Have you never been with a woman before? Is that why you're attempting to explain it this way?

What is the difference between friends and close friends to you?

Im bored as hell and I just need someone to hang out with. Im in Grand Cayman staying at the Grand Caymanian, I just need to have a fun night while I am on vacation here. Not looking for sex, just someone I can have a good time with.

Talking on a weekly basis. Going out at least twice a month.

That's friends or close friends?

Yes that's close friends.

So, men and women can't talk on a weekly basis and get together twice a month?! I have friends that I don't necessarily consider close friends that I see more often than that. I have close friends that I talk with more than that. I have close friends that I see and talk to less than that. What made you decide on talking weekly and getting together twice a month?

Because I have an ego and needs and if a woman is not going to consider me attractive or desirable enough as a dating prospect, I don't want to waste my money and time. I am not going to spend my precious time with making friends when I could find a woman who wants a psychical and emotional relationship.

Ah, ok. So friends are holding you back and aren't as important as your quest to find a dating prospect. At least you're honest!

Speaking for myself, spending time with friends isn't a waste of time or money. If I thought either, they aren't really friends.

You hear phrases like: “I can talk to you about anything,“ “You‘re really a nice guy,” “You‘re like a brother to me,” “You‘re my best friend,” and “You understand me."

The Friend Zone is basically getting kicked in the groin. You have to leave that situation as fast as possible before you think every woman thinks of you in that way.

Not all men and women can be friends with the opposite sex. It works well for some and not so well for others. Neither way is wrong. We all do what works the best for us.

Best response in the thread!!

well unlike you I rather sleep with a friend then someone that is not....but anyway I'm just saying don't be naive to believe just because you are friends with a guy that he is not thinking about sex , guys have two heads that sometimes work independently

I don't get the point that most people are trying to make....don't you supposed to atleast be friends with someone before you have sex with them...or is everyone just having one night stands or falling in love with those that don't consider to be their Friend

There are no rules. If you feel you need to be friends with someone before having sex with them, go for it.

Of course they can ~ most of my friends are male actually.
My oldest (longest) friends are male now that I think about it.

I'm thinking most women know about this by now.

if that was true...then why play like it doesn't occurs when they are around their male friends ...

Just because you are unable to only be friends with women, it does not mean that others are unable to do that as well. It will be different for each person. Some work fine as friends.

so I guess you stare between the legs of all of your male friends to make sure that your presence hasn't put a snap in their Mr. Tallywhackers ...or how else would you know that they don't get a hard on when you are around them