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Topic: Minglers friends I need your positive thoughts!
 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 03:19 PM
Ten days ago I went to visit a neighbor and I was playing with her dog, hi was scratching my arms so I took my two rings off one was my engagement that my ex let me have it. So I put them inside my watch and put them down on her coffee table, I forgot all about them when I left and came to my apartment. The next day I went and asked her if she saw them then she acted very weird, so I asked her again if I can look for them but she rush me to get out...What would you do in this case if this happen to you? TIA flowerforyou

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 05/14/19 04:32 PM
Sounds like your "friend" isn't much of a friend and has used your rings to pay her rent.

ivegotthegirth's photo
Tue 05/14/19 04:47 PM
Edited by ivegotthegirth on Tue 05/14/19 04:48 PM
I would just confront her and say you know you left them there and you want them >.<
She's no friend if she want's to trade in your "friendship" for your jewelry.
Move on this before it's too late if it already isn't!

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 05/14/19 04:57 PM
I would have to confront her as well... Just say that you took them off there and maybe they fell under the couch, in the couch or maybe the dog took off with them... But that you would like to come in and have her help you look for them...

If she is any kind of a friend she would not have a issue with you looking...

If you find them then I would re-consider that friendship.. due to her actions when you went back~~whoa

Hope you find them~~

Liz's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:10 PM
Ask again. Tell her you know you left them there. File a police report if you can. Dump the friend.

 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:19 PM

Sounds like your "friend" isn't much of a friend and has used your rings to pay her rent.


She's not a friend otherwise she won't do that to me. Her attitude change since then

 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:21 PM

I would just confront her and say you know you left them there and you want them >.<
She's no friend if she want's to trade in your "friendship" for your jewelry.
Move on this before it's too late if it already isn't!


I did confronted her, she's a gambler and probably sold them already :(

ivegotthegirth's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:23 PM
Sorry...

 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:24 PM

I would have to confront her as well... Just say that you took them off there and maybe they fell under the couch, in the couch or maybe the dog took off with them... But that you would like to come in and have her help you look for them...

If she is any kind of a friend she would not have a issue with you looking...

If you find them then I would re-consider that friendship.. due to her actions when you went back~~whoa

Hope you find them~~


The first time I knock on her door she told me "I'm on the phone" I called her than she hang up on me. I went to the police, file a report then went to Kay where my ex bought them so I can't get them replace because I don't have renters insurance.

 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:26 PM

Ask again. Tell her you know you left them there. File a police report if you can. Dump the friend.


Today I saw her from far away because she claims having health problems. But I'll ask her again. I'm so disappointed

 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:26 PM

Sorry...


Thank you!

IUBasketball's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:27 PM
I doubt there is anything you can do legally so I'm not sure if you have any options other than possibly filing with your homeowners insurance.

 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:30 PM

I doubt there is anything you can do legally so I'm not sure if you have any options other than possibly filing with your homeowners insurance.


I already talked with the manager and she told me "Is really nothing I can do because is my word against hers"

IUBasketball's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:33 PM
I don't know the value of the rings but I'm sure there was sentimental value.

no photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:41 PM
I would have written to "Dear Abby" instead of posting here!

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:45 PM
Edited by Tom4Uhere on Tue 05/14/19 05:46 PM
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This is my standard positive thought gift package.
If you run out, I do have more....
PS: For a nominal fee

Datwasntme's photo
Tue 05/14/19 05:54 PM
sucks that it cost you so much to find out her real self : (

no photo
Tue 05/14/19 06:08 PM
Why are you wearing an engagement ring from your ex, and how do you put two rings inside a watch? Just trying to understand.

 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 06:44 PM

I don't know the value of the rings but I'm sure there was sentimental value.


Yes to me at this point is more the sentimental value. But the 3 items are over $4,000.00

 Maria195's photo
Tue 05/14/19 06:45 PM

I would have written to "Dear Abby" instead of posting here!


Thanks for your comment.

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