Okay, let's take a look at this here. First; she asked you to show her your dick while she had her hand down your shirt...in front of her 'boyfriend', okay, second; she didn't cut it off with her now ex-boyfriend before jumping on the 'I wanna **** you' bandwagon...so to speak.

Now, after all of that, what, do you think, will stop her from doing the same thing to you?

They have since broken things off and I ASKED him if I could make a move since she's obviously been interested since day one. He has not spoken to me since I asked and I am wondering if I REALLY did something so egregious that it warrants a halt of communication.

I value my friends

Edit: ah nevermind.

That's exactly like saying, "you know what I think?" and
then not saying anything :)

Morning from the hangover! I'd really like to respond to your comments but at the moment I'm very queasy and having difficulty sitting up straight. So for now, thanks for the feedback. I have plenty to say, as soon as I can carry a conversation past a few sentences I will write a full reply.

I'm going with the boys on this one. I realize you just want a quick lay but if she acted like that with you, how many others has she acted like that with. They don't make enough condoms for that.

Apologize to your friend, he will understand horniness as a lapse in judgement. It happens to us all.

Hey all! I haven't used mingle2 in quite some time now and am very drunk at the moment, but I promise I will check back and see what people have to say to this. I am in the midst of an ethical dilemma, as you have probably guessed from the title.

One of my best friends was dating a girl for about five weeks. For the first two and a half weeks, all I heard was complaints about her. Then she met me. She spent the first night unable to take her eyes off me. I didn't realize what was going on because quite frankly for a girl to show such strong interest in me right off the bat is extremely unusual. About two weeks ago we went to karaoke together (the three of us, of course) and she got very drunk. And proceeded to the point where she put her hand down my shirt and asked to see my dick. In front of my friend who was also her date.

They have since broken things off and I ASKED him if I could make a move since she's obviously been interested since day one. He has not spoken to me since I asked and I am wondering if I REALLY did something so egregious that it warrants a halt of communication. I value my friends and would not typically put a girl first who I am only interested in having sex with. But he made it VERY obvious he held no emotional attachment.

The reason why I have posted this on mingle is that every friend I've had has given me a different answer. One thinks I did nothing wrong and should go for it. One thinks I did EVERYTHING wrong and try to make amends. One thinks I should have screwed her and told him nothing, both of us moving past her like it hadn't happened. And I've gotten still other variations.

I'm curious to hear what you think. If nothing else, I should give the mingle community something entertaining to debate. I apologize to the moderators in case something unacceptable has made it through my inebriated haze. I would rather any cursing be altered or omitted than my post be revoked. I intend no offense. I am genuinely curious about this, it has created problems for the last several weeks and I'd really like to know what you think.

One addendum: I need to mention I made ZERO moves on her until after she and my friend had split, and I STILL waited for her to take the initiative. Walking out on somebody is not likely to be construed as a come on. My loyalties to my true friends are the rocks on which I stand and I would do nothing to harm them intentionally.

Please speak your mind and don't be afraid of hurt feelings. I need blunt honesty on this one if I'm going to figure out where I stand. I am not easily swayed and will not be convinced with anything less than an outstanding argument.

Peace :D

Is that short for: I've heard what you all have had to say and now I'm going to go do what I had planned to do anyway? (Like say to hell with my friend and bang her brains out)

In this situation I would give a vote for "Bro's before Hoe's"

ONLY becuase of the approach of this chick. She was making drunk passes at you in front of her date...which is your friend....


....NOT COOL.....

she is not potential long term dating material. sorry.

If she had approached you differently and not been such a inconsiderate slut....then I would say ta heck with the "bro before hoe" stuff and date her.

Your friend did nothing but complain about her and he only dated her for 5 weeks...if she was dating material you would be in the clear to date her.

But this one you should tell her to get her moral compass in place. Think about her actions before she does them.

move on hun....plenty of great gals out there...this one is not one of them.

call your budy...appologize....have a beer toether and make fun of the crazy lady ! :p

good luck!

Since when did being a slut equal bipolar?

I mean heck, I've had my slutty moments over the years, but so far, I don't think I'm bipoloar. Wouldn't that be a kick in the teeth?

I'm yet to figure out why they bother asking for advice...