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Sat 04/08/17 06:56 AM
mornin peeps! waving drinker

oh my.. its funny how some seem to think they can push their 'preferences' on others to enforce THEIR will whoa I guess there's still a lot of neanderthals out there huh laugh

anywho.. spent an AWEsome day with my eldest and granddaughter yesterday.. it was SUCH fun! but it was exhausting too.. laugh

can you believe it?? I woke up to snow this morning surprised just when I thought spring had finally sprung slaphead oh well.. good thing I haven't put away the winter gear yet huh :thumbsup:

well.. off ta get some work done.. have a great day y'all!! waving drinker smokin

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Sat 04/01/17 08:04 AM
toothpaste = aquafresh
soap = irish spring
dish soap = sunlight
laundry soap = gain
clothing = tommy hilfiger
sneakers = sketchers
mayo = hellmans
olive oil = bertolli


I used to go for anything bargain.. then I realized not ALL products in any given category are made to taste the same.. now I go by what I enjoy the most (and what's most comfortable or has the best quality, imo)

I guess that means I'm branded!ohwell

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Sat 04/01/17 07:33 AM
Se agapó = Greek


ti amo = Italian

j't'adore = Quebecois bigsmile

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Fri 03/31/17 05:04 PM

Older/Younger...Yah, it can work out. "Consenting Human Adults"

live'n let live.. always been MY motto.. that and.. to each his own!

LDR?....How much do you want it? Would you move mountains.

I have in the past.. not any longer though.. just not worth it..*sighs*

There is plenty of fish in the ocean. THERE ARE PLENTY OF BISON ON THE PRAIRIE!
WTF does THAT MEAN?

catch and release.. seems to be nobody wants to work at relationships any longer.. guess they figure there's more options out there.. maybe they should just invest in a good blow up doll!

How do you move beyond the predictable stuff everyone tells you?

be unpredictable!

.and try not to roll your eyes.

too late whoa

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Thu 03/30/17 05:51 PM




drinker


drinker it can be at times.. just keep an eye out for big bird droppings laugh

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Thu 03/30/17 05:50 PM


:angry: chicken!



What makes you say that?



laugh laugh laugh could be that big bird costume you're sportin' laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 03/29/17 05:37 PM
laugh laugh laugh NICE!!! rofl













:angry: chicken!










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Tue 03/28/17 06:15 PM
okay.. I MUST be loosin it..slaphead I just reread a few of my previous posts and discovered....

yup.. sign of gettin old.. I'm repeating myself! whoa

oh well..

at least I'm consistent bigsmile laugh

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Tue 03/28/17 06:10 PM
yup.. the whole dang house is a remodeling project laugh

just so happens this past weekend (plus the 3 prior to) I've been working on the latest 'project'.. a jigsaw puzzle actually.. of my hall floor.. I've created a kind of ladder, if you will, intermixing the hardwood and ceramic tiles.. however I'm ALmost done.. only have the tiles to lay in and fill the 3/4" gap all the way down one side.. so lots of cutting left to do for the strips to fit just right..

me'n ma big imagination..slaphead and my "I can do anything I put my mind to" attitude.. can kinda put myself into challenging situations at times.. and this is definitely one o'them times whoa laugh

so.. Mod is it?? spock congrats Dave! :thumbsup: waving

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Mon 03/27/17 06:36 PM
Hi Dave waving


how did YOU know I was workin on my hardwood floor again this weekend? surprised









bigsmile smokin laugh

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Sat 03/25/17 05:07 PM
waving

been a long week.. phew.. yawn

hope everyone's doin good!!
me? yup.. sadly.. still alive laugh smokin

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Sun 03/12/17 05:47 PM
((((((sis))))))) I HATE YER NEW PHONE! explode

but I still loves you flowers laugh

let me know when you've figured out whats wrong with it.. AND fixed it.. so's we can have a real conversation.. drinker :heart:

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Sun 03/12/17 05:44 PM

I think that the goal of the people involved, might be the real key.

When people with differences start "discussing" or "arguing" or "debating" those differences, and the goal of one or both is to WIN, the results usually have a negative impact on the relationship.

When instead, the participants are both dedicated to finding ways to get along, the exact same [whatevers] tend to have very positive results.



well said!

I couldn't agree more about the key being in the 'goal' or motive.. my ex had only winning in mind, always(no exaggeration of the word) had to be right.. I call it his 'Jekyll / Hyde' personality.. if I disagreed, the monster appeared..

personally, I'd rather find ways/solutions to any given issue.. there's enough strife in the world and I feel the home should be a haven.. and that a couple should be able to navigate through their conflicting opinions with open communication.. so again agree, that 'finding ways to get along' does tend to result in a positive way...



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Tue 03/07/17 06:16 PM
Edited by Zero_Effected on Tue 03/07/17 06:18 PM
laugh don't listen to him ^^ winking

I see 4 issues you may want to address.. but this is just MY opinion though..

firstly.. you're age puts you at 32.. and in your profile you say you were married 17 years.. that would mean you got married at 14/15 years old?? surprised that's a lil unsettling.. maybe wanna skip that part and leave it for when someone gets to know you a bit better?? just a thought..

secondly... you work 6 days a week from 4am till whenever?? that doesn't sound like you'd have much time to invest in a budding (if not long-term) relationship.. you might just wanna say you have a demanding job and if you meet THE girl.. MAKE time..

thirdly.. you're comment about growing "old & moldy with" is a bit of a turn off.. I'd find something more romantic to replace THAT with.. winking

and lastly... you're comment about "kiss on the forehead while she's sleeping" is a tad off-putting.. you may want to replace that, too, with something more romantic!

other than that.. you're pics are nice and the rest is good! best of luck in your search!
waving


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Tue 03/07/17 05:58 PM

Can you genuinely remove arguing from a relationship or do you believe arguing is a natural part of a healthy relationship?


I believe that a healthy relationship is based on honesty & open communications.. which to me does NOT include arguing! I feel you can have a decent conversation without yelling or being dramatic.. which usually only incites arguments.. something I like to steer clear of personally..


What happens if you find arguing detrimental but your partner finds it natural?

if you can't find level ground and are always feeling like the other is 'ready for a fight'.. you're in the wrong relationship.. in MY opinion..


What’s the difference between an argument and a debate?


to me a debate is when 2 people can discuss a topic without getting emotionally invested, to the point of 'boiling'.. you can have a heated debate, but those too I tend to shy away from.. I'm not opposed to confrontation, although I would prefer it NOT be with my partner (and would hope my partner feels the same).. so I'll agree to disagree and suggest another topic of conversation..

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Tue 03/07/17 05:42 PM
I COULD fall into that category.. IF I was serious.. but I rarely am(unless of course the situation called for it).. pitchfork
now for the mature part.. hmm.. that could also be called into question laugh

welcome to M2 waving drinker

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Tue 03/07/17 05:37 PM
sis.. I'll try hitting you up at the new # this weekend.. luvs ya flowers smooched waving

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Tue 03/07/17 05:36 PM
I try Dave.. but life doesn't always permit.. I'm at my desk working for 10 to 12 hrs a day, 4 days a week.. plus still attacking my renos (that's on day 5) did I mention I have a BIG house?? laugh day 6 is housework.. you know.. dusting, vacuuming, dishes etc.. and day 7 is running around doing errands & groceries(plus the laundry).. doesn't leave much time for play.. YET! pitchfork

but ONE day.. all this'll be done (reno's I mean lol) with only 1 day a week.. it's kinda hard to move forward quickly.. I'm currently laying hardwood and tiles on the hall floor.. 22' in length x 3.5' in width.. it's a bit of a challenge as I've got wood going in different directions, and floor & wall ducts to cut around.. guess you could say it's a "puzzling" challenge! smokin anywho.. there's a lil over 1/3 done.. jigsaw anyone?? laugh

laying the hardwood flooring in the living room has a different challenge.. getting all the big furniture out (the challenge is WHERE to put it all slaphead ) so I can install another 'imagined' design.. and for some reason I can never seem to dream up "normal'n simple" bigsmile

anywho.. got a few things left to do before crawling into that big comfy bed.. tammarra's anudder early day laugh waving

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Fri 03/03/17 08:29 AM
there's those darned crickets again....


laugh drinker waving

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Mon 02/13/17 07:03 PM
now why didn't I think of that! slaphead

*shaZAM* hey.. it's 4:20!! :thumbsup: smokin

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