Most men I have dated loved my cooking, even a simple hotdish. They would never cook because my cooking was so much better.

My favorite dishes to make for a man is my special burrittos and Spciy Garlic Shrimp with linguine.

️️️ i love eating... and i love reading the debates here in forums...peace....

These days food is cheap and plentiful, but good company is harder to find.

Attracting a man, sure good food won't make him leave, but bad company will.
Women seem to always want someone who makes them laugh, and listens to them, and treats them like a lady, etc., which is all good.
Men aren't that dissimilar, in that they want conversation, and interaction on many levels, resulting in mutual enjoyment.

But we are not therapists and are not entertained by talk of your domestic or work dramas, and exes, and bad neighbours etc., (unless maybe it is a safety issue if you do hook up).

Finding even just one thing that you both truly enjoy, and can talk about it intelligently and passionately, is an attractant. Even if it is only cooking and eating. Several mutual interests and you are going to get close.
Do a bit of recon and find out what the vict/beloved is into, and take up that hobby/club/sport/Egame/to get close and interesting and noticed, (noticed in a good way).

If trying to share intelligent conversation, food, hobbies, sport, and entertainment doesn't work, then break out the little black skirt, or get flirty, or just get straight out demanding - (women can get away with it), that can be attractive, or slightly scary, depending. Worst that can happen is to get a 'no', and men get that all the time. No big deal.

I'm not 'typical' but I cook, and do everything household myself, so other feminine things attract me in a woman.
Also attracted to yachts, horses, and outdoorsy girls. And super models of course.

A woman friend told me earlier this week, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Then she said, she recently was Dating my activity parnter.
What the heck!

She's a good cook .

I am a great cook I love different cuisines and have done several courses for fun .. the last one was Japanese and included sushi making . It is a wonderful hobby :-)

Attracting a man is easy .. food is just one temptation

I think attractiveness is much more holistic. personally I cook well.

A smile a twinkle in the eye, a witty comment, a laugh in the right place,
the eyes have it, and the way the mind works. I f these things arn't present then looks alone don't do it for me.

Great thread and loving the comments☆☆☆
I can cook but not super Good.
And i wish for a man that enjoys cleaning up after...

Make sure you have a plethora of steaks and ribs and chicken cooked when he comes home ....oh and be half naked while doing it...that’ll do it every time ‍♀️

Is there any cheesecake?

A good woman always has dessert ready

You go on like that, and I invite myself over to your place

this topic came up on another thread on another site
on what makes a woman wifey material
the topic of cooking/baking was mentioned
all the younger women had a hissy fit


interesting how times have changed
since I got a cookbook as a gift
at my wedding shower

That’s because younger women are usually part of the grotesque feminist movement 🤢...sad nothing wrong with cooking for your man ...

I can make the Red Lobster biscuits pretty well. I used to work their and when they would have me make them, they never stayed in the oven. lol Everyone seems to like the way I make them better as well.

I make a good meat loaf too.

I can cook pretty much anything, if I want to. lol I helped my exes dad cook some chicken once, blew his mind.

I appreciate when others enjoy my cooking, but really the only two opinions that matter to me are my childrens, if they like it, I'm happy.

I love Red Lobster and their biscuits !

This is the 21st. Centry and the men who cannot cook are out of style

Most all the men I have met last 20 years can Cook.

Of course, that isn't the Most Important thing in a Man.

Be yourself

depends on the guy...

for me food is important so for the woman to know how to cook is important...

If a woman really wants to impress a man put a stripper pole in the kitchen do a striptease while you're cooking for him.


Or just dance on his "pole" while dinner is in the over.

No, I don't think cooking is that important to a man. I can spend 30 minutes or 3 hours cooking and there is no difference. I like to cook, so I just do it for myself.

She might burn something. ! :