Topic: how seriously............
Ruth34611's photo
Wed 01/11/12 06:46 AM

Dating=barbaric practice.
Like Ruthie, I take Mingle2 very seriously
as a social networking site.
I have made the bestest friends :-)
I always try to hook them up.
Being in a committed relationship, I don't
really use the dating side.
Hella fun to watch though :-)


I knew you were laughing at us!

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 01/11/12 06:46 AM




I can't take online dating that serously, for the fact anyony could be anything that there not telling you. You might think i'm being too wary, but i'm keeping myself safe, after what happened on another site. I took in prisoners THAT time as i was naive, well not anymore.


Anyone anywhere can have things that they are not telling you. This is not just specific to online. You just have to be a bit wary and use common sense.


Exactly.


Exactly


You can quote me on that.

irisheyes79's photo
Wed 01/11/12 06:49 AM
disclaimer dont take anything seriously on here

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Wed 01/11/12 06:50 AM

disclaimer dont take anything seriously on here


now there we are in agreement sugarflowerforyou

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/11/12 06:51 AM
I knew you were laughing at us!

Oh yes.
I have peed my pants reading
stuff in here :-)

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Wed 01/11/12 06:59 AM

I knew you were laughing at us!

Oh yes.
I have peed my pants reading
stuff in here :-)
:thumbsup: so I'm not the only one? sometimes I am laughing so hard I can't type and then later when I want to respond I can't remember what thread I was in....slaphead :laughing:

irisheyes79's photo
Wed 01/11/12 07:00 AM


disclaimer dont take anything seriously on here


now there we are in agreement sugarflowerforyou
just the way i feel dont get me wrong i like the fact bein able to chat wit peeps from diff parts of the country or even world you never know whats really on the other end of the computer

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Wed 01/11/12 07:06 AM



disclaimer dont take anything seriously on here


now there we are in agreement sugarflowerforyou
just the way i feel dont get me wrong i like the fact bein able to chat wit peeps from diff parts of the country or even world you never know whats really on the other end of the computer


right - agreed - I like most folks I've met on here - but I know there are a few wind ups & game players on here too (not in this thred as far as I can tell but I pretty much have them pegged) otherwise I take it as a fun time to talk to different people also! Just because I don't take it seriously doesn't mean that I do not appreciate my mingle friends cuz I do

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/11/12 07:10 AM

thumbsup: so I'm not the only one? sometimes
I am laughing so hard I can't type and then
later when I want to respond I can't remember
what thread I was in....slaphead :laughing:

I think we are about to get a
reputation for..puddling.

no photo
Wed 01/11/12 07:15 AM


thumbsup: so I'm not the only one? sometimes
I am laughing so hard I can't type and then
later when I want to respond I can't remember
what thread I was in....slaphead :laughing:

I think we are about to get a
reputation for..puddling.


hmmmmm

not hush your mouf!laugh

next thing yanno they drag in the panty diapers

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Wed 01/11/12 07:17 AM
actually I love to watch butterflies puddling in the summer time in the cut over fields

pretty colorshappy

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 01/11/12 10:11 AM

I can't take online dating that serously, for the fact anyony could be anything that there not telling you. You might think i'm being too wary, but i'm keeping myself safe, after what happened on another site. I took in prisoners THAT time as i was naive, well not anymore.


I agree with this though the same stuff tends to happen in life too. Taking risks is scary. Computers are just easier to hide behind. Some people turn it into a career. Keeping yourself safe all the time can get exhausting.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Wed 01/11/12 10:42 AM
Speaking from a past experience. My trust will take time to grow back again. I understand that you shouldn't live life too cautiously. This is just the present tense, really. Who knows the future? :) When you've been hacked by someone you trusted, death threats from him, too, and other crazy s***, you lose a part of yourself. You can't recognise who you are anymore, cos said person is pushing your buttons, in a way. I did go to the police about it though, in the end. I don't really know how to explain how it feels. I've only began being the old me again, about a year ago.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 01/11/12 10:49 AM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Wed 01/11/12 10:50 AM
Going through that stuff is not fun at all. My ex-fiance was emotionally abusive almost always. I think I remember him actually say if I leave him he'll make my life a living hell. Which explains why I'm a emotional wreck. I'm glad you got some help, in a lot these situations, most women don't seek any type of asistance readily available to them, in worst cases until its too late. I guess I was afraid too. I try not to be afraid of everybody.

navygirl's photo
Wed 01/11/12 11:22 AM
Just like Sing; I am just here for the forums. Dating is just not important to me anymore.

navygirl's photo
Wed 01/11/12 11:28 AM

Speaking from a past experience. My trust will take time to grow back again. I understand that you shouldn't live life too cautiously. This is just the present tense, really. Who knows the future? :) When you've been hacked by someone you trusted, death threats from him, too, and other crazy s***, you lose a part of yourself. You can't recognise who you are anymore, cos said person is pushing your buttons, in a way. I did go to the police about it though, in the end. I don't really know how to explain how it feels. I've only began being the old me again, about a year ago.


Yep, been there and done that. Had mine arrested and thrown in jail. Never looked back but I am not taking that risk again. I keep my emotional and physical defenses up now.

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Wed 01/11/12 11:30 AM

Just like Sing; I am just here for the forums. Dating is just not important to me anymore.


I still enjoy dating! I'm just not looking for it here :).

navygirl's photo
Wed 01/11/12 11:40 AM


Just like Sing; I am just here for the forums. Dating is just not important to me anymore.


I still enjoy dating! I'm just not looking for it here :).


Oops my bad. Just meant to say I agreed with you about being here just for the forums. waving

Goofball73's photo
Wed 01/11/12 11:48 AM
I'm not opposed to meeting someone off of Mingle (even if there is distance) if it means meeting a woman who just rocks my Goofy balls.

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 01/11/12 12:58 PM
I don't think any of you are taking this seriously enough.