people want what is attractive to them

and different cultures have different standards of beauty

some people see beauty as a tall stretched neck



some people see beauty as a face tattoo



its all a matter of your cultural conditioning

yeppers... thank you! I always had a thing for mommy's! I don't know why but good Mommy's are always very attractive to me! Not to say i am looking for someone to be a Mommy to my kids "they have one", but when i see a woman goo goo gaa gaa over a baby I like it a lot! I also like when a woman will have a converstaion with me about life and current events thats really attractive too!

Explain my large but fetish then!

If everyone in the world required their partner to be a supermodel before having sex, the birth rate would be a lot lower. Obviously the general standard is somewhat lower than that.

We all want to catch a keeper. Sometimes we just end up with a worm on the hook.

The same can be said for IQs!

"If everyone in the world required their partner to have an IQ of at least 130 before having sex, the idiot/birth rate would be a lot lower".

Sorry -- I couldn't resist.

How are your yellow boots today, Metal?

This is another instance of being politically correct, the same people who say "looks don't matter" are the same ones who say "age is just a number" "race isn't an issue" "we're all the same on the inside" and "size is not important." I admit there are people who DO feel this way, since the world is very diverse, and we don't all think the same, obviously, but seriously??? To many people that stuff DOES matter, we're all just too cowardly to admit it (well, not ME, since I don't mind saying what I want/think/feel whatever), but on the whole, many people will die and go to Hell, before they will ever go against what we've been taught is the "right way to be."

Allegedly, it's kinder to say those things, especially on profiles, however, try having one of those attributes that "don't matter" and see how much luck you have. Personally, I think it's unfair to say those things, because you mislead people, you have them thinking "well, I'm a good person, even though I'm ________(fill in the blank with whatever you are) so I might have a shot at him/her" and then they contact them and get no response or even worse, a rude response- why? Because they freaking lied and they were probably hoping no one would believe them.

We all have things we find attractive, we all have things that repulse us or turn us off or whatever, but very few people have the cajones to admit it. I admit I like skinny guys, or more specifically, young, my idea of gorgeous, skinny, clever, intelligent, sarcastic, witty, guys who don't have or want kids, and who aren't religious. Many people think I'm shallow, so what? I'm honest. Many people find honesty a turn off, more's the pity.....

its called maturity

physical attaction is what attracts us in the beginning. Looks are somewhat important....

if you have to look down cause you cant stand looking at the person cause of their looks or have to turn the lights off to have sex with them ,that isn't really a good thing.....although alcohol can make this a false statement

Really wouldn't it be more mature to deal with life how it really is? Or is making assumptions about someone based on their feelings inmature?

Taboo? That is such a good word, don't ya think.... lol

and it rhymes with Tattoo which to have a tatto is taboo to me.. lol

i dunno, maybe i'm crazy because i have dated 'all kinds" i do have to be be physically attracted to the guy, but my measuring stick is really long and unpredictable. i know what turns me off, but there are sooooo many more things that i can find attractive about a man...
i don't however lower my standards when it comes to they way i am treated for example...

other ways my scale is all over the place when it comes to finding attractiveness...i hope i am making sense here...

i just wanted to add...nd i have said it before in the forums too that i dont mind that other people have specific preferences...as long as they don't try to hide ignorance, luck of tolerance etc behind "their preferences" .

I like to show a woman off in public.Not keep her face buried in the pillow

Willie the Shake said it in 1588 in Love's Labours Lost"

Good Lord Boyet, my beauty, though but mean,
Needs not the painted flourish of your praise:
Beauty is bought by judgement of the eye,
Not utter'd by base sale of chapmen's tongues

It's old English...but still, translated loosely: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

Oooh, but having your face buried in the pillow can be fun too!

Makes sense .I prefer a mask though

I don't care what anyone looks for...personally, I am attracted to intelligence, physical attraction doesn't even slip into my thought process when looking for someone to date.

I like big butts and I cannot lie.....