Topic: Just friends?
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Fri 03/30/12 11:38 AM
I'm great friends with my ex wife. Two people may think and hope they are compatible but may find out months or years later that they really aren't for whatever reasons. What initially brought them together was early friendship and enjoying each others company. A man and a woman can have that without having sex even if there's an attraction.

ShannonMarie21's photo
Fri 03/30/12 11:43 AM

Men and women can't be friends.

Uhuh. I said it. They can never properly be friends.



I don't know...I have a couple of super close guy friends that I've had for years that has always strictly been platonic. We get along great. To them, I'm just a guy with boobs. Sometimes when we all get together I think they forget I even have boobs. Hahaha

But I can talk to them about the same kind of stuff I talk to my girl friends about. And it's even better because they tell it to straight without worrying about hurting my feelings with their advice. And i do the same for them. We have a great time together.

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Fri 03/30/12 11:47 AM

I'm great friends with my ex wife. Two people may think and hope they are compatible but may find out months or years later that they really aren't for whatever reasons. What initially brought them together was early friendship and enjoying each others company. A man and a woman can have that without having sex even if there's an attraction.


My ex is actually one of my really good friends. But he's pretty girly. So he's more like one of my girlfriends, I guess. Hahaha

I agree with ya though, Señor. :)

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Fri 03/30/12 11:49 AM




Men and women can't be friends.

Uhuh. I said it. They can never properly be friends.



How does someone properly be friends? And why can't men and women do so?


because the Human Race would have already became extinct if they could


You mean after sexual intercourse they can't remain friends?

Actually they shall & (DO USUALLY) say we are JUST FRIENDS only after sexual relations.:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



then they're best friends

prashant01's photo
Fri 03/30/12 11:51 AM


Men and women can't be friends.

Uhuh. I said it. They can never properly be friends.



I don't know...I have a couple of super close guy friends that I've had for years that has always strictly been platonic. We get along great. To them, I'm just a guy with boobs. Sometimes when we all get together I think they forget I even have boobs. Hahaha

But I can talk to them about the same kind of stuff I talk to my girl friends about. And it's even better because they tell it to straight without worrying about hurting my feelings with their advice. And i do the same for them. We have a great time together.


I see,it is all about boobs.... surprised

ShannonMarie21's photo
Fri 03/30/12 11:52 AM



Men and women can't be friends.

Uhuh. I said it. They can never properly be friends.



I don't know...I have a couple of super close guy friends that I've had for years that has always strictly been platonic. We get along great. To them, I'm just a guy with boobs. Sometimes when we all get together I think they forget I even have boobs. Hahaha

But I can talk to them about the same kind of stuff I talk to my girl friends about. And it's even better because they tell it to straight without worrying about hurting my feelings with their advice. And i do the same for them. We have a great time together.


I see,it is all about boobs.... surprised


Not with them it's not! laugh

prashant01's photo
Fri 03/30/12 11:53 AM





Men and women can't be friends.

Uhuh. I said it. They can never properly be friends.



How does someone properly be friends? And why can't men and women do so?


because the Human Race would have already became extinct if they could


You mean after sexual intercourse they can't remain friends?

Actually they shall & (DO USUALLY) say we are JUST FRIENDS only after sexual relations.:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



then they're best friends


best for themself,just for people.

prashant01's photo
Fri 03/30/12 12:00 PM




Men and women can't be friends.

Uhuh. I said it. They can never properly be friends.



I don't know...I have a couple of super close guy friends that I've had for years that has always strictly been platonic. We get along great. To them, I'm just a guy with boobs. Sometimes when we all get together I think they forget I even have boobs. Hahaha

But I can talk to them about the same kind of stuff I talk to my girl friends about. And it's even better because they tell it to straight without worrying about hurting my feelings with their advice. And i do the same for them. We have a great time together.


I see,it is all about boobs.... surprised


Not with them it's not! laugh


Yeah,I got ur point already about your friends.they are really platonic.
but I understood why mariah said "men & women cant be proper friends" only after reading your postthink think think




rofl rofl rofl

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Fri 03/30/12 12:12 PM
Edited by funches on Fri 03/30/12 12:13 PM






Men and women can't be friends.

Uhuh. I said it. They can never properly be friends.



How does someone properly be friends? And why can't men and women do so?


because the Human Race would have already became extinct if they could


You mean after sexual intercourse they can't remain friends?

Actually they shall & (DO USUALLY) say we are JUST FRIENDS only after sexual relations.:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



then they're best friends


best for themself,just for people.


yep...you can't become Friends with Benefits until you first become Friends

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Fri 03/30/12 12:14 PM
I'm still confused about how women and men can't properly be friends. Are there rules how to properly be friends?

Goofball73's photo
Fri 03/30/12 12:15 PM
Look, you can be friends with the opposite sex if you truly want it. Why the heck is that so hard? Must have something to do with a dude's "little head". Not to mention a great portion of the female population are seriously mental too. I guess it is just a great chemical imbalance for both sexes. Haha!

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Fri 03/30/12 12:17 PM

I'm still confused about how women and men can't properly be friends. Are there rules how to properly be friends?


Well,what I understood is that it is just due to the boobs....laugh laugh laugh




















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Fri 03/30/12 12:30 PM

I'm still confused about how women and men can't properly be friends. Are there rules how to properly be friends?


perhaps if you specific what you meant by "just friends"

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Fri 03/30/12 12:34 PM


I'm still confused about how women and men can't properly be friends. Are there rules how to properly be friends?


perhaps if you specific what you meant by "just friends"


I mean just friends. Not romantically involved. Not sexually involved. Friends.

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Fri 03/30/12 12:35 PM



I'm still confused about how women and men can't properly be friends. Are there rules how to properly be friends?


perhaps if you specific what you meant by "just friends"


I mean just friends. Not romantically involved. Not sexually involved. Friends.


do that include never thinking about or never having thoughts about having sex with the other?

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Fri 03/30/12 12:37 PM




I'm still confused about how women and men can't properly be friends. Are there rules how to properly be friends?


perhaps if you specific what you meant by "just friends"


I mean just friends. Not romantically involved. Not sexually involved. Friends.


do that include never thinking about or never having thoughts about having sex with the other?


Can you be attracted to someone, yet not want to have sex with someone? I can.

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Fri 03/30/12 12:39 PM





I'm still confused about how women and men can't properly be friends. Are there rules how to properly be friends?


perhaps if you specific what you meant by "just friends"


I mean just friends. Not romantically involved. Not sexually involved. Friends.


do that include never thinking about or never having thoughts about having sex with the other?


Can you be attracted to someone, yet not want to have sex with someone? I can.


is that a sexual attraction you have for them?

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Fri 03/30/12 12:48 PM
I'm simply saying I can find people attractive, yet not want to have sex with them. So no, it's not sexual. If you're unable to do that, no problem. If you're unable to be friends with women, no problem. Everyone is different.

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Fri 03/30/12 12:51 PM
sure it's possible.
will i want to have sex with you at one point or another?
probably,
but i just gotta fight through it!

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Fri 03/30/12 12:53 PM

I'm simply saying I can find people attractive, yet not want to have sex with them. So no, it's not sexual. If you're unable to do that, no problem. If you're unable to be friends with women, no problem. Everyone is different.


if you claim that you find your male friends sexually attractive is the exact reason why you can't properly be their friends...

you might even be their friends because you are sexually attracted to them

that's one step from ....Friends with Benefits