've been lucky to have escaped any emotional scarring throughout my life. To get through the drama of life.. I smoke pot and drink wine

NotPay4Play Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 5330	Sat 10/27/18 11:01 AM Edited by NotPay4Play on Sat 10/27/18 11:02 AM
Happiness? A good cigar, a good meal, a good cigar and a good woman - or a bad woman; it depends on how much happiness you can handle. George Burns

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Sat 10/27/18 03:08 PM
Heartbreaks can scar us for life.They have the power to drastically change our perspective,our belief system,our way of life. How to deal with the frustrations?disappointments? get on amazon and order up a new and improved picker

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Sat 10/27/18 03:25 PM
Heartbreaks can scar us for life.They have the power to drastically change our perspective,our belief system,our way of life. How to deal with the frustrations?disappointments? I sniff glue, liquid paper and magic markers to get thru the tough times.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Sat 10/27/18 03:28 PM
Look at them for what they are..stepping stones across a raging river. If they are not there, you never get to the other side.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14437	Sat 10/27/18 04:17 PM
Find something positive to focus on, leave the Negative in the Past. Forgive and move forward .

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1707	Sat 10/27/18 04:41 PM
Heartbreaks happen when the expectations you have built up in your mind don't happen. When your expectations are less than what reality is, you are going to get pleasant surprises instead of heartbroken. Temper your expectations to reality!

hardBNhard Joined Mon 11/05/12 Posts: 2130	Sat 10/27/18 07:02 PM
Heartbreaks can scar us for life.They have the power to drastically change our perspective,our belief system,our way of life. How to deal with the frustrations?disappointments? I sniff glue, liquid paper and magic markers to get thru the tough times. Well thats more then obvious ! And explains alot .

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Sat 10/27/18 08:25 PM
Don't dwell in the negative. Learn from all things. Connect to the positive. Hold onto the positive.

hardBNhard Joined Mon 11/05/12 Posts: 2130	Sun 10/28/18 07:20 AM Edited by hardBNhard on Sun 10/28/18 07:22 AM
Some people should take there own advice and "Forgive and move forward" instead of the propaganda and lies they spew "And leave the negative in the past"

Arizona_Coughee Joined Wed 06/12/13 Posts: 33	Sat 12/01/18 10:52 AM
Mary Jane

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Sat 12/01/18 05:31 PM
I do forgive but it still impacts who you are. It also can change what you are looking for in a person. Your priorities change. At least mine did. And if your expectations are less than reality, then you will accept less. I don’t want to accept less.

actionlynx Joined Wed 08/18/10 Posts: 5448	Sat 12/01/18 07:17 PM
After I recover from the initial shock, I just distance myself, and move on. If it's just disappointment or frustration, I can get over it, and forgive. Perhaps we even remain friends. If it's betrayal....well, goodbye and good riddance. Clean break. I don't need to dredge up those memories and feelings. Forgiveness will come in time, but only as long as I have the space to keep moving on. So I need distance, regardless of whether that's what they want or not.