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Topic: What’s the biggest lesson love taught you?
Jacqueline 's photo
Wed 03/04/26 09:02 PM
Hey everyone! Let’s get real for a moment, love is messy, beautiful, confusing, and transformative all at once. Whether you’re in a relationship, single, or somewhere in between, your experiences matte, and I want to hear them

Don's photo
Thu 03/05/26 02:19 AM
The future kissed you, called you King. Did she? Deceiver!

And Jacqueline's account has been deactivated.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 03/05/26 02:25 AM

The future kissed you, called you King. Did she? Deceiver!

And Jacqueline's account has been deactivated.

Regulars of Mingle always said that when someone logs out it says the person has deactivated.
I learnt through the years this indeed was the case. And many if not most people always log out.
If this hasn't changed she might just be off to work or asleep.
Don't be so quick to judge.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 03/05/26 02:29 AM
What love taught me in various ways is to be more empowered and to say "yes" to me a helluva lot more and "no" to someone else.
And also the art of receiving instead of giving.
I've learnt that dating and relationship coaches are 1000% right when they say the woman has to be the prize and a man has to earn his way into her life and heart.

Sir's photo
Thu 03/05/26 06:01 AM
Biggest lesson..... leave these crazy women alone :dizzy_face::dizzy:

Abdelrahman's photo
Thu 03/05/26 06:13 AM
Uhh DONT love.

soufiehere's photo
Thu 03/05/26 06:28 AM
Biggest lesson learned over a lot of years...You
can only control the love inside you, you
cannot control anyone else's.

Slim gym 's photo
Thu 03/05/26 09:54 AM
never trust a woman who does not drink

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 03/05/26 11:09 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Thu 03/05/26 11:10 AM

never trust a woman who does not drink

Shouldn't that be the other way round? Makes more sense to me.
I btw rarely drink. Have noticed this seems to be a problem for many men. I guess they don't feel happy when they have to enjoy their beer themselves. As if it tastes any different if I'd drink one too.
Which isn't going to happen. Beer = puke!

Unless you meant not drink anything. That would indeed be very weird! Might indicate she's an alien scared

Sir's photo
Thu 03/05/26 11:28 AM
:wine_glass: Nothing wrong with A drink.......A drunk, is totally different :dizzy_face::dizzy:

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 03/05/26 03:22 PM
Don't trust anyone under sixty.

Slim gym 's photo
Thu 03/05/26 05:17 PM


never trust a woman who does not drink

Shouldn't that be the other way round? Makes more sense to me.
I btw rarely drink. Have noticed this seems to be a problem for many men. I guess they don't feel happy when they have to enjoy their beer themselves. As if it tastes any different if I'd drink one too.
Which isn't going to happen. Beer = puke!

Unless you meant not drink anything. That would indeed be very weird! Might indicate she's an alien scared



A woman who does not even have a little glass of wine with you , is afraid of getting a loose tongue....perhaps some secrets will pop out... which could go both ways.
And it is stranger... because she mention drinking a glass or two when she is alone at home !! Funny huh !!

Yeah , I am not big on beer ... I prefer the red wine...

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 03/05/26 05:43 PM
Beer is liquid bread.

And right now I think I'll have myself a glass of sandwich.

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 03/05/26 05:45 PM

The future kissed you, called you King. Did she? Deceiver!

And Jacqueline's account has been deactivated.


Hope "she" learned her lesson.

Zee's photo
Thu 03/05/26 06:33 PM


The future kissed you, called you King. Did she? Deceiver!

And Jacqueline's account has been deactivated.

Regulars of Mingle always said that when someone logs out it says the person has deactivated.
I learnt through the years this indeed was the case. And many if not most people always log out.
If this hasn't changed she might just be off to work or asleep.
Don't be so quick to judge.


might I suggest Crystal that you check the actual user's profile first?

User Deactivated
Jacqueline 's account has been deactivated.


typically the above means they've closed their account so Don was definitely correct in his statement

Zee's photo
Thu 03/05/26 06:38 PM

never trust a woman who does not drink



I guess I'm untrustworthy then.. cuz I don't drink

just never really liked the feeling or the taste of alcohol or beer.. so I'm always the designated driver bigsmile

besides.. I figured if I started I'd like it too much and end up becoming an alcoholic laugh

Zee's photo
Thu 03/05/26 06:53 PM

A woman who does not even have a little glass of wine with you , is afraid of getting a loose tongue....perhaps some secrets will pop out...


OMG what total bull chit..
people wanna drink? drink.. me? I don't drink.. period.. and I'll be damned if I let others disrepect or judge me for my choices..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 03/06/26 03:36 AM



never trust a woman who does not drink

Shouldn't that be the other way round? Makes more sense to me.
I btw rarely drink. Have noticed this seems to be a problem for many men. I guess they don't feel happy when they have to enjoy their beer themselves. As if it tastes any different if I'd drink one too.
Which isn't going to happen. Beer = puke!

Unless you meant not drink anything. That would indeed be very weird! Might indicate she's an alien scared



A woman who does not even have a little glass of wine with you , is afraid of getting a loose tongue....perhaps some secrets will pop out... which could go both ways.
And it is stranger... because she mention drinking a glass or two when she is alone at home !! Funny huh !!

Yeah , I am not big on beer ... I prefer the red wine...

I don't drink beer or wine cause I don't like the taste of it and because the alcohol of it gets to me within a few sips.
If I drink 1/5th out of a beer bottle, which is a few sips, I'm almost under the table.
So I don't go there.
Now if it's liqueur... like Sheridan's or Baileys or Kahlua... all coffee flavoured... That I do like. Occasionally.
I do like Irish coffee every now and again. But then the whiskey should be about 1/3 of the default amount that goes in it as again the alcohol will hit me too hard.

But unlike many I do not need alcohol.
I don't need it to have fun and enjoy myself either.
Alcohol only becomes a problem when you have a man in your life as he wants you to drink, even if you don't like it.
I have a porn-free life, as good as alcohol free too, and always a clean loo seat :)
The 3 advantages of not having a man.
Summarised that boils down to men being pigs, haha.

I would love to have a great man in my life, but not the porn, alcohol or peed-on toilet seat. Not sure if that exists...

Zee's photo
Fri 03/06/26 06:22 AM

unlike many I do not need alcohol.
I don't need it to have fun and enjoy myself either.


THIS ^^ fits me to a "T"

Slim gym 's photo
Fri 03/06/26 09:47 AM
What I always say... bottoms up ladies and feel the difference.....
Shout out to all the ladies who have great control over their liquor intake ...and may their tribe increase !!!

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