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Topic: Am I the only lonely married one here?
Derek Joined Wed 09/04/19 Posts: 2	Fri 09/06/19 04:55 PM
Just wondering. I'm not desperate, not into one night stands. Just want to enjoy and feel sparks meeting up with someone like minded.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Fri 09/06/19 06:36 PM
Topic: Am I the only lonely married one here? Probably.

Bastet127 Joined Wed 06/12/19 Posts: 967	Fri 09/06/19 07:07 PM
crickets

nickistaken Joined Mon 06/18/18 Posts: 396	Fri 09/06/19 08:41 PM
No. But you will find as many self righteous people here as in real life...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48912	Fri 09/06/19 09:48 PM
No. But you will find as many self righteous people here as in real life... The grapes here are sour, too.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21304	Fri 09/06/19 10:45 PM
Like my Ma used to say, "finish what's on your plate before ya go asking for dessert".

pumpilicious 💕 Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 10264	Sat 09/07/19 03:34 AM
Like my Ma used to say, "finish what's on your plate before ya go asking for dessert". perfect analogy.

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Sun 09/08/19 06:18 AM
Am I the only lonely married one here? You could always ask your spouse to start a profile, then you could talk about how lonely you are together. Just want to enjoy and feel sparks meeting up with someone like minded. There you go. Easy peasy. You and your wife set up profiles with idealized versions of yourself that you don't recognize then start hitting on each other. Once the sparks are gone, delete, then start a new profile. Like my Ma used to say, "finish what's on your plate before ya go asking for dessert". ...And that's why there's an obesity "epidemic."

Cosmic Charlie Joined Tue 08/20/19 Posts: 1315	Sun 09/08/19 08:29 AM
crickets

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45320	Sun 09/08/19 10:31 AM
No. But you will find as many self righteous people here as in real life... Obviously.

williams Joined Mon 09/09/19 Posts: 8	Mon 09/09/19 04:24 AM
How about will get along and see how fly

williams Joined Mon 09/09/19 Posts: 8	Mon 09/09/19 04:26 AM
i can play cool been In love but you just got my heart

williams Joined Mon 09/09/19 Posts: 8	Mon 09/09/19 04:27 AM
hmm but all are not just ask you put it will all can be the same

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1704	Mon 09/09/19 09:44 AM
No Derek, you are the norm. Most older, married guys have the same problem of being alone and limited or no sexual life. Many married, older women have a very hard time understanding the needs of their husband!!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48912	Mon 09/09/19 11:03 AM
No Derek, you are the norm. Most older, married guys have the same problem of being alone and limited or no sexual life. Just how do you "know" this? Many married, older women have a very hard time understanding the needs of their husband!! Define those "needs".

DeeJay Joined Wed 08/07/19 Posts: 235	Mon 09/09/19 02:01 PM
Just want to enjoy and feel sparks meeting up with someone like minded. Isn't that why you married your wife?

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 8885	Mon 09/09/19 07:39 PM
crickets the sound of stridulating .. perfect answer Bastet :

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1704	Mon 09/09/19 08:14 PM
No Derek, you are the norm. Most older, married guys have the same problem of being alone and limited or no sexual life. Just how do you "know" this? Many married, older women have a very hard time understanding the needs of their husband!! Define those "needs". Perhaps you could start by reading the forum posts on various relationship questions and comments of older gentleman. As for those "needs" you might also look at the forum postings. Perhaps a better source might be the various profiles posted by older gentleman on this and most other dating sites. Additionally, you might review this article: https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/health-news/sex-less-likely-and-less-satisfying-as-women-hit-older-age/ar-AAEbE6E?li=BBnba9O I would hope you are intelligent enough to do your own research on those topics and learn something new!