1,The almighty says is not good to be alone!
2,Don't get me wrong,I don't like to eat alone.KW
3,I don't like a one way confersation eather!KW

I agree with you kool, it's not good to be alone, but there are times when you have too. But it's all good. Just remember it won't always be that way

Hi Flame, Koolaid
I was lucky to have been married 20 years...even tho' alot of hairy times in the last 5 years.

We shopped, planned meals together, and cooked together. It is just not the same now for one

I miss the phone calls checking up on me....

Make this aloneness go away

Blessings all around

Bless your heart girls;thats why i have my sammy
Cat. she's good to have to keep the mice out? !
and she's good company to or is it the other way around?? well any who! we don't want any ol man.
Be choosey gals! they say micky dee's you say Steaks&seafood fine Dining!restorante' Mr'if he's taking me out im going frist class all the way.
Because were worth it! Koolaidwoman. 8/4/08

I know God said that, but I don't think we need to think of that just in terms of our partners. I'm happier now than I've ever been as far as I can remember. I'm surrounded by friends from all the different avenues of my life, my family. I have a better grasp on my life and situation than I've had in a long time. Yes I live alone but I am far from alone. I have many relationships. I feel like a rich woman. I have been blessed.

Ring` Ring Ring Ring````Hi poly hows it going girl? so do you want catch some rays and ,a late lunch? you said you miss someone cheaking on you.
Well i am here to tell you Be well girlfriend.
Your richer then you know!god bless: Koolaidwoman! 8/6/08

NO

Okay, I know I'm not in the 50's and older group,(I'm 37) but I love seeing the comments posted because personally I get alot of insight from all of your experiences and advice.

Anyway, I married at 18 and was divorced by 23 and I hated being alone and thought I needed a guy in my life to make me happy. Now that I'm a little bit older, I realize I am the only one that can make me happy. And if I can't do that, how am I suppose to make someone else happy?

I finally learned that lesson, when I forced myself to just stop dating altogether (because I had been hurt so much mainly because of my poor judgment) and take a good hard look at my life. I realized that I had such a poor outlook on life and of myself that I just settled for anyone because I thought that was all I was worth. I know now, that I am worth so much more, and I won't settle until I find the man that is suitable for me.

And until that day comes, I am enjoying what life has to offer being single. It's not so bad. I mean, I have a daughter who keeps me occupied and we do fun stuff together so I'm not lonely or bored. So when the right guy comes along, that will just be an added bonus to the fun that I am already having in my everyday life.

Welcome MsCarmen to the forum, your welcome to come and visit us anytime. The right guy will come along when the time is right for you. So in the mean time enjoy life and your daughter. Have fun in everything you do.

Thanks ((((Flame)))), and I plan on doing just that!

Your welcome MsCarmen, come back and see us anytime

Flame won't be lonely in just a couple of days.

Always like a new point of views positive thinking help. When I read the question that was my honest answer lol I don't like belone but don't want to settle some times I have my good days some times not. lol ;) made me think about it and smiles which is good. Thanks

Good Evening Everybody

That would be a no.

No...Still want to shop,plan meals, cook together.

Dream together and even sit comfortably in silence together.

In fun the other day, on the spur of the moment stuck my hand under my male friends tight, tight, shirt..... just to see if I could.... really he was bursting at his buttons... and he asked me wore a different tight shirt everytime he saw me, would I do that again...

Then I thought later, OMG, is that the closest I've gotten to intimate contact since when...


Human touch again in this lifetime please...

Nice poly,

ooooh sounds like fun for both of you.

One more day and counting for flame

Thanks musichic, I'm really getting nervous now