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Edited by
kriszo101
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Fri 04/29/16 04:11 PM
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Yes, the cheater is selfish. You can make all kinds of excuses but the truth is.....it's wrong but they don't care. It's all about their lack of character. If they are not fulfilled in their marriage then they should show respect to their spouse and ask for a divorce. People who cheat cannot be trusted to mean what they say. Cheaters are selfish, they don't give a **** whom they hurt. It's not only men that cheats. It's been there since after God's creation.  
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Well spoken 
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Cheating is no good for anyone involved (the person being cheated on ends up feeling like there maybe something wrong with them like, like its their fault, and may cause them to question new relationships in turn damaging them) (The cheater may feel good and be having fun at first but they are only left with the choice of trying to redeem themselves to the person they cheated on and may end up never actually earning the love or trust they once had from their special person) (and the other person they may be left with the guilt of coming into and tearing apart a happy couple or even family when they find out there a secret they may not even trust the person cheating in the end simply because they know that person is capable of causing so much intentional pain) all round cheating just hurts everyone one way or another if your not happy in your relationship don't break everyone save yourself the pain save the person you say you love the agony of not knowing why they lost you to someone else.
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Cheating is no good for anyone involved (the person being cheated on ends up feeling like there maybe something wrong with them like, like its their fault, and may cause them to question new relationships in turn damaging them) (The cheater may feel good and be having fun at first but they are only left with the choice of trying to redeem themselves to the person they cheated on and may end up never actually earning the love or trust they once had from their special person) (and the other person they may be left with the guilt of coming into and tearing apart a happy couple or even family when they find out there a secret they may not even trust the person cheating in the end simply because they know that person is capable of causing so much intentional pain) all round cheating just hurts everyone one way or another if your not happy in your relationship don't break everyone save yourself the pain save the person you say you love the agony of not knowing why they lost you to someone else.
:brokenheart
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Cheating is no good for anyone involved (the person being cheated on ends up feeling like there maybe something wrong with them like, like its their fault, and may cause them to question new relationships in turn damaging them) (The cheater may feel good and be having fun at first but they are only left with the choice of trying to redeem themselves to the person they cheated on and may end up never actually earning the love or trust they once had from their special person) (and the other person they may be left with the guilt of coming into and tearing apart a happy couple or even family when they find out there a secret they may not even trust the person cheating in the end simply because they know that person is capable of causing so much intentional pain) all round cheating just hurts everyone one way or another if your not happy in your relationship don't break everyone save yourself the pain save the person you say you love the agony of not knowing why they lost you to someone else. :brokenheart well said....welcome to the forum 
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Cheating on your spouse can never be justified. It is thoughtless, insensitive, demeaning, humiliating...to say the least. It destroys trust and can also leave your partner wounded for life. If people would live the maxim, 'do to others what you would like done to you', then cheating im marriage would only be a preserve of those who do not mind their partners cheating on them! The epitome of love is to say 'NO' when everything in you say 'YES' to the temptation to cheat on your spouse. Thank you.
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Cheating on your spouse can never be justified. It is thoughtless, insensitive, demeaning, humiliating...to say the least. It destroys trust and can also leave your partner wounded for life. If people would live the maxim, 'do to others what you would like done to you', then cheating im marriage would only be a preserve of those who do not mind their partners cheating on them! The epitome of love is to say 'NO' when everything in you say 'YES' to the temptation to cheat on your spouse. Thank you. You are welcome. Nice and honest thread. Thank you
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You inspired me...thanks.
I can forbear anything but infidelity. Well, I am yet to love but I doubt love can bear infidelity, either. |
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well, as long as i committed at someone i will respect my partner in anyways. even he is not good to me. i have to end my relation than to cheat. thats what my opinion.
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well, as long as i committed at someone i will respect my partner in anyways. even he is not good to me. i have to end my relation than to cheat. thats what my opinion. That's the only way to live. Smart lady 
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The most frequent two reasons- you guessed it- had to do with sex.
Most couples says that they either felt their marriage was sexually no satisfying, or they wished to have more sex than they were having now. They reported that they weren’t emotionally satisfied in their current relationship or wished to gain additional emotional connection or validation. The least frequent reasons for engaging in affairs had to do with love either falling out of love with their partner or falling in love with the new partner. 
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well, as long as i committed at someone i will respect my partner in anyways. even he is not good to me. i have to end my relation than to cheat. thats what my opinion. That is a very logical outlook. Good Luck
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I dont know why people cheat. I never did it before.
 Kidding aside, if you feel like you are not happy with the relationship anymore, then get out of it. Cheating is not an option. Cheating is just for a person who wants to reserve his partner for himself and have someone else at the same time. |
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I dont know why people cheat. I never did it before. Kidding aside, if you feel like you are not happy with the relationship anymore, then get out of it. Cheating is not an option. Cheating is just for a person who wants to reserve his partner for himself and have someone else at the same time. You are so right
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I only cheat during exams
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I think we have all done that in our time
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Its up to both people in the relationship to keep the love alive...
Keep it fun...I like to keep "dating"...even when in an relationship... If you keep the romance alive neither of you will veer of the path... |
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Its up to both people in the relationship to keep the love alive... Keep it fun...I like to keep "dating"...even when in an relationship... If you keep the romance alive neither of you will veer of the path... Very wise words and very true
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Nice put. Well said
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Well if those people who cheat don't believe monogamy then why would they get in monogamous relationship in the first place?? That don't make sense to me. They should just stay single if that's the case
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