I once had a guy tell me that all he cared about was making me happy. And i said "Well tough guy, you need to find a hobby". I just think it's preposterous. My life is outstanding in every way. If i have someone to cuddle at nite, that's cool. But if not, that's cool too, cuz i have two kickass puppies.

Of course it bothers me - i am in love with Chase....and i miss him dearly, not enough airtime!!

Am i the only one who does not believe in the whole "soul mate" thing? Everyone keeps saying they are looking for their "one true love". Personally, i think that's putting a lot of pressure on another person. I have no desire to be a "one true love" - and i am not looking to "complete" anybody. I have multiple soul mates - everyone who contributes to my life in a big way is a soul mate in my book. Does anyone agree with me?

unsure - you have no idea how many times i have had to stop myself, take a deep breath and step away from my computer....

i ignore messages that have a lot of words spelled wrong. it just eats away at my soul and i can't formulate a response.

spoken like a true dispatcher! you win - cops love dispatchers!

haha - i didn't actually get forked - but it was close. i was on duty and a 14-year-old maniac threw a fork at me. luckily i'm a pretty good ducker!

well, now that was a poor example - i didn't exactly need backup for a fork. surely you can come up with better justification for your existence than that....

typical dispatcher....running her mouth when she doesn't know what's going on....sheesh! Oh, burn!

Dude...i have no idea....

Oh, but the part where she breaks his feet - ahhh! I have to look away every time....

oh sure....tease a girl, make her think she can get some from her Tivo and then drop the bomb - i see how you are....

Channels should not be allowed to go off air. That is ghetto.

um...you need to come to my house right now and show me how to program it....

My Tivo is my BFF - i work nites, so he takes care of all my business for me - i wind down at 6AM with greys anatomy, csi....i would like to marry my Tivo - but i don't want to live in a sexless marriage, so....

Volcanos? That's nothing. I've got Fresh Prince on right now. Um....what year is this....how old am i....?

I've got plenty more! It's always a party at my house!

hell yeah i finished that pitcher - can i just tell you that i make the BEST margaritas ever?!? and Dreyers makes really good mango ice cream....life is good, ladies and gents....

Dude - ice cream - good call! Mango ice cream....mmmm....

Ummm...i hate to be the bearer of bad news, but of course looks matter. I like intelligence and a sense of humor. But i am not going to sleep with someone i am not attracted too. He will be placed in the "friend" category. The good news is, attractiveness is a quality that means different things to different people. One girls circus freak is another girls prince charming. As for money - i bust my ass at work and you need to do the same. I am a college educated police officer - i am not going to date a high school dropout who works at McDonalds. It has nothing to do with my being "better" than anyone else. It's just the way it is.