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sifundoh Joined Wed 10/29/14 Posts: 5	Mon 02/16/15 12:01 AM
Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person?

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Mon 02/16/15 12:10 AM
Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person? Stupidity

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 02/16/15 12:14 AM
Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person? good luck

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Mon 02/16/15 12:21 AM
No its not......

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Mon 02/16/15 02:42 AM
Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person? Speak for yourself, as if it was me they would be shown the door permenently! Never again to return! Toughen up mate and get a backbone, eh?

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Mon 02/16/15 02:57 AM
I think for some people they blame themselves wondering what they did wrong to drive someone to cheat.For myself its a deal breaker for sure.

Conrad_73 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 22488	Mon 02/16/15 03:17 AM


MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Mon 02/16/15 03:56 AM
Often, it's less about being able to let a cheater go and more those who cheat are often emotionally abusive and are able to convince the other person that they could never find anyone else, let alone do better.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Mon 02/16/15 04:16 AM
Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person? I don't know what you are going through, but have respect for yourself and let that cheater go.

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Mon 02/16/15 04:39 AM
Boot to the backside is all I can say.

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Mon 02/16/15 05:46 AM Edited by RoamingOrator on Mon 02/16/15 05:46 AM
Why is it hard? Simple, humans are naturally social creatures, so the idea of letting someone go is scary, especially if one actually cares for the person. Having been through this very thing, I know what you mean, but how far is too far for you? This kind of behavior won't go away, an established cheater will always continue, especially if you keep forgiving them. So it is best to treat it like pulling off a Band-Aid. Sure, it's going to hurt when you leave them, but it causes much more cumulative pain to allow someone to treat you in this fashion time after time.

Zuglo65 Joined Sun 05/01/11 Posts: 77	Mon 02/16/15 04:27 PM
Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person? I don't know what you are going through, but have respect for yourself and let that cheater go. Best advice.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76377	Mon 02/16/15 05:50 PM
You know we can all tell you to kick them to the curb.. Which is where they need to be... But in reality we keep them around cause we love them or scared that we can't make it on our own..... Only you can decide when it is time to let go.... One thing you have to remember is you can make it on your own. One day you will see what they did and no matter what you did, you could not have fixed the problem.

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Mon 02/16/15 06:20 PM
co-dependance.

new_casanova Joined Mon 02/16/15 Posts: 92	Mon 02/16/15 06:42 PM
Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person? The luvrv for her genitelia

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 02/16/15 06:43 PM
Why is it so hard to let go of a cheating person? Well see.....I know a guy who can "make this problem disappear for ya" and you won't have this issue.