The real you is dynamic and constantly changing.

Sometimes, your current outlook on life will click with someone that happens to view you, and you have a date/mutual match.

you are a human, and no symbols on a screen or still images can explain who you truly are to other people. dates happen based upon something simple and small that they liked about you - not on a well considered choice based upon the exact image your profile was selling.

When I try to make myself appealing, no women message me. When I just say screw it and type whatever messed up stuff is in my head that day, suddenly mutual matches start popping up.

humans are too complex to predict, and I'm beginning to see that it is insulting to try. exist as a human, and women will want you.

Good meeting you, and welcome.

Taking the fall for that person with a smile on your face - then convincing them it didn't really hurt. it is hiding your own physical torment due to awareness of how seeing you will affect them.

It is the ability to lie to the person you love when you say "I'm ok", because you know they are already struggling.

It is saying you slept last night on the couch, when you have not been asleep for 6 days.

It is creating a world for the person you love that will not hurt them as it would if you did not manipulate it.

7z3r05 messaged me a few months ago. i never fully recovered.

hello.

I think there is a major difference between a still picture and how a person actually moves when you see them.

I find physical attraction in how a woman walks, moves her eyes, and implies what she wants without saying anything.

The image of a human standing still is nothing to me. Humans are beautiful in motion.

if i saw you in a club, i'd hit on you.

0o explosive!! I love people that aren't afraid to lose control (or just don't give a crap, which is even better). I think expressing outrage is a very human thing.

That's a good point. I often assume things too quickly based on past experience.

...a_shields furiously begins researching amish culture and putting knees in shoes

A fresh brain waiting for instructions to be written.

prove to me you are not just a spam bot computer meant to attract users with topic questions.

The only time I use the word is to stop someone from elaborating on information I have been exposed to.

Other than that, I don't claim anything. I can just do stuff. That's it.

Yup, will do.

"It puts the lotion in the basket..."

j/k!! Seriously this time, I'm going to finish these projects. gn and ty all.

I guess you could say that - yes. My opinion is my own, and it might offend. Harah!! I'm off to attempt friendships.

Thanks dan, I think you're right. I need to stop trying to anticipate events with other people. It drives my brain nuts thinking of what implications a person with xxx birthplace and xxx birthyear and xxx race might take from a statement i make. it is hard to stop thinking, or at least stop thinking about what other people are thinking.

i'm not sure how the terms are currently defined, or what that word means to you, so i'll just say what i am: i'm a person asking odd, specific questions to other people on a webforum.

i'm not here to make friends or enemies. i'm here to help me understand what i'm doing wrong so i can change it. i don't know what's relevent, so i just give all the info at once.

in any event, thank you to the people that mentioned the team sports for older guys @church, gyms, etc. I intend to look into that.

will you be my e-girlfriend? we can giggle at each other via webcam whilst remaining virgins.

I just blow kisses at every decent looking single chick in a 15 mile radius of my location. There is a damn good chance a few will like your profile.

Life is ending. Fast. My newest philosophy is "man-whore it up".

jedi scum.