--this lady (on another site) throws me a wink. She's not a real hottie but I'm not the type who really cares, so I wink back.
And boom, I get a message, "hi how are you? My name's -----"
and blah blah blah. So I mail her back, and, boom I get another message back. This goes for a while and she asks me if I have any kids or grandkids. I tell her never married so no kids or grandkids.
And boom, I never hear from her again.
So, for woman of a certain age, does never been married equal not
worth talking to?

2 words.....



stranger danger!!!

You were being interviewed and you didn't pass.

She probably winked (over sold the job) at 10 to 30 guys with or without looking at you profile. Cattle call. She received back let's say 10 responses. She then only has to look st 10 profiles instead of 20 or.more. She decides on 5 and starts the interview. You probably fit the category of player as no real man would never have married all these years without being a player.

Congrats on making that far in the interview process. Better luck next time.

FYI. Overselling the job may have been one of the tests.

cant speak for all women

for me, not married and no kids is just something I dont want to deal with

it is not guaranteed, but the risk that at some point that person may want kids when I know I am done having them is one I dont wish to take

I also dont want to risk that they havent had kids because they didnt want them, when I have two,,,


the never married may not be a deal breaker, as it could be they just know what they want and dont wish to make a mistake

the never having kids,,at my age anyhow, is an indicator that they never wanted kids or they will want kids later,, both not options for me,,,

Some women think if there are no marriages and or kids then the guy isn't use to ..giving, sharing, that sort of thing.

I've found it to be true in some cases but of course not all.

Some men my age(ish) idea of a good time is hanging out with their grand kids.

I don't have any (yet) and hanging out with little kids isn't that enjoyable for me these days.

Hard tellin.

Like hiker said..you were maybe just in the pool.

I'll be honest when a guy has not been married and no kids it makes you wonder why?? Are they that hard to get along with or just content with their life.. It can go many ways.

Myself I prefer those with grown kids or no kids but have dated those with kids..

Sure makes one wonder why they are single. But as long as they have at least been able to hold a relationship for a length of time and don't want kids of their own and not looking for those without kids then I see no issues.

Guess being single for 21 years kind of makes you understand why some choose not to get married...

Oh! This is easy!

You are a grown man with no kids. (Like me)

At this point in life, you may put up with her family for a short time......but you won't put up with their schitt for long.

Family men have had their spirit crushed long ago and silently deal with unending years of crap.

You didn't make the muster.

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

(High five brother)

Nurse ratchet needs a hobby to

ding ding ding

I think we have a winner.

Just trying to help.

:)

It probably means she has been married 6 times
and has 37 grandchildren.
And you would be no help.

I think that people who never married are just smarter than the rest of us.

Yes. Especially to women who have been married. They can find something other than sex to talk about. I don't get why its a big deal, you weren't interested to begin with.

So, people who have never married only talk about sex?

And folks who have married usually talk about, what, quantum physics?

Most likely a scammer. Since you have no kids they couldn't run their scam on you. Don't worry you'll get hit again soon enough.

I didn't get the scammer vibe. And she was local.
I've also had a woman tell me that ninety percent of her friends would never even consider a guy of a certain age who was never married.

The scammers have vibrators now?

Hey hey now. That doesn't make me a scammer. What. What?

She may just have felt that you are not into the Family thing.

But I have to say there are men & women out there that were/are married and do have children, but neither care about the marriage vows nor that they have children. So "family" does not mean anything to those people.

Where as an never married childless man or woman could be caring about family very much.

Uh, a scammer can claim to be local but not actually be local. A while back, a scammer here put on her profile a claim that she lived in a certain small farming community in the central USA that most Mingle2 members probably have never heard of. As it turns out, I am quite familiar with that community, and so I began asking the scammer questions about it. A short time later, the scammer changed her profile so that it said she lived in a much-larger city located in California. It was then that I reported her to the moderators.




So, do those women want a man who is a widower or one who has gone through a divorce? Something about those women isn't right.