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Topic: genuine and decent men,not wanted
uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Wed 06/12/13 07:21 AM
Why is it difficult to get genuine and decent ladies that are ready "for better and for worse".why do they prefer junks and unserious men?

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 06/12/13 07:25 AM
Because they mistakenly believe the junk yard dogs are more exciting than us.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Wed 06/12/13 09:56 AM
Why is it difficult to get genuine and decent ladies that are ready "for better and for worse".why do they prefer junks and unserious men? Uh, define "junks"?

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 06/12/13 09:58 AM
Why is it difficult to get genuine and decent ladies that are ready "for better and for worse".why do they prefer junks and unserious men? Uh, define "junks"? Oh, I thought it said 'hunks.'

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Wed 06/12/13 10:13 AM
Sometimes, a woman won't give a man the time of day unless the man can provide the woman with the kind of lifestyle that she wants. However, not all women are like that.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Wed 06/12/13 01:07 PM
Just because she says no to you doesn't mean she doesn't want a good man. Don't you want her choice to be at least a little personal...and not just because your a good man? I know several good men I would not be interested in romantically. I have to have an instinct.

mrniceguy0214 Joined Tue 06/11/13 Posts: 14	Wed 06/12/13 01:34 PM
it is all about mutual attraction and what they are used too. Don't fret about it too much just move on and find the one that loves you for who you are

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 06/12/13 01:55 PM
Sometimes, a woman won't give a man the time of day unless the man can provide the woman with the kind of lifestyle that she wants. However, not all women are like that. ((((DD))) Fok. them spoiled *******

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 06/12/13 01:56 PM
Just because she says no to you doesn't mean she doesn't want a good man. Don't you want her choice to be at least a little personal...and not just because your a good man? I know several good men I would not be interested in romantically. I have to have an instinct. Well said

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21391	Wed 06/12/13 03:12 PM
It's all about the size of their junk.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 06/12/13 03:20 PM
It's all about the size of their junk.

Momoiro_Usagi_7 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 1450	Wed 06/12/13 03:23 PM
Just because she says no to you doesn't mean she doesn't want a good man. Don't you want her choice to be at least a little personal...and not just because your a good man? I know several good men I would not be interested in romantically. I have to have an instinct. Agree

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 06/12/13 03:36 PM
Why is it difficult to get genuine and decent ladies that are ready "for better and for worse".why do they prefer junks and unserious men? Okay I read your profile to see if I could get a clue about what you consider to be a good man. Here is my impressions. (Here is the problem for American women: You are in Nigeria) Do you believe you are supposed to be considered a good man because you are a practicing Christian? What is the difference between a "practicing Christian and a regular Christian. That worries me. In your profile you said "I hate ungodliness,lies and hypocrisy" That comes off as judgmental an self righteous. You said: "I like prayer and making people happy.I laugh and smile!!!." That sounds like you don't know whether to be a preacher or a comedian. You said this: "I need GODLY and genuine christians and those that want to change for good as friends." (Sounds like you want to convert people or change them to what you think they should be.) You tell people not to email you unless... "Please if you are not tired of sin, dont send your mail to me" You said: "Though i speak with the tongues of men and of Angels,and have not love, i am become as a sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. He that is born of God does not go on sinning. Shalom" You sound like a zealot. That's just scary. So its not that "women prefer Junks and unserious men..." as you seem to believe and assume. Its that most women are looking for normal intelligent men who don't have such delusions of grandeur and abnormal expectations.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Wed 06/12/13 03:52 PM Edited by ridewytepony on Wed 06/12/13 04:01 PM
It's all about the size of their junk. too funny! Junks : I dont think It needs defining, It would mean no good or (junkies) which is no good He's talking about "party girls" anyways...it is what it is with then. just drag up your gear and find a another spot to troll with less fog..the water might not be so shallow elsewhere.

GLrider Joined Mon 04/22/13 Posts: 203	Wed 06/12/13 10:13 PM
Sounds like a control issue to me.

onlyson Joined Sun 06/09/13 Posts: 107	Wed 06/12/13 11:24 PM
Just because she says no to you doesn't mean she doesn't want a good man. Don't you want her choice to be at least a little personal...and not just because your a good man? I know several good men I would not be interested in romantically. I have to have an instinct. Agree

onlyson Joined Sun 06/09/13 Posts: 107	Wed 06/12/13 11:27 PM
Last I checked animals are creatures of instinct unable to understand wisdom. You can tell em a million and one times to look both ways before they cross the road but leave them alone for two seconds and there they are chasing used tires.

renee2511 Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 150	Thu 06/13/13 07:23 AM
Why is it difficult to get genuine and decent ladies that are ready "for better and for worse".why do they prefer junks and unserious men? Okay I read your profile to see if I could get a clue about what you consider to be a good man. Here is my impressions. (Here is the problem for American women: You are in Nigeria) Do you believe you are supposed to be considered a good man because you are a practicing Christian? What is the difference between a "practicing Christian and a regular Christian. That worries me. In your profile you said "I hate ungodliness,lies and hypocrisy" That comes off as judgmental an self righteous. You said: "I like prayer and making people happy.I laugh and smile!!!." That sounds like you don't know whether to be a preacher or a comedian. You said this: "I need GODLY and genuine christians and those that want to change for good as friends." (Sounds like you want to convert people or change them to what you think they should be.) You tell people not to email you unless... "Please if you are not tired of sin, dont send your mail to me" You said: "Though i speak with the tongues of men and of Angels,and have not love, i am become as a sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. He that is born of God does not go on sinning. Shalom" You sound like a zealot. That's just scary. So its not that "women prefer Junks and unserious men..." as you seem to believe and assume. Its that most women are looking for normal intelligent men who don't have such delusions of grandeur and abnormal expectations. LOL just right

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14505	Thu 06/13/13 05:02 PM
I am a decent lady, desires a respectable gentleman with some money. I don't like men who prey on women.

placidlake Joined Tue 03/05/13 Posts: 3	Fri 06/14/13 10:06 PM
im going to be completely honest - the element of surprise and excitement - men need to be spontaneous - most good men are so predictable - spice it up and that women is urs!!