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Wed 02/18/26 03:08 PM
Edited by Zee on Wed 02/18/26 03:08 PM
it cud also be an English saddle.. there's no saddle horn on those..

but you ARE right.. part of the bridle is missing over the nose and under the chin... plus the silver 'bridle bit' is missing too.. upon closer scrutiny..

had horses myself for awhile.. english mostly, only 1 western.. but typically chaps are used with western saddle horses so ya might wanna add a horn Crystal.. :wink: just sayin.. lol

it is looking amazing tho.. Kudos on yer progress

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Wed 02/18/26 12:22 PM
*sneaks in and steals some of Sir's homemade chilli*


bigsmile

haven't decided yet.. but I did take a t-bone out so.. maybe that with some green beans.. hmmmmm

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Wed 02/18/26 12:20 PM
thinkin it's time to go feed the foxes...

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Wed 02/18/26 12:05 PM




duplicated yet again grumble ohwell


You need to get a good rein on your clicker finger.


I try.. but sometimes.. the site doesn't move as fast as I do lol.. OR.. ma finger does a twitchy dance LOL


I used to go out with a girl that was a good twitchy dancer. But she moved too fast for me.


they call that Twerking today laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 12:05 PM


Speaking of spicy food in Asia. I was having a meal with a girl at a road side stand in Thailand. On the table were three small containers of some kind of spice mix. I asked the girl what they were.
She said, "this one is hot, that one is hotter, and you don't want to touch the third one". I didn't try any of them.




I love spicy foods... but even I might have passed that up laugh

But then knowing me, I might have tried the one that was just hot...think




and ended up in the bathroom stall next to mine laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 12:03 PM



unlike men.. we don't need a lil blue pill to start the engines bigsmile
laugh

Indeed we don't but... we do need good levels of oestrogen in order to be sexual.
As women become post-menopausal the levels drop and are basically zilch.
Also, our testosterone drops which can also have a serious effect on our sexdrive.
You can remedy that by using HRT.

Aside from all that our sexdrive (and oestrogen levels) for a very big part depend on the man:
We need to feel (emotionally) safe, we need to trust the man and know, sense, feel that he's there reliable. This goes for any woman, regardless of age.

That's why casual sex doesn't work for core feminine women --> the safety, trust etc. isn't there. Without that it's very very difficult to surrender and let go.
We have to be extremely vulnerable to open up -figuratively & literally- to allow a man to penetrate us -again also figuratively & literally.


on this, I beg to differ, at least in my case.. my sex drive has increased with age.. perhaps because I've enjoyed it more later in life? Admittedly I have not been active since 2009 so maybe it's all just stockpiled laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 11:45 AM



Speaking of spicy food in Asia. I was having a meal with a girl at a road side stand in Thailand. On the table were three small containers of some kind of spice mix. I asked the girl what they were.
She said, "this one is hot, that one is hotter, and you don't want to touch the third one". I didn't try any of them.


hey Mo waving welcome to the pub! drinker

I bet ya didn't.. wow.. sounds too spicy for my tastes noway


Thanks,

Most of the food I try there though was excellent.


I'd love to travel to Asia one day.. I BET the foods are tasty.. my mouth is watering just thinkin about it.. and probably why I got the urge to nibble on rice cakes laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 11:44 AM

Sounds way too hot for me as well!

The gallbladder isn't a filter. It's a storage place for bile which is produced by the liver.
The bile aids in digestion of fats.
Without a gallbladder there's no more storage but the liver still produces bile which is then directly dumped into the digestive tract.
When it comes to eating I haven't noticed any difference whatsoever.
But then I must say that my fat intake isn't crazy either.


I'm nibbling on beef jerky, YAM!
Supermarket was out for days and I asked about it 2 days ago. He immediately ordered a new batch which was in today :D
Me very happy, hihi.


I'm nibblin' on a rice cake maself.. I prefer the caramel flavor but it's hard to find these days.. currently on buttered popcorn flavor then I'll snacky on a white cheddar.. bigsmile

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Wed 02/18/26 10:35 AM


duplicated yet again grumble ohwell


You need to get a good rein on your clicker finger.


I try.. but sometimes.. the site doesn't move as fast as I do lol.. OR.. ma finger does a twitchy dance LOL

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Wed 02/18/26 10:33 AM

Speaking of spicy food in Asia. I was having a meal with a girl at a road side stand in Thailand. On the table were three small containers of some kind of spice mix. I asked the girl what they were.
She said, "this one is hot, that one is hotter, and you don't want to touch the third one". I didn't try any of them.


hey Mo waving welcome to the pub! drinker

I bet ya didn't.. wow.. sounds too spicy for my tastes noway

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Wed 02/18/26 10:29 AM
Edited by Zee on Wed 02/18/26 10:30 AM

As far as the cat doors sorry I'm with y'all I would never have one.. I'm a dog person but never would put one in for my dog.. Heck I live in town and have a Huge Raccoon & Opossum that I see on my patio from time to time.. I could just see coming home and my house be a shambles due to they got in and went nuts in my house.. :laughing: :laughing:


I prefer a dog myself but.. I get what I get out here in the country laugh most times it's raccoons, stray cats, foxes and possoms.. the occasional dog, AND skunk (seen 2 skunks this winter already scared ) actually..

coons are fairly clean & neat animals.. they only wreck havoc when afraid.. that "fight or flight" mode kicks in to FLIGHT when confronted with humans.. laugh in my experience.. lol


The only time I had any issues was after my gallbladder was taken out for it is a filter for your body that is now being bypassed. It is the reason foods go through much faster lol


add lack of gallbladder to IBS and you have the indy 500 meets the autobahn laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 10:21 AM

My cats don't wear collars either.
I don't want them to, not even if they have so called safety clasps that open when it gets caught. I still feel it's too risky.

My cats' chips are under the skin of their neck/between shoulder blades.
I had that done when they got spayed so they didn't feel a thing of it.

Nevertheless I can't get a catflap as I have sliding doors with huge windows in 'em. Too expensive to have a catflap fitted in there and what if it goes wrong and the double glazing breaks? Would cost a fortune to have that sorted and I haven't got a fortune, hihi.
So getting up again and again it is.


because mine is a stray, just showed up and immediately fell in love with my dog.. I didn't chip her.. but cool you did.. I did manage to spay her tho.. then she got hit by a car a few years ago.. took her to the vet and they wanted $1200+ to fix her.. I asked the vet a lot of questions and decided to fix her myself.. and after a few months in "jail" inside my dogs crate.. she was healed.. (had the vet check her to be sure)..

same here.. patio doors are costly to get fitted and even though I CUD cut a hole in the wall from the deck inside, I do NOT want to wake to a skunk, a raccoon, a possom, or any other critter roaming around the house.. not that it's scary.. my worst fear would be the skunk and their smell.. sick

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Wed 02/18/26 10:14 AM

Black pepper on anything is a genetic curse on the patrimonial side.
Found out when a physician diagnosed mah dad's "itchy butt" syndrome - it was an allergy making him scoot across the lawn imitating the dog.
rofl

When my wife was peeved with me she'd take revenge by putting plenty of black pepper on everything in a meal she so "lovingly" crafted just for my pleasure - then she'd giggle herself silly over my all-too-apparent discomfort for the next few hours.
:laughing:

Serves me right, I have long known a husband ALWAYS loses arguments, even if only for the make-up sex afterwards.
bigsmile


I don't use pepper at all.. I use this instead ONLY on salads and veggies.. I NEVER salt anything else..

it isn't spicy at all IMO..

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Wed 02/18/26 10:07 AM

To add to my post above ^^^^
What you then get is many women deciding to go and stay solo.
I'm on the verge of doing that as well. Zee says she's done that too.

Women are very good at living solo. Men not so much.
This is also physical, I'm not 100% sure of the reason, but if memory serves it has something to do with a hormonal change in men.
That's also why men often enter a new relationship directly after leaving a partner.
Women generally cannot do that. We need time to heal.

Again if memory serves, the reason we can go solo and lead a totally fulfilling life also has to do with something hormonal, the way we're wired.
You see this happen more and more these days as there simply aren't a lot of quality men anymore who are rooted & anchored in their masculinity.


I agree Crystal, for the most part, men these days IMO seem unwilling to bend.. we have to move to them, they've laid roots and ours don't seem to even come into account.. there is not even a discussion of compromise..

to me there's no balance in their masculine & feminine side.. yet the women I know seem to balance out..
I've always felt like a "she-male" (not speaking about sexuality, in that regard I am ALL woman) I'm speaking to my connectedness with my masculine side, that I can handle doing both types of work AND use both sides of my brain.. be it male or female oriented (old school descriptions).. and possibly one of the reasons why I make friends so easily with men.. I can relate on many levels.. however.. lots of men seem to not be able to relate on a similar level with women.. many do not seem to have the empathetic gene nor can they pick up on clues given by women.. also, in my experience, men who relate to my masculine side, seem blind to my feminine side..

all this to say YEAH, I've come to accept being single for the balance of my life because I have yet to meet ANY man that can live up to my expectations, even WITH compromise, of what a relationship shud be.. I've given quite a few the chance to prove me wrong but.. hasn't happened yet so figure it's not gonna.. ohwell

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Wed 02/18/26 09:44 AM

I once had a relation with a woman of age 54. And I was so surprised to see the passion she had to fulfill her lustrous desires which was completely new for me. And I’ve learned a lot from her due to her experience in different acts. Now I want to know from u about the physical needs at your age. Am I wrong to expect that there’s a wild person still living in you but yeah with the great control over yourself due to maturity …?


to add to GravelRidgeBoy's list of possible reasons..

perhaps he's simply inquiring as to what "passion" feels like at a later stage in a womans life..

seems to me, now that I've re-read it, that he's asking if women older than 54 are AS passionate as a 54 yr old is, and MAYBE he'd be interested in dating even older women IF they are..

to answer that.. they don't call us COUGARS for NUTTIN pitchfork

unlike men.. we don't need a lil blue pill to start the engines bigsmile
laugh

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Wed 02/18/26 07:42 AM

Prodigal son... Netflix series


I guess ya liked it soo much ya said it twice?? laugh

just teasing bigsmile


it IS a very good series.. I enjoyed it a lot and was pretty disappointed when it was cancelled.. that said.. GOOD CHOICE for SURE! drinker

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Tue 02/17/26 03:32 PM
Edited by Zee on Tue 02/17/26 03:34 PM

I once had a relation with a woman of age 54. And I was so surprised to see the passion she had to fulfill her lustrous desires which was completely new for me. And I’ve learned a lot from her due to her experience in different acts. Now I want to know from u about the physical needs at your age. Am I wrong to expect that there’s a wild person still living in you but yeah with the great control over yourself due to maturity …?







WTF?????


oops laugh 3rd that sentiment Mo'n Crystal.. noway

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Tue 02/17/26 03:32 PM
I reset my email filters and thankfully.. aren't getting any of that chit any longer.. which is a nice respite.. however.. that "send your likes" out crappy doo shud be banned.. I get the owners are pushing for connections but I'd be THRILLED if I didn't get a slew every freakin day..slaphead whoa

sorry.. sidetracked laugh
I agree with TxsGal (great advice she gave me too).. set'em for close by only.. if they're REALLY interested.. they'll send you a "nudge" then YOU can decide if they're worthy of your time or not.. if NOT? block'em pitchfork

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Tue 02/17/26 03:15 PM

I'm actually not too bothered anymore by IBS, haven't been since I basically stopped eating potatoes/pasta/rice with my meals. Just greens and meat.

The only thing I have to be careful with is onion, leek, and now you mention it ---> spicy foods.
I never liked spicy food much because you cannot even taste anything you eat anymore. And my gut doesn't like it either.

I got that dislike of spicy stuff when I lived in Jakarta. Much over there was really bad. Asians love it, their bodies can handle it, and when something had gone off they added red pepper so they could still eat it.
Me, I remove every little sliver of red pepper if it's in a meal, or I order/buy something else, hihi.

I also had my gallbladder removed some 17 years ago, but that didn't cause me any trouble. Apart from recovering from the surgery itself. That was incredibly painful for me and took way longer than I was told beforehand, phew!


bold was a tad too.. bold laugh

oh wow.. 3 of us without gallbladders.. what a set huh laugh

OMG I remove ALL peppers (green'n red) from all my meals as well.. they go rite thru me (nice visual huh bigsmile special for the lurkers drinker)

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Tue 02/17/26 03:10 PM


laugh I'm the door person too with my stray.. she prefers outdoors most days (when it's -10 and warmer) but sometimes I call her the yoyo cuz she'll go out, 2 mins then wants back in.. barely have a chance to walk away laugh I don't have a catflap either.. figure it'd be safer then waking to any type of critter in the house.. like -> 🦨🐿:rabbit2:🦔:rat::mouse2:

Oh yes, there's that worry to with a catflap.
Getting one that works on a chip would sort that but these are bloody expensive!



true dat.. my stray won't wear a collar tho.. so that wouldn't work for my purposes regardless ohwell door person it is laugh

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