Topic: How easy or how hard can you fall in love again after been H
jessekellinger's photo
Tue 05/05/15 04:39 PM
How easy or how hard can you fall in love again after
been Hurt?

JustScribbles's photo
Tue 05/05/15 04:48 PM
rofl I fall in love (or some sexier approximation of it tongue2 ) daily...and if it's warm out, here in College Station, that happens a LOT more frequently. surprised drool

lynnleeds's photo
Tue 05/05/15 05:17 PM
who knows one of the 64 million dollar questions.i guess the answer for me is if u been hurt give it time grieve get mad get over it then u ready and good luck

Goofball73's photo
Tue 05/05/15 05:22 PM
If within three weeks of seeing a girl you find yourself proposing to her......yeah.....you have fallen pretty hard dude.

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 05/05/15 06:34 PM

If within three weeks of seeing a girl you find yourself proposing to her......yeah.....you have fallen pretty hard dude.

Holy Crap Batman if that ever happened I would be so running..

Now seriously OP... I honestly believe time is your friend in this situation...
If I have nothing vested.. I eat ice cream... watch boo hoo chick flicks then get to the gym and sweat him out...

If I am vested well that takes a long time before I am ready to saddle up again.

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 05/05/15 06:34 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Tue 05/05/15 06:35 PM
Damn double posts...frustrated frustrated frustrated

keegan1965's photo
Tue 05/05/15 08:56 PM


I think after you have been hurt you may have your guard up more. Being able to move on is different for everyone.
You know you are ready to date again when that someone special lowers that guard down and you let them in.

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 05/05/15 09:27 PM

How easy or how hard can you fall in love again after
been Hurt?

It can be almost impossible.
Until you meet someone that makes that hurt go away.
That takes a very special, rare person.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Thu 05/07/15 03:12 PM
Edited by IgorFrankensteen on Thu 05/07/15 03:14 PM
The question is too imprecise.

I've seen people fall hard, get crushed, and turn around and fall hard again as soon as they completely understood the first person was done and gone. They weren't 'rebounding,' either.

The key is, what part of your psyche and what part of your beliefs were "hurt."

People who's faith in love is unshaken, fall again relatively easily.

People who's understanding of themselves, and of love itself has been seriously damaged, may never completely recover.


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Sun 05/10/15 10:32 AM
How 'hard' I fall depends upon the heels on the shoes I were currently wearing...

Awatersign's photo
Sun 05/10/15 11:18 AM
I'd say depends on a few things,the person that you are,(some people get attached more easier and deeper than some),the time you've been together,who's fault it is for breaking up,example,if I cheated,It'll be really hard for me cause I fkd up,if she cheated,piece of cake,and it also depends on the next person you meet,she may sweep you of your feet so hard that you may have serious memory loss from hittin your head on the floor!love

bashajones's photo
Sun 05/10/15 12:04 PM
Thought this was a thread about my breakfast eggs?....oops


Btw, scrambled. Like my brain....:tongue:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 05/10/15 12:36 PM
At a certain point/age in life we've all been hurt at least once. It's up to the person him/herself to recover and heal.
And yes, you can fall in love again, both easy and hard. Just depends how much you allow yourself to heal, and of course the right person has gotta come along. And you may get hurt again, when you fall in love and it doesn't last. Nothing ventured, nothing gained though. Part of life.
You live, you learn, you love, you get hurt, you get up and move on, and do it all over again.

bashajones's photo
Sun 05/10/15 02:22 PM

At a certain point/age in life we've all been hurt at least once. It's up to the person him/herself to recover and heal.
And yes, you can fall in love again, both easy and hard. Just depends how much you allow yourself to heal, and of course the right person has gotta come along. And you may get hurt again, when you fall in love and it doesn't last. Nothing ventured, nothing gained though. Part of life.
You live, you learn, you love, you get hurt, you get up and move on, and do it all over again.


And then you die?....tears

TMommy's photo
Sun 05/10/15 02:29 PM
now ain't love grand? bigsmile

no1phD's photo
Sun 05/10/15 03:02 PM
I fall in and out of love.. with the drop of a Kleenex box..lol.

TMommy's photo
Sun 05/10/15 03:18 PM
hahahaa that is not love buster

unless ya meant self love whoa tongue2

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Sun 05/10/15 03:21 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Sun 05/10/15 03:22 PM

rofl I fall in love (or some sexier approximation of it tongue2 ) daily...and if it's warm out, here in College Station, that happens a LOT more frequently. surprised drool


In comparison to this answer.......
I am the complete opposite of this^^^^.
If, I am in love ...there is no room
for anyone else...nor a need for my eyes to roam.

no1phD's photo
Sun 05/10/15 03:22 PM
nothing wrong with self love.. lol..
. it's safe... no risk of getting hurt..
. well okay unless I run out of lube..
. rug burn.....lol

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Sun 05/10/15 03:23 PM



I think after you have been hurt you may have your guard up more. Being able to move on is different for everyone.
You know you are ready to date again when that someone special lowers that guard down and you let them in.


True..