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Topic: some help please?
jijers's photo
Fri 09/30/11 07:58 PM
how do i get a man to notice me?he knows who i am, we hang all the time,hes a co-worker...even if i flirt,he'll just flirt back and were back to being friends...

soufiehere's photo
Fri 09/30/11 08:04 PM
The 'No Reason Smile'..
the opening gambit,
in the love game.

kc0003's photo
Fri 09/30/11 08:04 PM
there must be a reason he keeps it at flirting. let him make the next move, if he doesnt, take the hint and find someone that has more interest in you.

grizz11952001's photo
Fri 09/30/11 08:15 PM
id have to agree with kc0003

interesting10's photo
Fri 09/30/11 08:58 PM
That's easy:

Dress well (neat, colorful).

Wear makeup... conservatively. Ask a beautician for some hints.

Smile.

Be friendly...

Be well-read.

Guys area attracted to all of that.

Ange

Fire2Burn's photo
Fri 09/30/11 09:02 PM
when hes flirting bak, tell him that u wanna go eat on a restaurant or let him think that u wanna go on a date..

no photo
Fri 09/30/11 09:10 PM

how do i get a man to notice me?he knows who i am, we hang all the time,hes a co-worker...even if i flirt,he'll just flirt back and were back to being friends...


ignore him


completely

metalwing's photo
Fri 09/30/11 09:22 PM
You could just be direct and ask him why he flirts with you but never asks you out. It may light a fire or scare him off, but you may also get a straight answer back like he is seeing someone else.

no photo
Fri 09/30/11 09:53 PM


how do i get a man to notice me?he knows who i am, we hang all the time,hes a co-worker...even if i flirt,he'll just flirt back and were back to being friends...


ignore him


completely



ummmmmmmmm I would not listen to the guys on this one

they're always wantin us to pick up the slack

let him come to u

lalalove's photo
Fri 09/30/11 10:12 PM

tough to do but hey why let yourself worry about what he thinks when you could just ask him out and find out

kelp1961's photo
Fri 09/30/11 10:30 PM

You could just be direct and ask him why he flirts with you but never asks you out. It may light a fire or scare him off, but you may also get a straight answer back like he is seeing someone else.

...this answer sounds like the most modern. I wouldn't ignore him or go out of my way to attract him...just be yourself. also be aware....maybe it's the co-worker thing...maybe he doesn't feel he can or is afraid to take it any further due to that...ramifications can be drastic, depending on the situation.

ujGearhead's photo
Fri 09/30/11 10:42 PM
Walk up to him, grab his crotch, then walk away without saying a word. Chances are that he'll notice that.....

nyguy1's photo
Fri 09/30/11 10:43 PM
just be like we keep flirting do you think anything will ever happen between us the question is do you want something with you or does he just want a booty call

mesi3's photo
Fri 09/30/11 10:50 PM
don't worried

N believe in Jesus...

kc0003's photo
Fri 09/30/11 11:04 PM

don't worried

N believe in Jesus...


you think jesus will ask him for her?

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 09/30/11 11:07 PM
Work and girlfriends DON'T MIX! And I will bet that is what he is thinking!

eileena9's photo
Fri 09/30/11 11:10 PM


don't worried

N believe in Jesus...


you think jesus will ask him for her?


Yes...... Jesus Juan-Carlos Estobar might have to translate for him so he can understand she likes the co-worker.tongue2

no photo
Fri 09/30/11 11:14 PM
Edited by jackie_star on Fri 09/30/11 11:16 PM
Some guys just can't make the first move. If he don't make a move and you don't make a move, what do you think will happen, NOTHING!!!

You work together, next time you two are flirting just say Lets grab coffee after work or lunch, dinner" it does not matter.

I can tell you this, when I was still on the job there was this VERY!!! sexy Officer that I wanted to go out with, we chatted and flirted (just like what your doing) but I did not have the nerve to ask her out. So, one day after doing a midnight shift she asked me out to coffee and the relationship was on.

Good Luck!!!

Queene123's photo
Fri 09/30/11 11:25 PM

Work and girlfriends DON'T MIX! And I will bet that is what he is thinking!



i had a old boss
that actually had a fling with one of the coworkers
as to find out they actually got married

that just doesnt cut it
you dont date your boss nor do you marry them

i have no clue on how there doing

Avatart's photo
Sat 10/01/11 03:46 AM


don't worried

N believe in Jesus...


you think jesus will ask him for her?

a miracle can happen lol

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