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Topic: What are women really looking for?
Joe138's photo
Fri 05/16/14 03:12 PM
Just wanted to hear from a women's point of view what you would look for in your ideal man?

Milan1315's photo
Sat 05/17/14 02:03 AM
Someone who makes everything else feel insignificant . Someone who just makes you a better person .

TBRich's photo
Sat 05/17/14 02:25 AM

Someone who makes everything else feel insignificant . Someone who just makes you a better person .


Wow, a real woman for a change of pace,kudos

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Sat 05/17/14 02:35 AM
Better

karate_chop's photo
Sat 05/17/14 07:57 AM
easy but fascinating answer... I love it

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Sat 05/17/14 10:56 AM
huh <<<<<<Not what they're looking for. grumble
Oh well.ohwell

cococabeza's photo
Sat 05/17/14 09:31 PM
Someone who makes me feel loved and beautiful every day:) Puts a permanent smile on my face.

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Sat 05/17/14 11:07 PM
women looking for a person who makes them worthy

LUNG1954's photo
Mon 05/19/14 11:59 AM
The woman is like a rose. If you treat her right, she'll bloom. If you don't, she'll wilt. I feel happy near her even with no sex.
If you treat her same way you treat others. How is she supposed to know that she's special to you?

MariahsFantasy's photo
Mon 05/19/14 12:18 PM
The ability to say "I'm wrong" and mean it in his actions

There's a line in the movie Closer that goes: "You don't know the first thing about love because you don't understand compromise."

The most selfish individuals can stay single, that's the best part about being single, nothing wrong with it. Relationships are for people who know the balance, but the kicker is knowing someone who understands it.

dcastelmissy's photo
Mon 05/19/14 12:23 PM

The woman is like a rose. If you treat her right, she'll bloom. If you don't, she'll wilt. I feel happy near her even with no sex.
If you treat her same way you treat others. How is she supposed to know that she's special to you?



This is the way I would have described it^^^^^...it's true of every relationship or interpersonal connection. Treat the person with respect and love, they thrive; treat a person with disrespect and meanness that relationship will die a quick death. :wink:

mishumo24's photo
Mon 05/19/14 04:00 PM
Thy r looking for a naughty 25yr guy like me Joburg lyndhurst

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Mon 05/19/14 09:12 PM
hi add me i want chat with u can you chat with me

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Mon 05/19/14 09:20 PM
Sum1 who cn do anytin juzz to be wit is lover everyday

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 05/19/14 09:59 PM
I am looking for someone that is worth making those special efforts to make the one in my life feel he truly matters and I matter to him. It is more about character, loyalty, and real friendship/partnership in all things than just sex. But that said it should be someone that draws that desire that lets me make my desire for him a gift rather than a demand or even a right or some kind of barter.

I get there are a lot of messed up relationships where sex is always an issue because it is either unsatisfying, non-existent, or little more than a way to torture the other but when one or the other partner makes it an issue rather than just happening when it is mutually acceptable is one where it will always be messed up and my idea of a relationship is between the two people involved not paying punishment for the sins of another.

I get to know and trust someone and care about them I will have sex with them and enjoy it and if past history is any indication so will my partner.

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Tue 05/20/14 03:30 PM
Depends on the lady. She may want just sex. She may want a guy that gives her financial security. She may want a guy who is makes her laugh and just gets her. I mean....I could go on and on....but the bottom line is they all want what "they" (in particular) want. :thumbsup:

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Tue 05/20/14 04:04 PM
Throughout my lifetime....I've come to find that the question, "what are women looking for?", has been asked by men since human beings were able to communicate. laugh personally, I find it difficult to try to judge a woman by what she's looking for, being that women are probably the most unpredictable creatures on the planet. happy I tend not to lean towards "what they are looking for", but "how much effort are they putting forth to find it". Women, like men, are all looking for different things, the difference is that women are more wired by their emotions, they tend to easily change their training of thought from one minute to the next by what they happen to be feeling at the moment. I've studied methods of many "so called" pick up artists, and believe it or not- they tend to work quite well, however, they are useless as far as finding a women that fits the description of what your looking for. For example: if a man were to use these so called psych methods(which I am against) and be lucky enough to land a beautiful girl and become attached, they are likely to find their self contradicting everything about their own personality in order to meet the standards of this lady they are trying to please.....this will do nothing but make you miserable for the rest of your life, given that she doesn't leave first, if your luck, out of her own misery on account of y'all not being actually compatible. The best method I've found for finding women you enjoy being with is just being very straight forward, be inquisitive- ask her questions pertaining to your views. Seek compatibility and a "like mind". I mean..basically just tell them like it is- never just tell a woman what she wants to hear, despite how attractive she may be, by all means be polite, but don't be afraid to calmly express your views on anything you may disagree on, and if her looks meet your standards but her morals, ethics, and personality do not, it's best to just let her go and walk away. Nobody should be miserable, and perhaps she'll meet someone else's standards just as you will, ultimately making life better for the both of you. Hope this helps answer your question..good luck happy

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Tue 05/20/14 04:09 PM

Throughout my lifetime happy

You're only 24, hardly a lifetime to have an opinion on women.
Besides, we wouldn't have the same appeal if you could understand us:wink:

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Tue 05/20/14 04:11 PM


Throughout my lifetime happy

You're only 24, hardly a lifetime to have an opinion on women.
Besides, we wouldn't have the same appeal if you could understand us:wink:


Hey....I learn something new every day biggrin

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 05/20/14 04:19 PM

I am looking for someone that is worth making those special efforts to make the one in my life feel he truly matters and I matter to him. It is more about character, loyalty, and real friendship/partnership in all things than just sex. But that said it should be someone that draws that desire that lets me make my desire for him a gift rather than a demand or even a right or some kind of barter.

I get there are a lot of messed up relationships where sex is always an issue because it is either unsatisfying, non-existent, or little more than a way to torture the other but when one or the other partner makes it an issue rather than just happening when it is mutually acceptable is one where it will always be messed up and my idea of a relationship is between the two people involved not paying punishment for the sins of another.

I get to know and trust someone and care about them I will have sex with them and enjoy it and if past history is any indication so will my partner.


Yes

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