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Topic: How fast is "too fast"?
amaria90's photo
Thu 11/08/12 12:57 AM


What about when someone sends you a message and you've never spoke to them before


Depends on the context of the message. If it's the "Hey babe. Wat r u up 2 2day" variety then I swoon. :tongue:

I also guess I have hangups about guys saying hey babe and they're close to my kids age... they at least have to be 35 and up but at the same time, I don't mind being friends if I know they're not thinking romantic but just friends

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Thu 11/08/12 08:28 AM
too fast when you go on your first date and they want you to go on vacation with them.

lionsbrew's photo
Thu 11/08/12 09:29 AM
It depends on how interested I am in her and vice versa .

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Thu 11/08/12 09:33 AM

too fast when you go on your first date and they want you to go on vacation with them.



Ahh, the 'lets take a vacation together' trick.
Sounds like the perfect opportunity to kill ya scared

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Thu 11/08/12 02:04 PM


too fast when you go on your first date and they want you to go on vacation with them.



Ahh, the 'lets take a vacation together' trick.
Sounds like the perfect opportunity to kill ya scared


The ax in the trunk is only for firewood.

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Thu 11/08/12 02:18 PM



too fast when you go on your first date and they want you to go on vacation with them.



Ahh, the 'lets take a vacation together' trick.
Sounds like the perfect opportunity to kill ya scared


The ax in the trunk is only for firewood.



That's what he wants her to think.
We all know what the ax is really for.

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Thu 11/08/12 05:26 PM
yeah then after the first date non stop do u want to go on vacation?do u want to go on vacation? No I just met you

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 11/08/12 05:30 PM
well.

if your hands are down my pants while your sayin hello....


thats to fast!:heart:

Bravalady's photo
Thu 11/08/12 08:03 PM
Too fast is telling me he loves me on the second e-mail.

s1owhand's photo
Thu 11/08/12 09:36 PM
They are always touching me. They want to put their hand on my arm. Then they find some other way to casually brush up against me!

Really. Women have got to learn to try to keep their hands to themselves!!

rant

Secretly though...I kinda like it. But I try to make it light with
repartee and what is your favorite type of pizza. Stuff like that.

laugh

Usually though they just wanna have sex. Guess there is nothing to
be done about it. Then they fall in love and want to get married.
I think it is pretty natural. I seem to attract women who are like
wild animals full of hormones and ovulating.

laugh

It's not half bad.

laugh

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Thu 11/08/12 09:45 PM
Edited by cusecity on Thu 11/08/12 09:47 PM
hahah touche thats a good one Gossipmpm

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 11/08/12 10:07 PM
if she isn't Fu***** on the first date that's my deadline laugh noway indifferent

Simonedemidova's photo
Fri 11/09/12 12:24 AM
Never go on a cruise or scuba diving with someone, recipe for murder

Goofball73's photo
Fri 11/09/12 08:08 AM

if she isn't Fu***** on the first date that's my deadline laugh noway indifferent


So, you want the nookie first then get the digits? :tongue: laugh

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Fri 11/09/12 10:04 AM

So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"?


Easy one! As fast as she lets you. You have to decide if the prize is worth the wait.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 11/17/12 06:14 AM
Myself since I don't do the LDR thing ...they must be local so I prefer to meet as soon as possible..That is if they interest me...Some are just jerks and think they have a sense of humor slaphead .But I prefer to keep the e-mails since I'm not a big one on texting... I will give them my number the day we decide to meet in case something comes up and they need to call....whoa

RoamingOrator's photo
Sat 11/17/12 03:49 PM
Well, I guess if on your first date she hands you a tuxedo and says, "I'll meet you at the other end of this aisle," that might be a little quick. surprised

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 11/18/12 11:45 AM
Who meets after a few emails and no phones calls, just because they live close by!noway

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