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Topic: How do you restrain yourself?
Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Fri 01/31/20 10:25 AM
Usually with ativan You're weird. Which is okay by me. I'm weird too. Mind if i start reading more of your posts?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14442	Fri 01/31/20 10:29 AM
I don't wear my heart on my sleeve! I have several nice dates !

King James Joined Fri 01/31/20 Posts: 2	Fri 01/31/20 03:40 PM
When you know you fancy a person...and you know you should restrain yourself!! Or do you not?

王伟1 Joined Fri 01/31/20 Posts: 5	Fri 01/31/20 03:59 PM
by keeping my eyes focused on one️️️

LarchTree Joined Fri 11/22/19 Posts: 935	Fri 01/31/20 04:39 PM
Being connected and engaged with many different people. That means high quality observation and communication. I’m not talking about TV where for you know what, the stars use duct tape. Thinking from different perspectives Conceptualizing a map of the big picture Identifying the objective Thinking 5 steps ahead Forming ideas Imagining how they would play out Doing more research Observing Practicing communication skills in a space where no important decisions are actually executed. Keeping moving Staying inspired Staying whole

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Fri 01/31/20 05:08 PM
Queenie: I never restrain my myself that's why there's restraining orders Does that mean what I think it means?

all-about-the -o Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 69	Wed 02/12/20 04:06 PM
I never restrain my myself that's why there's restraining orders I thought the saying went "You had me at the words 'restraining order'

Unknow Joined Sat 04/28/18 Posts: 1861	Sat 02/15/20 09:30 PM
Just play out what you know will REALLY happen in your mind -not all that good stuff which might happen before the inevitable wrecking of lives and regret that you hurt someone you really love. Remember the reason you knew you had to restrain yourself in the first place. If you love someone, you want the best for them. Sometimes that means not being with them. That can include just not being ready to give what a relationship requires. Every now and again, however, people restrain themselves for the wrong reasons -or they are just being too cautious and "awfulizing" something that could be wonderful.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 02/15/20 11:38 PM
by keeping my eyes focused on one️️️ I appreciate your answer. Seems some people have a line up. I am a one man woman and need a one woman man.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 02/15/20 11:42 PM
Just play out what you know will REALLY happen in your mind -not all that good stuff which might happen before the inevitable wrecking of lives and regret that you hurt someone you really love. Remember the reason you knew you had to restrain yourself in the first place. If you love someone, you want the best for them. Sometimes that means not being with them. That can include just not being ready to give what a relationship requires. Every now and again, however, people restrain themselves for the wrong reasons -or they are just being too cautious and "awfulizing" something that could be wonderful. Good answer. For me, if I am infatuated, I have to remind myself to slow down, because time reveals a person's real character. I have not had that many relationships and I still think I am naive.

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Sun 02/16/20 03:47 AM
Usually with ativan You're weird. Which is okay by me. I'm weird too. Mind if i start reading more of your posts? Yeah sure, can't stop you. BTW I enjoy reading your posts also

manav Joined Sun 02/16/20 Posts: 3	Sun 02/16/20 05:43 AM
hi m new here

notbeold Joined Sat 06/01/13 Posts: 2406	Sun 02/16/20 06:07 AM
Hesitate and maybe miss the only opportunity to communicate; or jump in head first and be shot down in flames. Either way sucks. Regular rejection from the girl I'm in love with made me stop after decades. I drew pictures of my ideal woman, and when I saw her in real life I cased her out (she worked in a shop) and the next time I asked her to coffee with me. She was most unkind. It took me a year to ask another one. The pain restrains me. If it looks like I might stand a chance, and the pleasure may exceed the pain, I'll try again.

Unknow Joined Sat 04/28/18 Posts: 1861	Sun 02/16/20 08:41 AM
They should bring courtship back. It may seem like a slow process, but so many waste their time by jumping into relationships and bed before they know anything about the other. Then it surprisingly doesn't work out and they do it again and again. They often invest emotionally and even financially -or derail their own goals -before even knowing if they are really compatible. Meanwhile they overlook someone who is interested and good for them -but patient -or that someone becomes disinterested. Being patient is actually a faster way to find the RIGHT person.