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Topic: Gay Love
Ryan's photo
Wed 08/26/20 11:28 PM
Is there a slightest chance that a straight man could fall in love with a gay guy? :thinking:

ivegotthegirth's photo
Thu 08/27/20 01:46 AM
Beats me......................never happened to me in almost 64 years..........not even close.
Wah...........wah.............wah noway

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Thu 08/27/20 12:44 PM
Is there a slightest chance that a straight man could fall in love with a gay guy?

If I were gay, then I would really hope that never happens.
Because it would pretty much invalidate every bit of "progress" and equality the LGBTQ community has worked for.

Because if a "straight" man could fall in love with a gay guy, then it would stand to reason that a gay guy "could" fall in love with a straight woman.

It's just a matter of maybe some rehabilitation, some therapy, maybe some pills, just the "right" person/training/combination, and voila, "gay" is "cured" and they can just start being like "normal" people, the 90+% of the rest of humanity, and no need to grant any special rights/favors/status.


Other than that, it depends on how you're defining "love."
If you're referring to pair bonding, based on procreation, that really only lasts for a while, but is extremely deep and changes your mental processes, then no.

If you're referring to the crap that people load into the word where they have a shallow specious understanding of their own emotions and impulses, mostly ego driven, primarily working at securing an ongoing source of personal pleasure/selfish gratification (mental, physical, social, emotional) while paying lip service to a social facade that facilitates their solipsistic goals, then yes, there's a slight chance.

ivegotthegirth's photo
Thu 08/27/20 01:10 PM
...........those pills are called "homo-nomo"...................

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Thu 08/27/20 01:11 PM
Sure but you would probably have to take turns biting the pillow

Riverspirit1111's photo
Thu 08/27/20 01:15 PM

Is there a slightest chance that a straight man could fall in love with a gay guy? :thinking:


If the supposed "straight" man was still in denial and hasn't come out of the closet.... then yes, I suppose it's possible. Imo, if you are attracted to the same sex to the point of falling in love with them, then you are gay, or bisexual.

ivegotthegirth's photo
Thu 08/27/20 01:28 PM
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

RobXbox73's photo
Thu 08/27/20 06:03 PM
You should be looking for some one like you. A straight man may hurt you if your try. The only "straight man" you could get wouldn't be a straight man. May a jailed sodomite.

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Fri 08/28/20 05:47 PM
If a gay man shags a straight man then the straight man is obviously not straight

ivegotthegirth's photo
Fri 08/28/20 06:46 PM
:thumbsup: ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^:thumbsup:

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚's photo
Fri 08/28/20 06:50 PM

If a gay man shags a straight man then the straight man is obviously not straight

Maybe he's just lonely..ohwell

RobXbox73's photo
Sun 08/30/20 11:48 AM
Hell nope.

no photo
Wed 09/02/20 02:17 PM
Edited by null on Wed 09/02/20 02:48 PM
QUOTE

"It's just a matter of maybe some rehabilitation, some therapy, maybe some pills, just the "right" person/training/combination, and voila, "gay" is "cured" and they can just start being like "normal" people, the 90+% of the rest of humanity, and no need to grant any special rights/favors/status."

Taken in context I'm not certain that I follow this? What I can most assuredly say is that Homosexuality is completely normal and exists throughout the biological kingdom of Animalia. Homosexuality is not nor has it ever been an exclusive construct relegated to the species Homo sapiens. Same-sex attraction has been observed in primates other than Humans, penguins, and most other animals. Thus, applying the term normal to Heterosexuals is a logical fallacy at best. Perhaps typical or atypical would be a better description.

Moreover, using a political left and right ideology same-sex attraction wins in both directions. In 1800 the approximate doubling time for the Human population was 300 years. The doubling time of the human population is now approximately 61 years. Many scientists have theorized that the limit of the human population, i.e. carrying capacity is 9-10 billion. As of this writing, we are closely approaching 8 billion.

Many people on the right side of political ideology do not believe in abortion. Yet some Heterosexuals however often believe that Human beings should propagate unfettered. This presents a problem for the planet in view of some scientists. Unfettered propagation can lead to overpopulation, famine, war, and at the furthest reaches species extinction--Human and other animals.

Conversely on the left side of the spectrum the opposite views are often held, that is to say, limit population growth but allow for abortion which in the view of many is invidious.

Suffice it to say the LGBTQ community does not add to either end of these disparate realities right view nor left view, and certainly not in large numbers. Thus, to put it simply there is nothing about the LGBTQ population taken in this context that is personally destructive or destructive to the planet taken in this context. Logically it would follow that if viewed this way Homosexuality represents nothing that needs to be fixed but could be said to be a fixative for Human life, other species' life and the planet collectively. Lastly, same-sex attraction has also been said to be either an evolutionary adaptation to limit the over-propagation of a given species or an artifact of intelligent design.

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Mon 09/07/20 08:47 PM
On this planet, with humans, anything can happen. I mean, I'm a straight guy who could fall for a lesbian. Why not??

Rock's photo
Tue 09/08/20 03:41 AM
Anything is possible... On network television.


Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 09/08/20 08:43 AM
Edited by Tom4Uhere on Tue 09/08/20 08:44 AM
Interesting question on the viewpoint of social order.

The important thing to realize is the fact that 'love' is only felt within because it is an emotionally driven feeling.
In that sense, you can 'feel' love for anyone or anything.

a straight man could fall in love with a gay guy

Certainly.

However, pair bonding is much more complex than feeling love for another.
Ask anyone who has experienced a broken relationship.

In my life, I've been friends with a few gay men. Though I never felt sexual love for them, I did care about them. So, in a way, I did feel love for them.
I knew they were gay and they knew I was straight but our sexual preferences were respected.

On the gay issue;
Sexual preferences are personal. They are meant to be shared intimately with your partner.
What I don't understand is how gays want to advertize their personal preferences in everybody's faces.
Herto-sexuals do not go around making a bunch of hoopla about being strait?
At least not in my life.
People don't normally interact with others in such a way to advertise their sexual preferences.
You don't see "Herto-Marches" at the capitol.
You don't see "S&M Marches" either.
Yet you DO see "Gay Marches".

I don't care if you are "in the closet" or "out of the closet".
What I do care is how you interact with me and the people who I love.
I don't care if yer gay, I don't care if yer straight, I don't care if you like sex with barn animals.
If yer good people, I can love ya, if yer not, well, have a good life over there somewhere.
Your sexual preference is none of my business unless you make it so and then, I just realize you need some mental help with those issues yer carrying around.

peaceland's photo
Sat 03/06/21 06:15 AM
Maybe, as long as it's done from the heart. Never happened to me in many, many years

Totage's photo
Sat 03/06/21 06:29 AM

Is there a slightest chance that a straight man could fall in love with a gay guy? :thinking:


No, people find sexuality confusing though, so a gay man could think he's straight or be afraid to admit he's gay, living the hetro lifestyle until getting tired of hiding who he really is.

People say sexuality is fluid, but I don't think so. I think it's confusing for many and fluid is used to hide the confusion or the confusion gets mistaken for fluid. At the end of the day you are who you are.

Anyway, if you're gay, why would you be interested in a straight man? Stop letting your weiner do the thinking. That's how people get in trouble.

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Sat 03/06/21 06:46 AM
Funny how those people who yammer on about how love can happen anytime, between anyone (meaning, one should not have preferences or boundaries or standards, because we may be overlooking someone/ "limiting" ourselves")..I get that a lot...
But, then, let me use the logic of "well, YOU never know..*you* may be limiting" your self if you refuse to talk to/ date a gay man..." and they get hateful..
Sweetie....it can't be both...if I have definite deal breakers/ nopes...and you want to claim I am "limiting" myself, or should be more "open" to certain things...I will listen to you when YOU do the same,.and open YOURSELF to things that are hard dealbreakers and nopes....
Otherwise, shut up.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 03/06/21 07:22 AM
Ask yourself the question, "Could I be hetero and happy in love with a woman?"

Answer to your question: I seriously doubt that to the point of an absolute no.
Most straight men want nothing to do with gay ones.

Just find someone who's also gay. There are a lot of bi-sexual men. Then it's different.

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