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Topic: Is sex with your ex a good idea?
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Sun 11/09/08 03:58 PM
Edited by Urbanphilosopher on Sun 11/09/08 04:06 PM
While my ex and I were together we would talk about marriage, babies and giving up our whole life for each other.

Then right before she takes off to Spain for the summer she decides that I am too much drama and cuts me out of her life.

After four months of trying to get her out of mind, she wants to meet up again. I have no intention of getting back together with her, but she's hot and I just want to have grudge sex with her.

Good idea or bad?

ledi180's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:58 PM
Bad idea.

msmyka's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:59 PM
Edited by msmyka on Sun 11/09/08 04:03 PM
Horrible idea.

edit: and the term "violent sex" makes you sound like a psycho/creep.

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 11/09/08 03:59 PM
hit it and forget it !

irad8you's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:00 PM
Bad bad bad idea.

buffry's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:01 PM
NO COMMENT...whispers go for it quietly

directandwrite's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:01 PM
Violent sex? Sounds REALLY REALLY bad..

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:02 PM
Christ on His throne, NO!!!!! scared

galendgirl's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:03 PM
Never...no...nada...nicht...
Please don't make me!

buffry's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:04 PM

Violent sex? Sounds REALLY REALLY bad..


Depends on who you are talking to...I love it rough!

cottonelle's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:05 PM
what ever floats your boat i guess, but i would`nt do it

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:05 PM
Well Ummm the Violent Sex comment is a little disturbing but if that's what you were into when you were together then well whatever floats your boat- having sex with the ex is tricky- if you are only looking for a physical release- you need to be clear on that so noone gets the wrong idea.

I had a deal with my ex- we had sex with each other til one of us found someone we wanted to be with and then we stopped being with each other- it worked out fine but we set boundaries- it can work but you have to be clear in what you want.

msmyka's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:06 PM
Rough and violent maybe synonyms but the choice of the word VIOLENT says a lot more about the OP.

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Sun 11/09/08 04:06 PM

Horrible idea.

edit: and the term "violent sex" makes you sound like a psycho/creep.


Thanks for the advice

msmyka's photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:07 PM
Nice edit OP.

no photo
Sun 11/09/08 04:10 PM
Don't even need to read it.......sex with your ex is never a good idea. They are an ex for a reason, why revisit it?

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Sun 11/09/08 04:11 PM
noway

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Sun 11/09/08 04:12 PM

While my ex and I were together we would talk about marriage, babies and giving up our whole life for each other.

Then right before she takes off to Spain for the summer she decides that I am too much drama and cuts me out of her life.

After four months of trying to get her out of mind, she wants to meet up again. I have no intention of getting back together with her, but she's hot and I just want to have grudge sex with her.

Good idea or bad?
Go ahead, if you want to relive it all again, go for it!

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Sun 11/09/08 04:12 PM

Well Ummm the Violent Sex comment is a little disturbing but if that's what you were into when you were together then well whatever floats your boat- having sex with the ex is tricky- if you are only looking for a physical release- you need to be clear on that so noone gets the wrong idea.

I had a deal with my ex- we had sex with each other til one of us found someone we wanted to be with and then we stopped being with each other- it worked out fine but we set boundaries- it can work but you have to be clear in what you want.


My ex did like some kink and violence when we had sex. But the difference is that there was love before (or so I thought). I do not love her anymore but I am still angry with her. That anger is most likely to come out during sex. I would never hurt her (or any women for that matter), but there is this strong desire to have intense angry sex with her.



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Sun 11/09/08 04:13 PM
I think you just want to have sex with her, the angry/grudge comments are the tool you're using to justify it in your head.

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