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a question for men
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I am fine with any info, but I don't care to hear about a menstruation Cycle, I was raised by my mom and shared the bathroom with my sister. A girls period doesn't bug me at all (except the smell sometimes). Oops TMI. |
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a question for men
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yup im awake and as usual have a question lol.  How much info is too much info. Ex: Last night I was talking to this guy(if your reading this your just an example :) ) and I kept saying brb. Well I told him sorry I just pee alot. He said that was a lot of information. Well I know I didn't even think about what I said. So how much information is too much. Where do you draw the line?   LOL, what a jerk, OMG you pee? Guys want this perfect unreal angel and you just destroyed it for him. You should have just said good night to him right there. I don't draw the line. There is nothing experienced in life I could not handle. |
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It is all part of God's greater plan. don't question God.
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another piece of advice
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Were they from Africa by chance?
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So now what???
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Do you have anything else in the oven? Why the backing away?
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What should I do?
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Never make someone a priority that only makes you an option... Nicely said.... I don't get it. It sounds very zen-like but I don't get it. |
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What should I do?
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You just start looking for other women. Why do you need to say anything to her. BTW, some women like guys who are aloof and play hard to get.
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finding a man is not easy,
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I usually find mine under rocks Oh jeez, I thought that 'r' was a 'c'. |
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I don't get it
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I did explain why I had to log off. Oh well.  He should go get some porn and deactivate. Can you imagine what happens down the road with this guy? |
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I don't get it
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I did explain why I had to log off. Oh well. Good, then you showed concern for their feelings and he was an idiot if he kept on thinking you were "not interested". Just move on to someone else, you don't need those mental issues. |
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Definitely no note. You need to show confidence to her. That note will not do it.
"Something about her reaches deeper than any other girl has in 6 years..." You are building her up too much in your mind and making this more difficult than it should be. How would you ask a guy you just met to do something? Think that as it will help you get over your mind game. After you talk more if you still like her start the fuse to the fireworks. |
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I don't get it
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You can't see the other person. You must build a picture of them as you talk back and forth. Otherwise the person is seemingly unreal. So this guy drew a picture in his mind that you were angry or whatever and logged out.
Tell them you had to take care of your kids (or whatever) and keep talking. Correct their visual picture. |
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marriage
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Great post laughsandgiggles, I agree too.
It would be interesting to compare the divorce rates with the rates of separation in couples who only lived together. Which one really works? I would bet that marriage would win out despite people saying, things like things change, never again, etc. Has their live-in relationships really fared any better? |
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Dog Lover's
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How is a woman to deal with a man that want's his dog to sleep in bed with the two of you? Explain that you do not want that to happen. If he doesn't see your viewpoint and insists on it then you have little to do. Accept it or do not sleep with him any longer. |
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i do what i want when i want and no one is going to tell me what to do. regardless of whether its a man or family or friends Thats not a healthy viewpoint. I am done in this thread. |
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I don't make animal's my priority, human's are. Animal's are just that, animal's. No, they are not disposible. But human's are more important to me than animal's. That's exactly how I feel. She gave up a marriage from what she described. Later she said the dogs would always be there for her. Well, I marry for life. My wife is going to be there for me. I will be there for her. I would find an excellent loving home for the pets and then live a fantastic life with the person I love. I wouldn't have done what this guy did. Still if my fiance said the same thing as that guy I'd get rid of the dogs. |
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Who did you love more? The dogs or him? I think the dogs. I don't know too many people that would like that be they men or women. Maybe you should just wait until you are finished with the dogs. I don't think it would be fair to them if you shared your love and house with someone else. umm how the heck can you compare the love for a dog with the love you have for your significant other?? Yes the dogs will always win, because they will ALWAYS be there... no matter what. SO youre telling me that its a choice, a bf or my dogs? You must be insane but fine if it truly is that way then dogs it is I'm gonna be the crazy weiner lady and you know what i'll probably be happier with them then with any man. I was being sarcastic as I personally think your priorities are screwed up. Do what makes you happy. I am glad you are thinking about how much you love your pets. I love animals too. I would not choose them over humans but that's me. |
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I can understand the guys frustrations. You want the dogs over him. Wouldn't that naturally bother anyone? I hate the idea of an ultimatum though that was stupid of him. Still refusing to give your dogs away to good homes? It's not like he was asking you to put them down. Hope you find someone who loves dogs and can accept the dogs are more important. Keep looking and you will find him. Sorry DD. I strongly disagree with this one. Refusing to give them away to a good home IS like asking you to put them down. You have to understand, to some people, the dogs are like their children. Would you want someone telling you that to be with them , you would have to get rid of your kids? Again, telling someone that to be with them, you have to get rid of your pets is just another way of controlling that person. After making them get rid of the pets, then it's a natural progression to not wanting them to hang out with friends that were there before them. After that...it's family. I respect your disagreeing with me however to me they are canines. They are not children. Others can love and care for the animals. That's how I am. This is how she is and that's ok. I understand what her boyfriend likely felt. I can't fault him. She can. You can(?). OK with me. |
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I can understand the guys frustrations. You want the dogs over him. Wouldn't that naturally bother anyone? I hate the idea of an ultimatum though that was stupid of him. Still refusing to give your dogs away to good homes? It's not like he was asking you to put them down. Hope you find someone who loves dogs and can accept the dogs are more important. Keep looking and you will find him. i never said their more important but i refuse to give them up for 3 reasons. 1. i promised when i got them that they'd live out their lives with me no matter what 2. i dont like being told what to do 3. i love them I also had the dogs BEFORE the guy... so he met me with them... how can you tell someone to change something that was there before you were? Who did you love more? The dogs or him? I think the dogs. I don't know too many people that would like that be they men or women. Maybe you should just wait until you are finished with the dogs. I don't think it would be fair to them if you shared your love and house with someone else. |
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I can understand the guys frustrations. You want the dogs over him. Wouldn't that naturally bother anyone?
I hate the idea of an ultimatum though that was stupid of him. Still refusing to give your dogs away to good homes? It's not like he was asking you to put them down. Hope you find someone who loves dogs and can accept the dogs are more important. Keep looking and you will find him. |
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