Some French-Canadian guy ask me if I wanna hang out with him. I said yes, then he was like. "Okay, don't dress like a homeless okay." What the **** right? That's just kind of insulting. Or I'm just overreacting about it? Either way, that's not a good thing to say. Should I still go?

hang out with him at a club with other people? you might enjoy yourself
hang out just with him at his place? up to you but he sounds like a douchebag to me

He said he meant to just dress classy or decent.

could be a difference in culture/language
could be he is just a jerk

could be he is already telling you what to wear and what not to
could be he is a hot guy so you are willing to go find out

I dont know, I was okay with it. But then I got turned off. But I really think he's hot though lol

If you want a control-freak, go for it.

Haha I asked him that. He didn't answer back

See, your radar is in place, and working.
You do not wish to listen to it :-)

I would not be impressed. Dump him. Asap.
Hot or not, there's plenty of other hotties around that will treat you with respect.
Even if it was meant in a humorous way, it felt off to you, and it was. Quite crude and the timing was all wrong. You don't want a bloke with no sense of timing.

I guess you're right.

He said he's not. Lol

You should have told him the best part of dating a homeless girl is after the date is over you can drop her off anywhere.

^^^^^what Jack said. If you had retorted with a funny, and he got po'd, then you would know for sure.

That and if you take her azz to Taco Bell she will think you are spending the big bucks.

This guy is insulting you so you will go away. It is a pretty gutless way to go about telling you to get lost but not everyone is "random", emotionally change able, and has no boundaries as you self describe in your profile.

Granted it does not make you a bad person for all; but sounds like a mismatch for this guy. Which if you are attracted to him is maybe your lucky day. Least he is giving you a chance to get with the program.

May not be your strongest ability but, if you like him, and you want him to like you, then you may have to adapt your behavior, and appearance, to be near enough to him to be associated with him. And I doubt that is true of a lot of people.

If he is nice and doesn't "dominate you, let's it be your positive choice; then I don't see it as all bad. IF he is grooming you to pimp you out then RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. Not every fatherly/big brother advice is someone actually being those things.

However there is some point in your life you have to move beyond the sloppy hair in your face beach bum teeny bopper look and come into your own in the adult world. Sounds like you kind of crashed into that wall and it is hurting your feelings. And if it doesn't feel that great, what days later, maybe it is time to put your big girl panties on and dress/act more adult.

You sure won't be the first or the last young woman to get un-ceremonially excluded until you do grow up. And you could just continue to rebel and do your own thing. It would be kind of sad because the pool of people who accept child like behavior shrinks pretty fast from here on out but you are your own person weather it cuts your nose off to spite your face or not.

COULD he have handled the conversation with kinder words, hopefully privately, even offered you a little help if you have limited means to upgrade your wardrobe? Yea but would you have listened and let it sink in? But "control freak" maybe/ maybe not.

On the outside chance he is a little more mature, and able to fit into the world, and is giving you good advice; that might actually make your life easier, as a true friend and not some guy who just wants to get in the sack with you consider what he is saying. The difference between an associate and a real friend is the true friend does not always tell you what you want to hear but what you need to hear.

I wish you well whatever you decide. Good luck.

The manner of talking tells something about the person, the choice of words and how it is delivered. I think it is only you who can feel that, of how you perceived it and how did it make you feel , you said you were insulted then I guess that rings a bell how he would behave towards you, how he would treat you with respect? If you sense somekind of a domineering attitude , I would say becareful my dear coz you might end up wearing your heart on your sleeves and you will become his prey.

If you want to get to know him better , well give him the benefit of the doubt......see for yourself.....who knows he might turn out to be a good man to tame you and maybe help you to become more matured and wiser:)

Give it a try, go meet him and if he's not okay........well........life goes on..... search again

Yes.

If you need to go online to ask people to tell you what to do, then you should go meet a potential date that seems to have no problem telling you what he wants you to do.

Seems like a win win for you, compatibility and all that.

Well he is French Canadian.. I would imagine he was just joking with you..
Like when you meet someone online and you're just starting to get to know that person.. I use this one a lot.. okay I will give you my phone number. but please don't be a crazy..lol... or it was just his way of saying dress yourself up not down.as in casual... but then again! usually you put a lol..And a jk..to let the person know you're just joking behind such a statement.. don't dress like a homeless person lol just joking.. but then again you did say French Canadian and they can be kind of rude..oui..lol

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Always seeing the bright side, Jack :-)