it's not all abt losers and winners,
it's all abt money :-) everyone in this world works for money and if someone do sex for money whats wrong in that

All they know how to do? I doubt that. If you have the physical ability to have sex you have the ability to do many jobs. Maybe not glamorous or easy jobs but certainly safer and with more future.

I know some people get into this line of work because they can make more money at it. They look at flipping burgers for minimum wage and probably barely getting by or getting paid for sex where they can possibly make more in a week then they could a year flipping burgers.

I know of a story of a girl who in college was doing a research paper on prostitution and became one herself. Probably because she found out how much money she could make doing it. Things did not end well for her though. She was murdered. I don't recall the whole story. Just it was on an episode of Cold Case Files or some other true crime show I watched.

I am unconventional.

I don't think its any better or worse than any other 'casual' sex

I don't think its worse than giving it away for free, certainly

If a person has "safer" sex, I use the term very guardedly here because safer sex still has it's risks then yes it is a choice that two consenting adults make. I may find it morally repugnant but then that would be hardly unique to prostitution.

What bothers me about prostitution it IS about winners and losers.

Prostitution rarely occurs in a vacume. And rarely is it just two consenting adults involved.

Most prostitutes are induced to prostitution my being forced into it to survive as minors, drugs, and violence and the knowledge that once it is done it will be held over them with family, friends, future employers, and potential mates virtually the rest of their lives. Nobody takes complete pride in saying their child, sibling, parent, lover, or spouse is a prostitute.

Even prostitutes who feign that it is just "easy" money... no "biggy" have the highest rates of self mutilation, addiction, depression, premature ageing, cancer, eating disorders, traumatic brain injury, gunshot injuries, knife assaults, suicide, and murder of almost any other semi-documented profession. That doesn't even take into account incarceration and those attending miseries. Rough estimates suggest that for every year a person prostitutes themselves they foreshorten their life by a decade. That alone is a pretty high cost of doing business at supposedly a "survival" job.

And what about the many "John's" in fact have other partners that they take their exposure home to. Innocents that have no say or knowledge that they are at risk until it is way too late. The betrayal is real and so are the health consequences that often result in illness and death of parents and sometimes the neglect and displacement of children. The number of Johns who have hepatitis, liver and kidney failure, depression, alcoholism, and head injuries or mutilations related to an angry prostitute or pimp and can never work again is not a miniscule expense to the victims or society. So consent is well not really consent.

Use of prostitutes is rarely a line item agreed on expense weather it is a spouse that has their budget reduced, employer that is having an expense account padded, or a tax payer who is footing the bill for medical and policing expenses, or a neighborhood where property values and safety are compromised by the illegal activity. Whore houses don't do a lot for property value and many landlords never see a dime in rent when the prostitute gets busted or just decides to move on. Cops and other helping professionals who are distracted from needs not self induced by prostitution have resources drained away from real victims and people who deserve the help they are in need of.

Prostitution is not even victimless on their side. Rarely do prostitutes have even the minimum of employment benefits. They can not guarantee they will even be paid and who are they going to go to if they aren't, or they are injured, or left half dead. Not like they can file a workman's compensation claim or unemployment or collect social security from their wages. They have to hide their income and can be prosecuted for non-payment of taxes if someone wants to challenge their cash assets.

So yea there ARE lots of losers in prostitution and it is not a victimless crime.

Hi i want sex weth mony.

this is what I think, sex is sex, casual sex is casual and carries all the risks whether it ends in a payment or a courtship

I totally understand why escorts do what they do, I Think prostitutes' take too much of a risk and don't understand why they pay their earnings to a third person,,,

given the choice to work 15 or 20 hours at an activity that was a regular part of ones life anyway, and earn five to ten times as much as working forty to sixty hours . many are going to choose fewer hours and more money doing something they enjoy,,,

and if there is no stigma in having sex,,,,,as long as its consensual,,, its just another consensual way of having it

I agree with you. I do look at prostitution as higher risk as they are getting paid for sex several times a day possibly and by men they probably most often know little to nothing about. Another thing is they even if the prostitute gets tested on a regular basis. Who is to say that her customers are getting tested. It only takes one time to make that mistake that messes up your life forever or shortens it very quickly.