Um...it's an old post folks. Maybe she and Cherry hooked up but she is deactive, gone, vamoose, nothing to see, hasta luego, don't let the door hit ya, exit stage left, later, out of here, bye bye.

Oh jeez, I thought the title was Call Girl looking to chat.

I'm more curious who's crushes have changed since the beginning of this thread.

A gay blind virgin.

I prefer the Triangle Theory of Love. If one or more element is missing the love can only go so far.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangular_theory_of_love

There are three elements to love:
Intimacy, Passion and Commitment.

The three elements combine into different forms of love. Going in and out of the 3 elements is what causes the end or start of a particular type of love.

There is nonlove, liking/friendship, infatuated love, empty love, romantic love, companionate love, fatuous love, and the ultimate - consummate love.

Why does love stop? A lack of passion, intimacy or commitment.

Sexual innuendo.
"Mmm, he has a good looking bat."
If that doesn't work go for the kill.
"Damn, I'm horny tonight. Oh I'm sorry...*girl laugh* you must think something awful of me."

OK, if he doesn't pick it up from there and you start a dialog you just got cold cocked. If he does keep the convo going.

Kinda one of those WOW I didn't know that things. I didn't know it was that prevalent.

"One out of five adolescents and adults, have had genital HSV infection. Over the past decade, the percent of Americans with genital herpes infection in the U.S. has decreased.

Genital HSV-2 infection is more common in women (approximately one out of four women) than in men (almost one out of eight). This may be due to male-to-female transmission being more likely than female-to-male transmission"
http://www.cdc.gov/std/Herpes/STDFact-Herpes.htm#common

Yup that openness which is great.

I couldn't take the sharing myself but I the communication is something everyone needs. I'd talk to her about things or if you just want to have fun go there.

Are you afraid of what others think, your heart being broke, or being used? Is talking to her too far out of reach right now as I think that is the thing to do. G/L!

Way worse than this.

Keys.
Costco membership card.
Von's card.
Driver's license.
Credit card.
Student ID.
Passport card.
Mentos.
Lip balm.
Pen and pencil(lead is always broke on it).
iPod.
Cell phone.
Moisturizer.
Highlighter(pink, orange, and yellow)
Neosporin in a red plastic thingamajig where i can keep bandages too.
Whistle(except the ball fell out so now it's useless).
Cologne.

You know scratch the whistle just tossed it.

Next time he does it tell him he is doing it again and to knock it off. If someone says something I find troubling I tell them off the bat. Things that fester don't tend to go away.

You:"That bothers me when you say _____________ please don't do that."
They: "Why does that bother you?" or "You are acting that way because _________"
You: "That's the way I feel, I don't like it so please don't."
If they do it again go through it again but usually it's never needed.

Ask him.

I have said it before on the forum but here goes for you. My sister is gay and married to someone. I have spent some time with her and her friends. I have also heard stories of lesbians at the Doris Day LPGA classic in Palm Springs which bear out what I will tell you.

This is not all lesbians at all but it is the ones I have met. They are exactly like your friend. Very promiscuous to the point of calling themselves "sluts" playfully. Very open with their own sexual desires. You likely know this as you have so many friends who are gay.

I don't know if this woman is falling for you emotionally or if it is just physical.

Would you be willing to share her with other women? I can almost guarantee it would be a requirement. If you can do that have a blast and enjoy yourself. There is also heartache but its worth the risk. Lesbians can be very loving emotionally and very supporting. It is just like other couples and as for the social stigma, forget about it. Your happiness is way more important.

I have not. I would tell you to go for it though. Statistically meeting someone through someone else is one of the most successful ways out there. It's not as good as Mutual Match but still, worth a shot!

I want everyone to be happy and no one to get hurt.

One time I saw a bicyclist cut across four lanes of traffic and flip over a car after getting hit. I could see it was going to happen but there was nothing I could do to stop it. My body pulled back from the situation uncontrollable as if that would help. Why? The same thing, I don't like to see people get hurt. Still, I couldn't look away either.

I spent time on the forums talking to people. Men and women. That's what you should be doing too if you want someone meaningful to enter your life.

I was real and showed who I am to others. You made a post and now have admitted it was to play women. You want them to make responses and then you will work your charm. That isn't being real in my book.

I have some fantastic friends here. I love my friends. I didn't come here with "luck" in mind. It was about finding someone for the long term and I have been successful. You are someone who wants to get lucky and "maybe more".

I have hung out with men who are jerks into using women and I hate most men as a result. Men like that make it hard for the nice guys out there. They make women question if there are any good guys left.

Use some caution Kristee. You are new here but realize that there are a ton of players on these sites.

Picture someone who has a megaphone and goes into a single bar. After seeing someone who is responsive the sweet talking starts. This is why I hate these "women only" posts. They always seem to be done by new members to the site.

K, I think you are the expert about you so I must be wrong.

Sex. From what I recall you were turned off by a woman once due to talking about sex because of your decision to be a virgin. It was something like that. Hey, it's your head I am just a bystander.

Being that this is a question for women I won't read through all that crap in the first post.

I do want to say that I am sick of these "Ladies only" types of posts. Most seem to be a cheap way to get the attention of females. Not saying this is one as I have no idea but it is an opportunity to vent and say something so I am.

Dunno...I've heard differently from yourself in another post regarding sex. Maybe I read it wrong, we all change too.