Hummmmm so what do you do when a friend brings up a subject about going somewhere with them and you agree but..at the last minute they seem to forget they even brought it up to you. Yet they in fact end up going without you.



Then your left there saying WTF?..............

Do you let them have it in a nonchalant way?

Do you let them have it full blast?

Or just ignore it and write it off?

Will you ever agree to go with them again later?


Guess I should clarify this one say they mentioned you going on a trip with them. And it was brought up more then once then you call them the morning of the trip and well they are already 2-3 hours down the road Hummm seems they did not think you would want to get up that early and go But did not even call to ask

seriously,from a father whos been thru the court system,and taken a lot of crap,you Need a lawyer and Every bit of paperwork.
it took me almost two years to get everything done for my daughter.
this was way back in 99/2000

if it wasnt for the social services actually stepping up and telling the Judge how the scene really was,i probably would not have gotten my daughter.
even tho,i was the primary parent all those years,and my daughter Wanted to be with me.
thats how biased the courts were.
keep in mind i raised her all the way,until the divorce,and then got her back a year later,at most. ( TG )
im just Glad that i got her,and lets not even discuss the child support ha..

now,my daughters 18,out on her own,got job,car,place of her own..shes Making it ..im Proud of her..she managed to survive our problems/ex-n-mine,and become a Great person.


Ppprgy,
those promises your ex made,well they arent worth spit..as im sure you know.
get it on Paper...change your locks too.
and,personally,the 08 truck would be sold..trade it in,or sold.
if shes not helping with the kids,then she dont need no truck.
that van scene should be done asap as well.
heres hoping that the truck isnt in her name as well.

good luck with the daughters feelings..very dicey situation there.
make Sure that you dont argue or badmouth each other in front of the kids..they dont need that.
again,i advise you to get a lawyer,and if you cant afford one,go see social services they will help you if you are doing the right thing.
some lawyers will actually take these cases just to see the right thing for the kid happen.
just my .02

so,do whatever is Best for your Kids.
and Good Luck

Yep, you should not be told you're ignorant or anything else negative just because you decide not to date someone with a disability. Nor should you be given a hard time for choosing to date someone with a disability.

And all I am saying Shadow, is that you have
severely limited yourself to your own backyard.
And it seems to be very small.
What you want might be somewhere out there.
But you say "Someone I will never meet."
Who says so? The tomcat Oracle?
Have you seen the # of couples on here who
started out thousands of miles apart?
They probably made all the statements you are making.
Until they took the blinders off.
And fell in love.
You know, that emotional attachment chit

ohhh but some think they can meet right? lets say florida and washington.. long ways away .. some could make it possible yet others cant... maybe it is confusion and different thoughts? if you cant get to them... then find out if they can get to you.. if not clearly state no to them... that u only want to be friends..or just they arent your type or whatever it is.. just say no...

im confused.. didnt u live in california, and move to idaho for someone u met on the internet? thought it was your sons mother?

From now on, I'm going to be very cautious who I talk to and how involved I get, and how quickly, because it hurts like **** when the other person gets bored, or decides it's just the internet, or they don't have time or whatever. This might be a virtual world, but there are real people on the other end, and real people do get hurt.

Well I have become very emotionally attacthed to someone
in another state. Been writting and flirting for 8 going on 9
months. Matter of fact, I fell in love with him. I had hopes and
dreams of meeting him come spring. Talked about meeting someday.
Who says you can't ever meet?

Perhaps its not for you and thats ok. I sure wish I lived in the
same state as him though. It would be so much easier. If love and
mutual feelings exsist, then travel is worth the risk. If a person
has no intentions of ever meeting someone from another state-
then they should be up front and honest about it. Woman get
emotionally attached and men sometimes don't understand that.
If a person is'nt up front about it and continues the flirting-
well that can be considered leading them on.

Just recently he has backed away all the sudden, leaving the site and deactivating.
Said he did'nt have time for the computor anymore. He wrote me back on yahoo,
but I get the feeling he is saying goodbye without saying it.
Perhaps he can't see a relationship through long distance either and just wants to stay friends.
I am crushed. I had gotton used to his letters and nudges coming
in very regularly and now its empty and gone.

Flirting and conversating over a long time can lead to feelings,
and unless you make it perfectly clear that you just want to remain
friends from the start. Things will happen. This is a dating site.
Sorry for the long response, this post just hit a nerve in me.
This may be the net but we are still real people behind these
screens with real feelings. Some of us are looking for that
someone special.

JMO


Oh and Shadow good to see you.

Confess that your pic is 15 years younger and 140 pounds thinner. Tell her that while you do enjoy the freedom of living in your mother's basement and dancing to Cyndie Lauper tunes in your mom's heels, hose and wedding dress. It is time for you to pursue a higher standard in life and that you want to live in your new love's basement and dance to Cyndie Lauper tunes in HER heels, hose and wedding dress.

That should solve your problem.

Now, let's crank up "Shebop" and get down!

I have never experienced what you have, however after chatting with someone every night for 5 months, one does tend to get attached.

It sucks, but it does happen.

Yeah, it happened to me, he turned out to be a psycho and I had to delete my messenger account to get rid of him. The only times I've ever gotten emotionally attached to someone online was when I was stupid enough to believe him when he told me he was emotionally attached to me. Never again.

Maybe you should be more careful about spending too much time talking to them? Many people mistake time spent for feelings shared, when a lot of the time, the other person is just there cause they're bored, not cause they give a damn personally.

Well...you couldn't have the goatee or mustache and would probably have to pluck your eyebrows and stuff a bra and do a little tucking, but sure...maybe not as much attention as SOME, but I bet you'd get attention lol