Topic: Scary!
galendgirl's photo
Tue 01/17/12 06:42 PM
What is the one thing you fear most about relationships?

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Tue 01/17/12 06:45 PM

What is the one thing you fear most about relationships?


that I will not be accepted as I am

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Tue 01/17/12 06:46 PM
starting one.

Bravalady's photo
Tue 01/17/12 06:49 PM
That I will never have one again.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 01/17/12 06:50 PM

What is the one thing you fear most about relationships?


Nothing. Which isn't necessarily a good thing.

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Tue 01/17/12 06:50 PM
That I will get stuck in a bad one again. So much so it probably makes me over cautious.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 01/17/12 06:54 PM
That my pecker will not suffice her. :tongue:

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Wed 01/18/12 06:45 AM

starting one.
Thats a really good answer,starting one because where they start they some where along the way end.So my fear is do i even want to start some thing i know is going to hurt me bad later?.brokenheart

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Wed 01/18/12 07:28 AM

Im not afraid of anything really. I dont worry about being stuck, because Im comfortable with the phrases like:

"I think we have entered the friend zone and thats not what Im looking for, but I wish you the best"

or

"This relationship is just not working for me"

or

"Im not comfortable being with someone who________, and you should be comfortable being ________ so I hope you understand, that, for me its time to move on."

Im not worried about another failure either, because I see them as learning experiences.


I think the only thing on my mind would be at the most, a disappointment, but not a fear.


Great answer.........I'm with you on this one it is not a problem for me to tell them..."This is just not working out and it is time for us to move on". I have done this more then once and have never had a bad scene when I did.

I have found out that most guys understand and would rather others just be up front with them...

As klc said they are learning experiences and to me only a mere stepping stone to that one that I'm meant to be with...bigsmile

InvictusV's photo
Wed 01/18/12 07:30 AM
Having to deal with a morose malcontent..

There can only be one of us in a relationship..

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Wed 01/18/12 07:33 AM
I fear getting mixed signals ever again. My last relationship was like that. Either be with me, or don't. It's that simple.

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Wed 01/18/12 08:46 AM

Having to deal with a morose malcontent..
There can only be one of us in a relationship..

hahahaha

I only fear..insincerity.

galendgirl's photo
Wed 01/18/12 06:38 PM

What is the one thing you fear most about relationships?


Myself...

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Wed 01/18/12 07:10 PM
Nothing.

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Wed 01/18/12 07:17 PM
Hurting someone