if you have a fight with her try not to infront of the kids thats hard
on them. i am a single mom and i find it hard.

i say age is just a number and in a relationship you treet each other
with respect and love. my boyfriend is 9yrs older than me and he treets
me like a princass

depressed

depressed

the nurce only comes over once a month and that was ok but i have moved
out on my own and they want me to try getting my baby used to it being
just me and her see how it gose but i find it hard. thank you

the nurce only comes over once a month and that was ok but i have moved
out on my own and they want me to try getting my baby used to it being
just me and her see how it gose but i find it hard. thank you

if i could change one thing about myself i would chang the depression.

one more question is it wrong to let a child cry? when i try to get
chloe to nap she crys untill i give in and get her up and it makes it a
long day because she wont nap and bed time its the same she always wants
to stay up. Anyone got any advice?

well its posable but you both have to work at it. put all you can into
showing each other how you feal and i am shour it well be ok. also like
it was said the guy comes to you first in plubic. i am in a relationship
and the guy i am seeing lives 3 hours away we see each other every 2
weeks and its working out good. but best of luck to you.

thank you all

its been a ruff day with the little one today. i tryed to put her on
time out and thats a joke to her she just looks at me and laughts. so i
thought hey she cant get out of the play pin i well use it for time out
but that did not work either. she looked at me and spit in my face now
somebody had to of shown her that??? well i know shes not picking this
up of other kids there are no other kids around my place. anybody got
advice on how to get her to stop spiting i dont want her to do that when
we go out?? thank you all

thank you and maby thats it i am scard of getting hurt again for me and
my daugther but thank you.

thank you all i knew raseing a child was not easy but i have leart so
much more i love my daugther.(Chloe mommy loves you baby) i would not
trade her for anything in the world. and best of luck to all you single
moms or single dads even. i am glad you all can give your advice to me
and thank you.

Emotional Turbulance see i had him supervised but when we went to cort
and i got full costy he got every second weekend with her under one
condesion and that is that he can not drink or do drugs while shes with
him but i know he dose but dont got the proof i need to go back to cort
i have been in contacked my lawyer but i have to have more on him to
stop him and set it back to supervised visets.

thank you daniel it is nice to hear that i am doing good. i try so hard
to make my little girl happy. but i am only 21 and doing it alone is
hard. i get her on the right track then its time to send her to her dads
for the weekend. then she comes home on sunday and its hell all over
again. like last week she came home and when her father left she cryed
and called me a mean mommy. it hurt to hear my baby say that but to show
him i am better than him i well not tell her to say bad things about him
and if i have something to say about him i dont do it around her. but
thank you all on here you advice dose help

thank you every body for your help

could my depression be making my baby scared or feal alone? because i
dont know alot about the depression but i have been thinking about it.

and yes i do have a nurse come see my daugther and myslef but i asked
for that on my own because at 14 i found out i had the depression
problem and it got worce after i had been with my daugthers dad. i fealt
i needed the nurse it gave me some one to talk to and ask question.

thank you all for your advice

thank you all and i well take the advice and put it to good use. thanks

thank you barbies big sister. i do find it hard being a single mom and
just 2 weeks ago i move out of my parents home and got my own place and
now my little one runs around screaming for my mom because my mom gives
her every thing she wants and it makes it worce. but thank you and i
well try the time out

she is a toldler and i know i have things to deal with but is it normal
for a baby to cry all night and be a sleep the whole time, and she has
gave me a black eye and a blodie knose and i never did that to my mom.
realy i dont know if she still sees her dad beating on his new
girlfriend or what but i think there is a little more to this than a
tipcal tolders temper.

but thank you for you advice and i do have public health nurce that come
to see me and my little girl