Hey guys, so my boyfriend and i have been exclusive for about three weeks now. Im crazy about him but my roommates say that were moving too fast. Have you ever dated anyone that moves too fast?

Rush into a relationship like a powerbike and you'll come out like a wheelchair. Love doesnt happen at the turn of a switch.

Hey girl . Ah so is that why you've been hiding your beautiful face? :) Nice to see you again. I suppose it depends what you're doing with that person.

The experience is different from everyone. I am not a believer in love at first sight. LUST at first sight yes but not love. The emotions run high but the thing is if you keep asking yourself if what you are doing is right then there may be something wrong.

Yeah. Don't pressure yourself into anything, if it feels wrong.

Practice self-denial as long as you possibly can...make sure it is
really right for both of you and when you can no longer deny yourselves
then you can no longer deny yourselves.



it is different for everyone and every relationship but there are very
few relationships where people say "i wish we had proceeded faster"
and there are very many relationships where people say "i wish we had
taken it a bit slower", and there is a reason for it.

Are your room mates people who you've known for quite a few year, or just recent? I just wondered is all. . If you are really into him though, I think no-one has a right to tell you what they think of your relationship. My family would do this quite a lot. So now I normally never let my family know, until I've been dating a guy for a few year. I'm sure you will know YOURSELF whether a guy is worth keeping, if I'm right. I think your room mates are just concerned. I don't know enough about your situation. What do I know? Lol. Just trying to help. We need more details :)

YOLO..

hay all there, great to know that u have boy or girl friend, those of us who are reserve personality, do find difficulty to find a girl or boy friend...kinda impossible task for life...

looks like a christian preacher is preaching...
written to s1owhand

Hi Desi!...Yes, I have but not for a long, long time.... How wonderful for you that you met someone you are crazy about!....Your roommates may or may not be right, but the reality is this is your relationship and you are the only one who can make such determinations....Everyone is different and every relationship is different....Good luck to you!!

I'm just wondering why your roommates are saying this? Do you have a history of just falling hard for a guy? Gotta be some reason why your roommates would say something like that. Hell, could be jealousy. Still, the bottom line to me is that you should do what you want. Right or wrong, this choice is yours and no matter what you do you will grow from it. Hopefully this will be a great relationship for you.

I guess the real question is , what do you think, do you have any reserves, why even question what you feel.
Just make sure that you are sure of what you are doing.

Could be some jealously going on which is normal. Stuff just happens and you can't control it. I'm with Josie on this one, What do you feel about it?

I agree with Leigh. This is between you and him not you two and other people. Listen to your own heart and the voice in your head.

I agree with Leigh. Only you know what is "right" for you. Good luck.

I agreed with you leigh. Again, maybe her friends are jealous of her too.

"Fast" relationships are sexual. Period.

It is great if it is more than that...but,they ain't. Never.

If getting laid is the goal...it is no big trick....anyone can get laid....generally in less than an hour if you are any good.

But, I have never seen a rush job turn out to be long term.