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"Choosing a name was the hardest thing: Caitlyn Jenner"  Everyday, more of the same headline grabbing crap... I can find 4-5 of these useless articles daily, this is "real news sabotage" why does the media continue with it? Something ain't right here and it has nothing to do with dickless Jenner.  the media will print or film what that sells. It's a chicken or egg thing....the media definitely has their own agenda, but they have to have an audience to promote it and the feckless masses tune in and suck it up daily daily and more daily.... just stop people I don;t really know much about any of this and could care less |
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why we love em..
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They explain to you why ref threw flag up in air during football game and give you money for popcorn and smile when you say oooooh those uniforms are a pretty color I hope that team wins  not me. i'll turn the channel; and if you're LUCKY, i'll warn you that if you even think of reachin' for my popcorn, you'll draw back a nub!!!  that's why they lock you in the barn out back |
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why we love em..
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they do a great barbeque and always have beer in the frig
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What now, Baltimore?.....
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call nation of islam police their own until things boil over ,,,,,and even out I have NO idea what this is supposed to mean? Even things out?....There is no good solution to this problem, is there? it doesn't mean anything. I usually absolutely agree with Harmony but not this time....nor do I agree with police actions by Hell's Angels BTW If the panthers want to tell their agitators in the city to back off that would be nice. But that's it. Otherwise they mostly need to get over themselves....jmho who should get over themselves? and when did panthers enter the discussion? the op SPECIFICALLY pointed out blacks,, blacks do not need to 'get over themselves',, there are serious concerns they have and they should be addressed like anyone elses instead of blamed for having them now, if the POLICE are not going to police because of simple expectations not to kill unarmed citizens, and if they arent trained properly in interacting with those they police, some security source that IS TRAINED to deal inside of that environment may be a great alternative until things get to where they need to be and Police go back to doing their jobs in a way that protects and doesnt endanger citizens,, even 'suspects' and non violent 'criminals' the NOI has a long history inside of black communities, understanding how to interact with residents inside of black communities, and a long history of providing security services so why shouldn't they be employed to do the job if police are refusing to? I don't disagree with the premise, but how are they going to go about providing security in a city that size? Not to mention that they won't be carrying any type of weapon.. Are they going to take a bullet for someone? I believe they have enough membership for the parts of the city that are most affected, I don't believe it is the whole of baltimore,,,, Its not all of Baltimore, but it is more than one area and those areas are very large. great a whole city full of George Zimmermans 
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What now, Baltimore?.....
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call nation of islam police their own until things boil over ,,,,,and even out I have NO idea what this is supposed to mean? Even things out?....There is no good solution to this problem, is there? it doesn't mean anything. I usually absolutely agree with Harmony but not this time....nor do I agree with police actions by Hell's Angels BTW If the panthers want to tell their agitators in the city to back off that would be nice. But that's it. Otherwise they mostly need to get over themselves....jmho who should get over themselves? and when did panthers enter the discussion? the op SPECIFICALLY pointed out blacks,, blacks do not need to 'get over themselves',, there are serious concerns they have and they should be addressed like anyone elses instead of blamed for having them now, if the POLICE are not going to police because of simple expectations not to kill unarmed citizens, and if they arent trained properly in interacting with those they police, some security source that IS TRAINED to deal inside of that environment may be a great alternative until things get to where they need to be and Police go back to doing their jobs in a way that protects and doesnt endanger citizens,, even 'suspects' and non violent 'criminals' the NOI has a long history inside of black communities, understanding how to interact with residents inside of black communities, and a long history of providing security services so why shouldn't they be employed to do the job if police are refusing to? no not blacks, I would not generalize that much, I guess there are a lot of people who need to get over themselves...not race related trait as far as I know anyway. No I mean The Black Panthers thinking they can be the police....if they do think that...which IDK Policemen are highly trained. Being an officer first requires individual fitness testing both physical and psychological. Not everyone is cut out for it, and even once a fitness or suitabliity test is passed, one must still complete a lot of training. No one can just step up and be an officer just because they belong to some group (that's why I said I think the same thing when the HA try to be policemen. I do not just mean the Panthers I mean any group should get over thinking they just automatically be police). The Black Panthers (also rooted in Elijah Muhammad) have a history that is mixed regarding being law abiding, but no matter, they definitely can have a positive impact by using their influence to end rioting and violence and continue their social mission. Doesn't mean they can be the police. Voter intimidation from the last election brings into question your suggestion also, in my book. All communities with racial inequality in the police force would benefit by having a diversified trained and qualified team and hiring locally... a team that has graduated from the academy....sorry I was not ignoring you, I had to do some housework But race can't be a qualifier in hiring |
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Topic:
why we love em..
Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Wed 06/03/15 06:33 PM
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errrr
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Topic:
why we love em..
Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Wed 06/03/15 06:34 PM
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men can do lots of nice things if they are nice people. I like the way men think they have to take care of us :)
it's cute 
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What now, Baltimore?.....
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call nation of islam police their own until things boil over ,,,,,and even out I have NO idea what this is supposed to mean? Even things out?....There is no good solution to this problem, is there? it doesn't mean anything. I usually absolutely agree with Harmony but not this time....nor do I agree with police actions by Hell's Angels BTW If the panthers want to tell their agitators in the city to back off that would be nice. But that's it. Otherwise they mostly need to get over themselves....jmho |
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rest like the rest of the red light cadavers it's sunday at somewhere so something don't matter formica is ****ing my fingernails raw but it's really alright i might not mind at all I wrote that four years ago when I got bored. I really hated working in a call center. I think I might apply at one again soon though.  what did u hate about it? "tethered to a ringing telephone and a roomful of mirrors" |
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If asked what can u sacrifice for your perfect match, common guys n gals, men and women show to the mingle worked what u can be up to for your perfect match/soulmate If I felt I was making a sacrifice, it would not be a perfect match...so nothing, really. I like remaining single. I doubt that will change. |
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It is his life to do as he pleases.
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Well yes its hell kind of heat here though today with a little drizzle at my place it got a bit better, Few days ago my new air conditioner wrote me an appology letter i can not explain my AC's deeling but it busrt in to teers saying sorry boss. LOL (((hugs}}} here's to a cool retreat to the Tibetan Mountains :)
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Can anyone relate to this?  lol number 3 is defintely true |
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http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/7442724 10 Small Acts in a Relationship That Are Actually a Really Big Deal There is an important distinction to be made in relationships between people who pay attention to detail, and people who don't. The first type are people who don't usually go all-out on the big things like extravagant gifts or getaways for special occasions, but they don't do small things like take care of you while you are sick or go to pick up a prescription at CVS. People who do pay attention to details, however, are the ones who you can trust to stand by your side and weather the storm. These are the types of people who understand that the small things count the most because those are the things you do for someone simply because you love them, with no special occasion required. So, then, what are some examples of these smaller romantic acts that, in reality, speak volumes? 1. Write love notes. I know, we're not in high school anymore... but all the more reason that nobody would expect to open a small piece of paper with "I miss you" or "I love you" written on it. It's free, easy, and can be left anywhere to surprise him or her. A surefire way to put a smile on his face. I know from experience how amazing it feels to have your significant other do something like this for you. 2. Listen. In a healthy relationship, each partner relies on the other for love, guidance and advice. Sometimes, just taking the time to genuinely listen to what she has to say, and not saying anything at all, will say more to her than your words ever could. Particularly for the guys: If a woman is complaining to you, remember that it means she trusts you enough to express her feelings to you. Don't betray that trust. 3. Do that thing he or she wants to do. Whether it is watching a TV show your significant other enjoys, going to see the musical you're not really into, or trying that new restaurant with the cuisine you don't really care for -- do it anyway (and have a good attitude about it). Relationships are about compromise, which means at times we do things we wouldn't normally do in order to make the person we care about happy. They will appreciate your effort and enjoy the experience even more because they get to share it with you. 4. Send a good morning text. A text that starts your partner's day on a good note doesn't just say "good morning," it says "you are the first person I thought of when I woke up this morning." 5. Do what you say you're going to do. Be reliable. Reliability, how boring. Reliability is the reason you buy a Toyota Corolla, not excitement. It's not glamorous or sexy or particularly interesting -- but you know what? When you walk outside in the morning and turn the key you know that sucker is going to start up without a flinch no matter how much it has been through. A great romantic partner is someone you can count on without having to worry. You know they are going to be there for you when you need it. You know they are going to stand behind you when you need support, beside you when you need a teammate, and in front of you when you need protection. You don't have to wonder if they are going to do what they said they are going to do or if they are going to flake out on you last minute, because they are reliable. 6. Pay close attention and react accordingly. Be thoughtful. In relationships and in life, I believe many of us overlook the importance of thoughtfulness. Life moves quickly and we often get so wrapped up in our day-to-day routines that we lose sight of how important it is to work to make our significant other happy as well. This includes learning one another's likes and dislikes, supporting each other during difficult times, and encouraging each other during the good times. It includes paying attention to small details and doing special things accordingly that we know each other will like. Being thoughtful helps us live, connect and love more deeply with others. 7. Be patient with your partner. Patience is an essential trait in someone we hope to build a strong relationship with. It takes patience to learn about each other and our personality differences. It takes patience to adjust, and to remain kind while they adjust. It takes patience to have productive discussions rather than arguments. Patience is something that only we can feel -- others may notice it but if you do it right, nobody will actually know you are even being patient because you remain so calm and collected the entire time. Take a deep breath, and allow life to unfold as it should. 8. Be honest. This is another big one. It may not seem like it, because honesty should be a quality that you express towards everyone in your daily life -- but being honest with a man or woman you care about will show that you respect them enough to be straight up. Choose your words carefully, don't express your honesty in a way that would hurt feelings, but make sure your partner knows that they will get a straight answer when they come to you for one, no matter what it's about. 9. Make your partner feel safe. This is not about physical safeness, but also emotional safeness. Just because men enjoy the feeling of physically protecting the woman they love from harm, doesn't mean they don't need to feel safe in their own ways as well. Some men find it more difficult than others to emotionally open up and express themselves. In order to do so, they need to know they are not going to be judged for their feelings. Safety, in all uses of the word, is important for both partners to feel. 10. Always be willing to compromise. While of course you should be compatible with your teammate, that doesn't mean that you will automatically love every single thing they love, and vice versa. If you truly care for someone and their happiness, you will be willing to watch, do, see, and experience things they enjoy, as they would do for you in return. Without compromise, we can easily find our relationships resembling a see-saw with a huge boulder on one side, the distribution never shifts. In this case, the boulder represents the wants and needs of one partner. There should be an equal amount of balance in order to keep you both happy and satisfied. Satisfaction and fulfillment in a relationship can only come from forging a strong bond with another. When your hearts beat in unison at night and your thoughts transfer through a simple glance across the room. When you find that, you will understand the small everyday gestures that build this bond are the most important ones of all. As Robert Brault said: Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. These are all wonderful Iam ....I would only add this...Never ask your partner to do that which you are not willing to do....No double standards....  I agree. And a great OP. Good too see you Leigh {{{IamwhoIam}}}
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Maybe this is the root of my "dating" problems - my old parents had the audacity to remain married for over 50 continuous years with mom staying home and caring for the family and house as well as holding a united front in discipline, assignment of work details, and expectations of deportment. We might have visited a fast food restaurant once or twice A YEAR! No wonder I cain't get along with an ol gal what ain't no account at cookin up some fried taters, beans and biscuits!  excellent post IMO fellar. I remember the looks I'd get as a stay at home mom....and then when I did try to work all of the HR departments I encountered treated me as if I had done "nothing: for 17 years
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Sometimes when I am online or walking around in world I see or hear things that would have just made my mother cringe..can remember her teaching me how to cross my legs while wearing a dress and how to walk in heels and that a lady is known by her speech and her appearance. Do you think that this concept of being ladylike still exists? I am mother of sons and taught them to open door for lady and clean up after themselves and bring in groceries. Does being a gentleman still exist and what.does that mean anymore? Oh and yes I defintely think that concept of a lady still exists, but what is nice about current times is that ladies can act goofy if they want to, we can throw on some jeans and throw down in the sandlot if we want to....and then lady up later :) But on the inside a lady does not change much even when she throws down :) It's also possible to be accepted and successful if one does not meet the old fashioned definition of a lady. So as women we have that freedom. I cringe at the same things you do sometimes T, but our freedoms I value.....smile :) |
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can't find love
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best wishes on your hunt  that's a little too much chasing there...hey you with the power tools.....back OFF 
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put on some rodeo chaps an head downtown.... that is sooooo 1970s...lol  Can't say I'm much help in this one either. Haven't sought many foreign gay men. |
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I reckon my outlook on this, all jokes aside, is: "I didn't break ya, ain't my place to fix ya." Here's the other of my two cents - the philophobe might wanna "heal" themselves before getting involved with another person who's feelings they are being inconsiderate of. It is comparable to having sex with someone while knowingly carrying an STD. It's more than just bad manners, it is down right the wrong thing to do. Even emotionally healthy people experience some apprehension when the word love enters their relationship. It changes things to some degree. Blame it on Hollywood. right may not be my job to fix ya but if I love you I will tryn understand, be there for ya and hold ur hand
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I reckon my outlook on this, all jokes aside, is: "I didn't break ya, ain't my place to fix ya." Here's the other of my two cents - the philophobe might wanna "heal" themselves before getting involved with another person who's feelings they are being inconsiderate of. It is comparable to having sex with someone while knowingly carrying an STD. It's more than just bad manners, it is down right the wrong thing to do. Even emotionally healthy people experience some apprehension when the word love enters their relationship. It changes things to some degree. Blame it on Hollywood. right may not be my job to fix ya but if I love you I will tryn understand, be there for ya and hold ur hand
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