That I have an age limit for dating? I will be friends with anyone but prefer dating men between the ages of 23 and 35. Do ya'll think I am being too prejudicial?

Hey Suzanne,
If u are comfortable with that age group, thats ur comfort zone, and No, I dont think thats prejudical

Thanks blondguy

I think everyone has the right to determine their own personal standards. Lord knows, everybody gives me enough grief about mine, and I'm not changing them!

The thing is -- you have to know, going in, that there's a possibility that those standards might get in the way of your meeting someone really great.

But no one has the right to tell you your standards are "wrong" -- maybe your standards would be wrong for them, but you have the right to decide what's right for you.

It's really about priorities -- what's most important to you? It's not always going to be the same thing that's most important to the next person. So let them worry about their own priorities and standards, and hopefully, they will leave you alone about yours.

ne time Suzanne,

You need to be comfortable with whom you are dating; what others think is irrelevant. Don't worry, be happy!! I, too, have a comfort zone as I think most people do. I've received emails here from 18-24yo guys and quite frankly, it creeps me out. I'm 41, they could be my children for goodness sake! Can't go there. Do what you feel comfortable with hun.

What Lex said.

most seem to have said about the same..

In one year, I will think that you're too prejudiced. Right now, I think that's a good age range for all the ladies to go for.

I don't think it's wrong. I'll be friends with anyone, but it gives me the willies to think about anything physical happening with anyone old enough to be my dad.

I dont think so. I prefer younger guys or guys RIGHT around my age. Anyone over 35 usually has to have a real outstanding personality for me to take interest.

That's exactly how I feel. It seems like the only people I have to turn down on this site are those old enough to be my father, or sometimes my grandfather

I think when you limit yourself to a certain age group, you might miss out on someone that is just perfect for you. BUT you are the one that has to be willing to feel comfortable with the choices you make. I myself, I believe that age is just a number and no-one should be judged by that. I go by maturity..do they act like someone that I could be happy with?
We all have our comfort zone, so you have to decide where you fit in. Good luck

wow you mean breathing isn't a high enough standard??

NOPE It you choice, and you have an idea for you as what you want. although, you just might find someone your interested in a little older. I have an age limit but it's not set on my profile.

If you don't remember the Beatles or the Vietnam War,, you are too young for me!

My age limit is not on my mail settings. I accept mail from anyone. I am primarily here for friends but I ask that anyone interested in dating be within my age range. Of course maturity plays a part, and I have been known to stray from the range, but 35 is my max because I don't want to date my dad.

There's nothing prejudicial about dating an age group you’re comfortable with, I think everyone does this.

Actually it is probably about to change to 36 when I turn 21 in a few weeks.

But, no. I'm dating over my cut-off. Several years older. I like to think I have these hard set rules, but then make exceptions all the time. This time I did that and it worked out great so far. The last time, not so much.

What is important is to be openminded and treat people as individuals.... yet stay within reason. You have to live with you at the end of the day, not everyone else.