Topic: Size
no photo
Mon 02/15/16 03:44 PM
I can date a guy who weighs 250 pounds, but we're not going to have sex. It wouldn't work.

mightymoe's photo
Mon 02/15/16 03:50 PM

I can date a guy who weighs 250 pounds, but we're not going to have sex. It wouldn't work.


what for? free dinners?

no photo
Mon 02/15/16 04:02 PM
I'm talking about physically, I can't be in bed and have sex with a man who is big and tall. It doesn't work.

mightymoe's photo
Mon 02/15/16 04:07 PM

I'm talking about physically, I can't be in bed and have sex with a man who is big and tall. It doesn't work.


i'm not getting why you would date him then... no chance of marriage or sex, i don't see any point to it...

no photo
Mon 02/15/16 04:32 PM
I'm good with myself.

RustyKitty's photo
Tue 02/16/16 05:49 AM


I'm talking about physically, I can't be in bed and have sex with a man who is big and tall. It doesn't work.


there's always the top

^^^indeed...what he said..
there is more to sex than 'missionary style'..
He doesn't have to be 'on' you at all..then, there's the foreplay.. Cat, get out of the box, and stop limiting yourself.

soufiehere's photo
Tue 02/16/16 06:47 AM
Edited for off-topic.
Do not denigrate other members.

soufie
Site Moderator

isaac_dede's photo
Tue 02/16/16 07:46 AM
250 doesn't always mean fat....


motowndowntown's photo
Tue 02/16/16 07:50 AM
Yes, because I've got weak springs on my pick-up.

♣️dwebagirl♣️'s photo
Tue 02/16/16 07:52 AM
Yes size matters.

jacktrades's photo
Tue 02/16/16 08:33 AM
When I was young and more narcissistic yes it mattered, but now that I am middle aged and learned a few things about life I tend to look at what a woman has in her soul.

peggy122's photo
Tue 02/16/16 03:38 PM
Edited by peggy122 on Tue 02/16/16 03:45 PM
I do know that the level of attraction a person feels towards another does indeed count. As to what physical features attract me to a man, I am not quite sure since I have been attracted to short, tall , skinny and overweight men in the past, but I know this much about myself...

Anyone who looks unhealthy, or displays unhealthy tendencies in terms of lack of energy , low resistance to the flu, lack of stamina, is not attractive to me. As it turns out, I have met skinny , overweight and in between people who have possessed the look and/or behavior of an unhealthy person.

Ofcourse if I fell in love with the person at a certain look and activity level, but an unhealthy look or tendency developed over time, I would still love them

no photo
Tue 02/16/16 06:04 PM
Ofcourse if I fell in love with the person at a certain look and activity level, but an unhealthy look or tendency developed over time, I would still love them


i popped in the thread just to write this !
Again ! lol

peggy122's photo
Tue 02/16/16 07:24 PM

Ofcourse if I fell in love with the person at a certain look and activity level, but an unhealthy look or tendency developed over time, I would still love them


i popped in the thread just to write this !
Again ! lol


:thumbsup:

Ready4changes's photo
Wed 02/17/16 04:20 AM
Each to their own I guess. For me personally I am attracted to a nice smile and laughing eyes first! Healthy and kind heart. ...size is all just a number after that.

Duttoneer's photo
Thu 02/18/16 06:37 AM

Does size matter to you when dating ?weight wise .


Certainly does.
When they say they are "A few extra pounds" in their profile and then turn up looking like someone who kickstarts Jumbo Jets at the airport it is a little misleading.

Rashidrishi's photo
Thu 02/18/16 07:16 AM
Yup size hight smartness are main pillars of date .....

R4iinM4N's photo
Thu 02/18/16 08:45 AM
it depends.....some people like big ,small ,fat and slim

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 02/18/16 08:55 AM
I guess not really, if you stand them all in their heads they all will look like sisters

no1phD's photo
Thu 02/18/16 09:45 AM
I had a girlfriend once.. she told me size did not matter.. 2 days later she broke up with me! to date a African American basketball player.....
Now I'm just confused...lol