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Am I too blunt??
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Nope,but depending on how you feelabout him maybe you just could of ignored those WORDS.... because that's all it is. Loving someone is all about showing & there really is no time frame on LOVING someone  you're absolutely right there is no time frame but i never gave any indication that i had any feelings like that and if someone asks me something i am honest to the point where some might consider me rude lol...(in other words i'm the friend you should not take to pick out wedding dresses if you don't want the truth) i guess the crazy thing about the whole thing is that in the being i told him i was looking for anything long term and i wasn't looking for commitment. friends with benefits was completely fine with me...he ended up wanting something more that i could not give him Then if he really cares foryou loves you.....then he will be your friend otherwise just let it go. Never change who you are......I am the same way & You either LOVE me or HATE me lol there really isno inbetween!  well he had to go...if you're going to take the time to post crazy stuff about me on facebook then you're no longer benefical to me as lover or friend |
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Love can be the most beautiful gift or the ultimate weapon
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RIGHT PERSON FOR U
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i found such a person in 2000, and i will never find that person again, sadly. unfortunately, i was married at the time, and could not act on my instincts. my honor would not allow it. was i honorable,,,or a coward? Def honor 
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Am I too blunt??
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Nope,but depending on how you feelabout him maybe you just could of ignored those WORDS.... because that's all it is. Loving someone is all about showing & there really is no time frame on LOVING someone you're absolutely right there is no time frame but i never gave any indication that i had any feelings like that and if someone asks me something i am honest to the point where some might consider me rude lol...(in other words i'm the friend you should not take to pick out wedding dresses if you don't want the truth) i guess the crazy thing about the whole thing is that in the being i told him i was looking for anything long term and i wasn't looking for commitment. friends with benefits was completely fine with me...he ended up wanting something more that i could not give him |
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Am I too blunt??
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thanks everybody for ur replies lol nice to know i am normal!! i thought about how i could have flipped out on him but i was trying to be all adult about it...
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Topic:
Am I too blunt??
Edited by
ashryn
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Sat 04/21/12 09:51 PM
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So I was dating a guy for about a month and a half. We saw each other once a week if that because we are both busy plus he traveled for work. Out of the blue he sent me a text saying he loved me...and I replied I'm flattered however I don't feel that way right now and I also told him I didn't think he really felt that way either. I told him maybe he liked me alot, maybe even infatuated but I did not believe he loved me considering we saw each other probably five times and each time it was just a few hours. He acted like he was okay with it but then he started writing crappy statuses on facebook about me so I cut him off. I told him I would be his friend but nothing more not even an occasional toss in the sheets out of sheer bordom...was I too blunt??     well i think you were strait forward ,you told him how you felt and if the guy did love you like he said he did, then he would not write bad things on facebook lolll he sounds like a kid sorry to say:) loll cause a person that loves someone and then the next minute after you tell him how you feel he turns on you hahaha no way thats love unless a sick kind of love :) you did the right thing by moving on my sweet friend:)   PS I sure hope not about the toss in sheets:)  lol hello loves...you always make my days brighter when i read the stuff you write...and no worries no tossing on the sheets bahaha!!
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Topic:
Am I too blunt??
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So I was dating a guy for about a month and a half. We saw each other once a week if that because we are both busy plus he traveled for work. Out of the blue he sent me a text saying he loved me...and I replied I'm flattered however I don't feel that way right now and I also told him I didn't think he really felt that way either. I told him maybe he liked me alot, maybe even infatuated but I did not believe he loved me considering we saw each other probably five times and each time it was just a few hours. He acted like he was okay with it but then he started writing crappy statuses on facebook about me so I cut him off. I told him I would be his friend but nothing more not even an occasional toss in the sheets out of sheer bordom...was I too blunt??
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Lords of the Underworld series by Gena Showalter
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Hahaha....well, everybody has to have that one special talent I guess. Mine, unfortunately, is sticking my fist in my mouth.It serves absolutely no purpose. LMAO thats funny because i figured out i could still do that one day while i was at working being stupid with co workers lol |
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never go to bed angry at each other :)
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DOES AGE REALLY MATTER?:-(
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i guess it would depend how much you really have in common and if its enough to build a solid relationship on. good luck :)
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ravished
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Brains or Braun?
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idk really...they don't have to be overly smart because that can be a bit intimidating and as far as braun...as long as they are not in the mirror more than me its okay heck maybe they can help me stick to my excercise plan better then i do now lol...its fun getting in shape the someone else as long as they don't make excercise consume their every moment in life.
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maybe he just worded it wrong. maybe he is attracted to white women in general. everyone has their attractions, right? i'm attracted to asians but then i am also attracted to accents. They are not requirements but they are things that make me take notice. Kind of like seeing a shirt in your favorite sytle and color. Does that make sense?? lol  yup Thanks
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21 yrs old
dated for 7 months and then got married were married for 9 years and still friends :) |
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i don't like when i call for my daughter to come her and she yells "What!" Then I'm grrr...i said come here not yell what! i also don't like when people talk in third person.."me going here, me do that," me me me Damn it i see that a lot on face book. and then there is the status where i feel like i need a special dictionary to read them because they spell words wrong or making up different ways to spell stuff. let me give u an example: "Gotta give credit' whens credits due flat out.just woke up from a nap bout to slide in this water && go to tha wifeys && chill for a lil while.had a babii hangova today but ima drink lite tonite chasen it wit red bull *fyl*"
translation----what?? |
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maybe he just worded it wrong. maybe he is attracted to white women in general. everyone has their attractions, right? i'm attracted to asians but then i am also attracted to accents. They are not requirements but they are things that make me take notice. Kind of like seeing a shirt in your favorite sytle and color. Does that make sense?? lol
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I grew up in a neighborhood full of boys so we were always wrestling and fighting and nobody ever held back because I was a girl...I learned to fight dirty and fight to win...I have a daughter and when we are horsing around i teach a few things here and there that I have picked up over the years. I'm 4'll" so not only did i have to worry about weight of a person but also their reach...so I learned to be quick and I learned to take a hit because be able to take a hit is just as important as learning to avoid one
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Child Psychology
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lol its there way of figuring out their bodies. They will stick things up their nose, ears, and even eat things just to see if they can. As children develop their bodies are changing and for them that is an ever curious thing. i had a kid in one of my pre-k class eat a crayon and was fascinated when he had colorful poop! However he did figure out that it wasn't worth eating the crayon to see that again...he had a tummy ache for a little bit :)
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Our greatest fear
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greatest fear?? lightning...
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