First of all, read your profile. The grammar is pretty poor. But, I don't think the little that is there is bad. You just need to clean it up and give it some love. And you simply must have a photo.

You need a better photo. The one you have doesn't look very good.

Your profile is bland. Spice it up by showing more of your personality in it, your sense of humor, etc. Mention what you want to do with the people you want to meet.

Look at the top of your screen. Do you see the word "Search"? try clicking on it.

Try starting with eye contact and see how they react. That should give you a read on the person.

I'm sure there are a great many interested in "hooking up." But, it's going to be a little more work than posting seven words on a dating forum.

Try this:

http://themansguidetoonlinedating.blogspot.com/

You can't help them because they won't listen. They just become angry and say it's their life to live as they see fit. Each generation insists on making their own mistakes.

Rawrr_Girl; have you considered writing fiction? Stephen King has done very well turning his fears into fiction.

My fear is heights, although I'm not troubled by flying. I get stressed when I have to drive over high bridges or on narrow mountain roads. I think it may have something to do with the steep angles of the landscape because it bothers me less if I'm driving over a flat surface like a river. It hasn't gotten any better over the years. I just have to get through it every time.

If you've never met the person, you're not in love with them. You're in love with an idea of who you want them to be. The person is a made up fantasy because you've filled in the empty spaces. No one will ever be as perfect as your imagination. So, you're destined for disappointment.

truthfully, I'd look to see if she was on any psych meds, but that's all. I wouldn't go through her things, so I'd never know if she had a locked box.

Alright ladies, suppose while going through this man's personal things you discover a locked box? How far will you go to discover it's contents?

I think it's very thoughtful to not insist someone go out of their way to prove how thoughtful they are to me. Their company is enough.

How about if you get the things you want for yourself and I do the same. Then neither of us will be disappointed.

Okay, let's see the evidence.

I'm not saying we're the only life in the universe. I'm saying there's no evidence of life anyplace else. We simply don't know the odds because we don't what causes life. Once we do we'll have a better understanding of how rare (on common) life is.

Consciousness is also an illusion.

I like a low bed. In fact, I like all my furniture low except a desk and desk chair. I'm fond of the vibe of contemporary styling.

I also prefer very small living spaces. I want to force myself to buy only things that truly make me happy or I use often.

I generally try to make myself scarce between Thanksgiving and Valentines day so I can avoid all that gift giving nonsense.

Once again, it doesn't give a meaning. It's simply a explanation of why we strive to find a mate. It doesn't explain why life is here in the first place.



Probably. However, so far as we know, Earth is the only place in the universe where life exists at all. I'd say that makes us pretty significant and worth perpetuating.

So, it seems you're suggesting the bible is not the infallible word of god, but simply a collection of rules written down by men. If so, I agree.

As for the man hating topic of this thread, in this modern world we live in, I don't think men have much value to women other than sperm donation. I wish more women could see this.

You can hate us all you want. But, when you want a baby, you're going to have to come looking for one of us. So, you'd better be nice.

The will is an illusion created by our own minds. It's free in the since that it doesn't cost anything.

Yes, we are only robots responding to the environment with instincts that evolved over many generations.

We can still punish someone for their crimes because what they do effects the well being of others whether they had a choice in the matter or not. When we punish it is also use instincts.

Pretty sure.

People once asked why God created us? The usual answer was to worship him. I suppose if you believe in that sort of thing it's a reasonable answer. However, there isn't any solid evidence to support it. So, to me it's like telling me about the time someone saw a monster.

I suppose it could be argued that we are just big, limbering robots used by DNA to reproduce itself. But, that would explain the reason or meaning of DNA's existence.

Why is the universe here? Why does the universe go to all the bother of existing? Probably because it has no choice.

I think this is likely true for life. That would explain the reason; life exists because it has no other option. But, it still doesn't provide us with any meaning for life.

This reminds me of one of my favorite jokes.

A man learned of a wise monk that lived in a cave, high on a mountain. He searched for the monk for many years and finally found him. He asked the monk "why are we here?" The old monk sighed a deep sigh and said "I'm here because I wanted to be alone. Why the hell are YOU here?"