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Topic: Quirky
Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 09/19/15 08:23 AM
Would you want your future or current partner to be quirky in their own unique way or does that sound too much like eccentric to you?

Irremissible Joined Thu 09/17/15 Posts: 37	Sat 09/19/15 08:25 AM
Would you want your future or current partner to be quirky in their own unique way or does that sound too much like eccentric to you? Depends on the quirkiness. Like walking around in a tin foil hat? Ummm No

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 09/19/15 08:46 AM
Looks up from his work bench and. stops color coding the squirrels in his neighborhood.. for a second to answer the topic.... what exactly do you mean by ..quirky?

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76374	Sat 09/19/15 08:49 AM
The way I see it I should have been aware of any quirkiness traits they have before I commented to a full relationship. If it does not bother me prior, then all I can say is have fun and let them be themselves.... We all have traits that make us the person we are.. If it is traits that we can not deal with in a relationship then we really did not think it through when the relationship started..

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 09/19/15 09:22 AM
Would you want your future or current partner to be quirky in their own unique way or does that sound too much like eccentric to you? Depends on the quirkiness. Like walking around in a tin foil hat? Ummm No Is that considered quirky? More like not wanting cell phone radiation to penetrate. Seriously tell them to buy a full tin foil suit!!!

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 09/19/15 09:31 AM
Looks up from his work bench and. stops color coding the squirrels in his neighborhood.. for a second to answer the topic.... what exactly do you mean by ..quirky? Hmmm, quirky as in strange, passionate, habits or interests like color coding squirrels or is that OCD? Are you coloring coding by gender?

Angeleyessees Joined Sun 07/26/15 Posts: 19	Sat 09/19/15 09:34 AM
I thought everyone had quirks? LOL! I think it has to be give and take with them, if you are attracting the same sort.... I like to look in the mirror for men, although not as loud as me.....

Irremissible Joined Thu 09/17/15 Posts: 37	Sat 09/19/15 09:35 AM
Would you want your future or current partner to be quirky in their own unique way or does that sound too much like eccentric to you? Depends on the quirkiness. Like walking around in a tin foil hat? Ummm No Is that considered quirky? More like not wanting cell phone radiation to penetrate. Seriously tell them to buy a full tin foil suit!!! Not to the tin foil hat population, no not quirky at all I like a little quirky to keep things interesting. It just depends on what the quirkiness is

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 09/19/15 09:36 AM
The way I see it I should have been aware of any quirkiness traits they have before I commented to a full relationship. If it does not bother me prior, then all I can say is have fun and let them be themselves.... We all have traits that make us the person we are.. If it is traits that we can not deal with in a relationship then we really did not think it through when the relationship started.. What if he just sprung it on you like he only wears pink on Nov 26, blue on Irish Day. Purple at xmas etc amd you were not aware? Would love triumph over quirkiness?

Amit77492 Joined Thu 10/23/14 Posts: 1	Sat 09/19/15 09:37 AM
dependsdo nt ht situation!!!

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Sat 09/19/15 09:39 AM
well by definition quirks are oddities or eccentricities that are liked or appreciated. so who cares if it is a newly acquired quirk?

Irremissible Joined Thu 09/17/15 Posts: 37	Sat 09/19/15 09:40 AM
The way I see it I should have been aware of any quirkiness traits they have before I commented to a full relationship. If it does not bother me prior, then all I can say is have fun and let them be themselves.... We all have traits that make us the person we are.. If it is traits that we can not deal with in a relationship then we really did not think it through when the relationship started.. What if he just sprung it on you like he only wears pink on Nov 26, blue on Irish Day. Purple at xmas etc amd you were not aware? Would love triumph over quirkiness? or if he suddenly decides he prefers wearing silky.. never mind that would be more a fetish then quirky

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sat 09/19/15 02:42 PM
Would you want your future or current partner to be quirky in their own unique way or does that sound too much like eccentric to you? I think for the most part I would be fine with it. Now if my guy starting stashing all the cow poop or something we will be having a talk. But some quirkiness is great and makes a person unique. If wears Pink on a day in November. I am taking pictures.. blackmail material...

TrystaBella85 Joined Thu 09/17/15 Posts: 298	Sat 09/19/15 02:43 PM
I'll take quirky over crazy any day.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Sat 09/19/15 02:46 PM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sat 09/19/15 02:46 PM
Like my Paint-Roadie (GRIN) I also thought "What's wrong with quirky?" I always thought it was positive... According to Google: eccentric, idiosyncratic, unconventional, unorthodox, unusual, strange, bizarre, peculiar, odd, outlandish He\|\| yes! I don't want a boring f@rt NOR do I want my own quirky things to stand out too much

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Sat 09/19/15 02:47 PM
Looks up from his work bench and. stops color coding the squirrels in his neighborhood.. for a second to answer the topic.... what exactly do you mean by ..quirky? No1 What the heck are you doing now??? I know you got tired of the goat... but please leave the squirrels be!! Poor things ...

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 09/19/15 03:01 PM
I thought everyone had quirks? LOL! I think it has to be give and take with them, if you are attracting the same sort.... I like to look in the mirror for men, although not as loud as me..... Love that answer... I am attracted to introverted but sociable.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 09/19/15 03:03 PM
well by definition quirks are oddities or eccentricities that are liked or appreciated. so who cares if it is a newly acquired quirk? I agree

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 09/19/15 03:06 PM
Would you want your future or current partner to be quirky in their own unique way or does that sound too much like eccentric to you? I think for the most part I would be fine with it. Now if my guy starting stashing all the cow poop or something we will be having a talk. But some quirkiness is great and makes a person unique. If wears Pink on a day in November. I am taking pictures.. blackmail material... Ha ha, for me it would depend WHERE he was stashing the cow poop. Stashing cow poop seems harmless. For the record I LOVE guys who are bold enough to wear pink

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sat 09/19/15 03:06 PM
I'll take quirky over crazy any day. Amen to that!!!