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Topic: the art of sexuality
cheesemigration Joined Sat 05/23/20 Posts: 4	Thu 02/11/21 01:07 AM
what is this thing we do?

Unknow Joined Tue 04/28/20 Posts: 2930	Thu 02/11/21 01:35 AM Edited by Unknow on Thu 02/11/21 01:39 AM
Can you be more specific please? Do you want the science or the philosophy? .

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Thu 02/11/21 02:24 PM
WOW, you sound like the coolest cheese! I retired from the music business 4 years ago after 30+ years, I've known some great ones and seen more. It would be great to hear you sometime and get your autograph.

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 8910	Thu 02/11/21 02:34 PM
Hello cheesemigration. .., Some are very reserved about expressing their sexuality or accepting how others express their sexuality . Have you ever viewed the map of human sexuality . I cannot post it here as the forums are rated PG 13 .. but it would not surprise to me learn that many do not know of it’s existence . Sexuality begins with the mind .

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14439	Thu 02/11/21 03:46 PM
Sexuality does start with the mind and then people put those thoughts into action. It's an emotion.

Unknow Joined Tue 04/28/20 Posts: 2930	Thu 02/11/21 03:50 PM
I normally don't think about it. But for me it starts with the eyes. I see a gorgeous man and I have a reaction, quite primal actually.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14439	Thu 02/11/21 03:51 PM
I normally don't think about it. But for me it starts with the eyes. I see a gorgeous man and I have a reaction, quite primal actually.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14439	Thu 02/11/21 03:53 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 02/11/21 03:53 PM
I'm more into how the Man carries himself. That can be sexy without him being handsome! IMO

Unknow Joined Tue 04/28/20 Posts: 2930	Thu 02/11/21 10:32 PM
Like animals... guided by sensation but driven by hormones. Or pheromones whatever those are The simple fact is we are sexual beings. But I treasure self control. It is my friend and guiding star.

Up2youandme Joined Sun 04/29/18 Posts: 1345	Fri 02/12/21 08:09 AM
I normally don't think about it. But for me it starts with the eyes. I see a gorgeous man and I have a reaction, quite primal actually. Yup I'm with you on that one .

Unknow Joined Tue 04/28/20 Posts: 2930	Fri 02/12/21 08:12 AM
I normally don't think about it. But for me it starts with the eyes. I see a gorgeous man and I have a reaction, quite primal actually. Yup I'm with you on that one . You like gorgeous men too?

Unknow Joined Sat 04/28/18 Posts: 1861	Fri 02/12/21 08:46 AM Edited by Unknow on Fri 02/12/21 09:05 AM
As a religious person.... Human sexuality is associated with reproduction -which is taking part in the birth of beings who will one day be like God. There is no greater art I can imagine -except for the wonderful things we will all create and do throughout the universe -once we learn to do things correctly. The shared experience can be wonderful in itself... a way to express love by making each other feel reeeeeeally good... Not all humans are distinctly female or male -and religious people need to realize that adherence to religious law is not as simple as assumed for many. I have been wondering lately if we are actually becoming less distinctly binary overall -and whether it has anything to do with human activity (in similar manner as we adversely affect many other things).

Up2youandme Joined Sun 04/29/18 Posts: 1345	Fri 02/12/21 10:09 AM Edited by Up2youandme on Fri 02/12/21 10:10 AM
I normally don't think about it. But for me it starts with the eyes. I see a gorgeous man and I have a reaction, quite primal actually. You like gorgeous men too? Haha funny

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 8910	Fri 02/12/21 03:31 PM
As a religious person.... Human sexuality is associated with reproduction -which is taking part in the birth of beings who will one day be like God. There is no greater art I can imagine -except for the wonderful things we will all create and do throughout the universe -once we learn to do things correctly. The shared experience can be wonderful in itself... a way to express love by making each other feel reeeeeeally good... Not all humans are distinctly female or male -and religious people need to realize that adherence to religious law is not as simple as assumed for many. I have been wondering lately if we are actually becoming less distinctly binary overall -and whether it has anything to do with human activity (in similar manner as we adversely affect many other things). maximus you are such a sweet man !!! some religions remain inflexible about sexuality but there are signs of a slight shift in some religious thinking and acceptance . As you can see In this article about the catholic pope’s viewpoint , there is still conflict but also some recognition of acceptance and empathy towards other sexual orientations http://amp.dw.com/en/pope-francis-and-homosexuality-in-the-catholic-church-an-analysis/a-55371918

Unknow Joined Sat 04/28/18 Posts: 1861	Sat 02/13/21 10:01 AM
Thank you! It can't be a sin to simply be what you are. Many have trouble realizing it's actually a thing -so more science definitely helps.

Acquired Taste Joined Thu 01/02/20 Posts: 421	Sat 02/13/21 10:05 AM
i'm a little aloof in person. my last 2 gfs were very aggressive and the 2nd one twice as much as the first. if this trend continues...well i could be going out with a dominatrix assassin which would at least be interesting...

Unknow Joined Tue 04/28/20 Posts: 2930	Sat 02/13/21 11:51 AM
i'm a little aloof in person. my last 2 gfs were very aggressive and the 2nd one twice as much as the first. if this trend continues...well i could be going out with a dominatrix assassin which would at least be interesting... Watch out for red lights on your forehead or heart.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Sat 02/13/21 12:02 PM
Sexuality can be an art, and a science. However, since the original poster put this thread up right at closing time for the bars in his state... I'm inclined to believe the sexual art he was looking for, was someone to talk dirty, while he was rounding up the Kleenex and hand lotion. Cheers to everyone, for staying legit.

Unknow Joined Tue 04/28/20 Posts: 2930	Sat 02/13/21 12:13 PM
Damn...missed the moment and opportunity to have a dirty talk with a random block of cheese. It was on my bucket list, that and swimming with pirhanas.

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Sat 02/13/21 04:59 PM
the art of sexuality Like those naked lady mudflaps? what is this thing we do? Is this part of the "Top Ten List of things we don't want a date to say the first time they see me naked?"