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Topic: Is it wrong to want to hookup?
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Mon 02/15/21 12:08 PM
I never could date just to date when I was younger, but now that I'm getting older I tend to vere off, and have the "Life is short" mentality. I have a high want for intimacy/sexual pleasure, but I also don't want to make the other person feel like I'm not a loyal person. If I was to hookup with someone and end up liking them, that is a possibility; and I could definitely be a loyal partner. Until I find that though, is it a bad philosophy?

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Mon 02/15/21 12:41 PM
slaphead

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Mon 02/15/21 12:52 PM
Getting older and "Life is short"?
You're 21.

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Mon 02/15/21 01:13 PM

Getting older and "Life is short"?
You're 21.


laugh

OT. Me no comprehendo?

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Mon 02/15/21 01:25 PM
so you're a horny twenty-one year old who wants to get his wick waxed, and you go on a social site to ask if that's okay?????

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Mon 02/15/21 01:41 PM
you cant meet up with anyone till boris says its ok

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 02/15/21 01:54 PM

you cant meet up with anyone till boris says its ok

He's in Tennessee. I think that's a bit out of Boris' jurisdiction tongue2

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Mon 02/15/21 04:38 PM
Is it wrong to want to hookup?

Not in and of itself.

It's like asking "is it wrong to want to constantly eat pizza?"

Nothing wrong with wanting to.

But there are going to be long term consequences for doing so.

Just because you rationalize or decide that something isn't "wrong," it doesn't mean there are no longer consequences to your choices.

is it a bad philosophy?

In general, yes, "hedonism now and maybe I'll stumble into meaning" is a bad philosophy.

If you aren't capable of anything more than that, then no, it's not a bad philosophy.


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Mon 02/15/21 04:56 PM

slaphead


I second that. 'Nuff said! slaphead
Plus I raise you a frustrated

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Mon 02/15/21 05:14 PM


you cant meet up with anyone till boris says its ok

He's in Tennessee. I think that's a bit out of Boris' jurisdiction tongue2


Even if it's Boris Badenov?

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Mon 02/15/21 08:52 PM
:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

OT. Me no comprehendo?

no but it depend on the lady

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Mon 02/15/21 10:05 PM
Edited by Blondey111 on Mon 02/15/21 10:06 PM

I never could date just to date when I was younger, but now that I'm getting older I tend to vere off, and have the "Life is short" mentality. I have a high want for intimacy/sexual pleasure, but I also don't want to make the other person feel like I'm not a loyal person. If I was to hookup with someone and end up liking them, that is a possibility; and I could definitely be a loyal partner. Until I find that though, is it a bad philosophy?
hello Marcus .. live your best life now .. You are in control of your sexual destiny ...

as for your philosophy it sounds a little incongruent ....like you are trying to have the best of both worlds . The danger in sitting on the fence is that you risk sending mixed messages .. By giving her a small window of hope “if you like her “. You would consider being loyal to her . Does that mean .. you will hookup up with someone you don’t like ????

What does being loyal mean to you and how does that change your casual hookup ???

Poorly defined boundaries with casual intimacy generally have a higher risk of failurewaving



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Mon 02/15/21 11:19 PM


you cant meet up with anyone till boris says its ok

He's in Tennessee. I think that's a bit out of Boris' jurisdiction tongue2


I thought I heard banjos.

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Tue 02/16/21 02:39 AM
No I do not think so, can’t live outside the buddy long

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Tue 02/16/21 02:43 AM
Who is Boris

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Tue 02/16/21 02:47 AM

Who is Boris


Boris Johnson. Prime Minister of the UK.

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Tue 02/16/21 02:48 AM
frustrateddrool so my very recent ex. She thought nothing of it., she would book up a few times a week. No matter how badly it hurt me she couldn’t stop

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Tue 02/16/21 02:48 AM
frustrateddrool so my very recent ex. She thought nothing of it., she would book up a few times a week. No matter how badly it hurt me she couldn’t stop

Joey's photo
Tue 02/16/21 02:48 AM
frustrateddrool so my very recent ex. She thought nothing of it., she would book up a few times a week. No matter how badly it hurt me she couldn’t stop

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Tue 02/16/21 02:49 AM
Yeah I knew that,!!!!! I was just texting ya.:guardsman_tone1::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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