Topic: Why do men say they will call when they have
anacondaarms's photo
Thu 08/13/09 06:25 PM


absolutely no intentions on calling? Do guys just say that because they don't want to be mean? Or do they like to kinda string a gal along?


Because men are liars...:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

I'd say some people. :wink: I don't like to catagorize.happy

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Thu 08/13/09 06:30 PM

This reminds me of a Friends episode I just saw last night. Chandler constantly said this, "Had fun, I'll give ya a call and let's do it again some time". They tried to make him see that if you don't intend to, don't say it. I guess it's hard for some to just say, "thank you, goodnight", so it's likely that they don't want to be mean.


rant yeah, that works... look to a sit com for relationship tips... the fookin TV is the best advisor!!!

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/13/09 06:56 PM
I'll call you later

msmyka's photo
Thu 08/13/09 07:00 PM
Honestly I think when we (women) seem to eager they don't want to call us because theres no challenge involved.


MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 07:01 PM

absolutely no intentions on calling? Do guys just say that because they don't want to be mean? Or do they like to kinda string a gal along?
:cry: I feel bad about telling people I would call them and then putting it off until I forget:cry:

no photo
Thu 08/13/09 07:12 PM
Well, I put the number in my ph. but it I did it wrong so when I called the first time I got this guy..........Then I was going to call again but it was too late at nite.......then I remembered I entered it wrong and had to find that little slip of paper......then I tried to call, but the ph was dead, and the battery won't hold a charge for very long, so then I was going to call to ask you out this wk-end and it was already Thurs. and I know how some gals are "If he doesn't call by Weds. no date for the wk-end." kind of thing, and then I was going to call again.........................
But 4 days had passed, so I had broken by own 3 day rule............

buttons's photo
Thu 08/13/09 07:12 PM
i think to not want to hurt you cause they think you are sooooo into themlaugh

Cinderella75's photo
Thu 08/13/09 07:26 PM

Again why do women do the same thing to us guys????


Budda Bing!



ha ha!!! Bingo! Most women do the same thing, and why? Cuz we are really not that interested. Same goes for men, he is just not that into you..and what if they do all of the sudden call?? Well then they were just horny, and option 1,2,3, and 4 were busy.

jchicago25's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:04 PM
Many people say they will "call you later" because they cant handle the awkwardness of just be truthful. One thing I have learned is you cant have high expectations when you start dating someone. Within a few dates you should somewhat be able to read how much a guy is into you. If he doesnt call you he's not that into you.

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:54 PM
Edited by chickayoshi on Thu 08/13/09 08:56 PM
I gave my number out to this guy a long time ago. He said he would call me. Instead, I called him. But when he picked up, he had an excuse to where he couldn't talk at the moment. So he told me he'll call me back. Never did. I later found out he does that to a lot of girls. Mess with their heads and stuff. Such childish acts coming from a so-called adult. noway

BonnyMiss's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:57 PM

maybe they mean to call but they lost your number/forgot to call/the dog ate the piece of paper they wrote it on/they fell asleep or they're just jerks. one of those.

sometimes you're lucky they don't call, could be the beginning of a tedious relationship.


:thumbsup:

Quietman_2009's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:57 PM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Thu 08/13/09 08:57 PM
they usually intend to call but men are easily distracted and forget shyt

romee's photo
Thu 08/13/09 10:05 PM

absolutely no intentions on calling? Do guys just say that because they don't want to be mean? Or do they like to kinda string a gal along?
if i tell you i will call i will call!:wink: shades

mscherbear's photo
Fri 08/14/09 07:15 PM


absolutely no intentions on calling? Do guys just say that because they don't want to be mean? Or do they like to kinda string a gal along?
if i tell you i will call i will call!:wink: shades


Yay, Romee!! flowerforyou

RKISIT's photo
Fri 08/14/09 07:18 PM



absolutely no intentions on calling? Do guys just say that because they don't want to be mean? Or do they like to kinda string a gal along?
if i tell you i will call i will call!:wink: shades


Yay, Romee!! flowerforyou
tap it:wink:

Def03's photo
Fri 08/14/09 07:20 PM
lol, it because we do it

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 08/14/09 07:32 PM

lol, it because we do it




no photo
Fri 08/14/09 08:05 PM


lol, it because we do it






laugh

wux's photo
Fri 08/14/09 08:14 PM

absolutely no intentions on calling? Do guys just say that because they don't want to be mean? Or do they like to kinda string a gal along?


I am a guy, very much so, yet I feel unqualified to answer this.

I used to call, when I promised I'd call, at the time back then that I would still get phone numbers.

This habit of mine was due to the fact that

1. I was always really hot to trot and therefore my goal was to establish intimate physical contact, my goal was not to play power games and build collections of telephone numbers, and that
2. I only approached those women for their number in whom I was interested, and that
3. I could always concentrate on one woman at a time. Some people have feelers out and they go with the one that gives in first in chronological terms. I would wait for a rejection, overt or covert, before I'd approach a different woman.

I realize that I was hurting my chances more than build them when I always called when I had said I would. It put me in the light of a "desperate" man, one who "can't even find a better woman than me".

You gotta wrap your head sometimes around several lampposts and make it stretch until it snaps in order to understand the opposing sex.

DTHRomeo's photo
Fri 08/14/09 08:17 PM
I usually call when i say i'm going to call

Unless i get hit by a truck or something spock rofl