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Topic: Who are the worst hit in divorce;men or women?
uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Thu 09/12/13 01:00 AM
Divorce and separation is increasing daily among couples worldwide.Who actually loses at last,the man or the woman,who regrets the action more?

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Thu 09/12/13 01:26 AM
It all depends, every relationship is different as is each person, but usually it's the children who get mucked around the most.

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Thu 09/12/13 01:39 AM
Yea,the children suffer but one person could secretly weep and regret the mess afterward.its important to state it here so that any person contemplating divorce will have a rethink.who feels the impact adversely more?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Thu 09/12/13 02:08 AM
I would say women, but I've also heard of men who were devastated. And being upset about a divorce doesn't mean you regret it by the way. Even if you did want the divorce, or don't regret it, you will need time to recover, let go and to find your feet again.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Thu 09/12/13 02:21 AM
In my opinion it depends who loved the most. Who has the most to loose.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Thu 09/12/13 02:38 AM
In my opinion it depends who loved the most. Who has the most to loose. Don't agree. Let's say the one that loved the most loses the least so his/her life doesn't change all that much, other than the person he/she loved has gone. He/she might get over it quite easily, a smooth process, only having to deal with the loss of the partner. The other that loved the least, could lose the most and have his/her life change completely. If he/she cannot cope with that, the person that loved the least, could end up suffering for a much longer time and have lots of regrets.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Thu 09/12/13 02:53 AM
Its a forum, each to their own :)

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 09/12/13 11:23 AM
It all depends, every relationship is different as is each person, but usually it's the children who get mucked around the most. Thats right, think of the children,I think thats why i've become very picky these days, I want the children to go to a good home every other weekend

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 09/12/13 11:33 AM Edited by navygirl on Thu 09/12/13 11:38 AM
Divorce and separation is increasing daily among couples worldwide.Who actually loses at last,the man or the woman,who regrets the action more? I would think the men lose more financially but I suspect women lose more emotionally. However; what the hell do I know?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 09/12/13 11:41 AM
Divorce and separation is increasing daily among couples worldwide.Who actually loses at last,the man or the woman,who regrets the action more? The children....

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Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14476	Thu 09/12/13 11:55 AM
Divorce and separation is increasing daily among couples worldwide.Who actually loses at last,the man or the woman,who regrets the action more? Both partners loose at last! I think men regret it more.

katskary Joined Mon 08/26/13 Posts: 178	Thu 09/12/13 11:58 AM
i think it can b any, the man, woman or kids. depends on how each viewed the family.

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Thu 09/12/13 12:45 PM
Divorce and separation is increasing daily among couples worldwide.Who actually loses at last,the man or the woman,who regrets the action more? The woman in the aftermath of a divorce will never say,"My husband got the house, the car, the bank accounts, and if I marry Gin and have children, he gets them too."

lilott Joined Thu 10/12/06 Posts: 2295	Thu 09/12/13 01:09 PM
Divorce and separation is increasing daily among couples worldwide.Who actually loses at last,the man or the woman,who regrets the action more? The woman in the aftermath of a divorce will never say,"My husband got the house, the car, the bank accounts, and if I marry Gin and have children, he gets them too." Wrong. I've been married and divorced twice and in both instances I came out with the houses and most possessions.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Thu 09/12/13 01:26 PM
Divorce and separation is increasing daily among couples worldwide.Who actually loses at last,the man or the woman,who regrets the action more? ME, DAMIT !!!

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Thu 09/12/13 01:49 PM Edited by ridewytepony on Thu 09/12/13 01:50 PM
Divorce and separation is increasing daily among couples worldwide.Who actually loses at last,the man or the woman,who regrets the action more? The woman in the aftermath of a divorce will never say,"My husband got the house, the car, the bank accounts, and if I marry Gin and have children, he gets them too." Wrong. I've been married and divorced twice and in both instances I came out with the houses and most possessions. well they sure weren't very good housekeepers then,neither was mine but a hell of a good aviator,so she got the plane...lucky for her, cuz she was no G__ __ DAM GOOD ON EARTH

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Thu 09/12/13 02:35 PM Edited by sparkyae5 on Thu 09/12/13 02:37 PM
to ......leigh2154.......correct......the kids take the biggest hit in most cases.....

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Thu 09/12/13 05:31 PM
Everyone that said the children are absolutely correct. What they (sometimes) went through and what they will go through for years is no comparison to what the parents will or did go through. They usually recover, in their own fashion. Children will lose out all their lives in many cases. I certainly did when mine divorced and all I had was the choice of 2 A-holes to choose from...If I had been several years older, I would have gone off alone.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 09/12/13 05:43 PM
What a stupid fn question... Who gets hurt worse? Who gets hurt more when they get hit with a bat? Who gets hurt worse when they realize Santa and the Easter bunny are lies? Jeezus....you know who really hurts? Me! I lost IQ points just reading this dumbschitt. What's next? Who hurts more from getting run over by a car?....cats or dogs? Pain is pain...and if you are too dumb to know this...you don't need a lover...you need 5 pounds of common sense.