Is it a rat?
Oops ok. I get it. Holiday

Sure why not. Football comes from the heart, and has nothing to do with your nationality

Oh yeah, all them bandwagoners

Well, I support Liverpool since the early 1980s, a certain Kenny Dalglish played for Scotland in the 1982 World Cup, I liked that chap. Always listened to matches on a radio station for the British troops in Germany. And when we won the old UEFA Cup in 2000, in my home town of Dortmund, I was one of the stewards

Talking about, this was the only European final, decided by a Silver Goal.

Up the Unbearables

That explains this topic.

A true polygamist would have to be monogamous × however many wives he had.
Ergo, funny word,if he doesn't stray, he's faithful to all his women.

To each their own... but your definitions do not seem to be correct on what you describe.

It would seem that maybe you meant Monogamy vs Polyamory...




brief definitions: Technically, polyamory means multiple loves and polygamy means multiple spouses. Polyamory is a form of consensual non-monogamy (CNM) with emotionally intimate relationships among multiple people that can also be sexual and/or romantic partners. In its most common form, polygamy is actually polygyny, in which one man marries multiple women.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201807/what-is-the-difference-between-polyamory-and-polygamy

Different partnerships work well for different people. Not everyone is built for monogamous relationships. High divorce rates, reports of infidelity, and sexual boredom are reasons I am in opposition to monogamy. Monogamy seems to be outdated, unnatural, and restrictive. People share more companionship,and ongoing sexual variety which are upsides of polygamous relationships. Lying, deceit, and sneaking around which occurs with unfaithful individuals is wholly different from a consensual partnership with more than two individuals and may even relieve stress. I would think most people could be happier if we stopped trying to make one person our everything and learned that our own self worth is more than enough!

Why focus on flaws and weaknesses? Everyone will have some, but aren't you more interested what a great person someone is than to know what their perceived flaw is?
Because often it is perceived: what you consider a weakness I may not. What one considers an annoying weakness may not bother another in the slightest.

I've noticed often men ask this question. Men often come up with these 'head' questions, as if it's a job interview or a mental way to get a connection. Now that is very masculine energy based, but to be honest very unempowered masculine to use in this area of life.

Back to 'weaknesses'... if that makes up 0,5% of someone's character why focus on that and make that bigger when there's a 99,5% which is great! And even it it was 10%...
I feel you set yourself up for disaster with that question.
I think many ask it as they're in their head, wanting to check if the woman is honest or able to come up with a prize-winning reply. In other words: a test. Men like tests & competition, women don't, unless she's very masculine energy based.

Humm back in the day when the site first started as JustSayHi we had a lot of regulars in the forums as we do now.. Just happen a lot of them was from Texas... So after realizing many of us was from the same state I created a thread in the Texas Forum for us all to get to know one another.. Back then we all posted in it daily..

https://static1.mingle2.com/images/users/3/77/37031700_9799.jpg?1571950472

After a while I suggested a meet I actually held the first meet at my house.. This was after we all had talked to each other for some time in that thread and exchanged numbers ect.. It was set up that everyone pitched in on the food cost and it was BYOB type thing and your blankets & pillows for we made it a sleep over since Texas is a big state and to make the cost lower for those that might have too much to drink.. lol

Our first meet was around 10 that showed up we had a blast after that more joined in and others offered their place to have the meet.. One year we all went to Palo Duro Canyon rented two cabins put all the guys in one and the women in the other. We split the cost between those that showed up. We all went as friends.. some at times did end up dating..

So I suggest if your into meeting others make a effort and try to meet others even as friends at times.. If you live close set up a lunch date.. to get to know each other.. One reason dating local only helps, you get to meet others face to face.. that tells more then chatting back and forth for months..

Remembering peoples names...I try to associate a new name with someone I know with the same name. Seems to help!

So, basically, love didn't make you miserable?
It was your own expectations of love which made you miserable, right?
So, if you are/were miserable, it wasn't love it was you making yourself miserable?
Erm, is that right?
Help me understand...