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Topic: Moving in Together....
wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 01:53 PM
What do you think the appropriate time dating should be before the topic of moving in together is discussed?....Or Not!!!!

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45331	Wed 04/13/16 01:56 PM
Twicky. When you awe vewy, vewy sure.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4683	Wed 04/13/16 01:57 PM
Probably after a few years, best not to rush these things.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Wed 04/13/16 02:02 PM
I think it depends on the connection, the frequency of dating etc. But in general I think at least a year, because it takes about a year for the pink fluffy clouds to subside and you start to see each other for who you really are.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76367	Wed 04/13/16 02:14 PM
I don't see there is a time limit. When it feels right for both then go for it.. Heck only knew my ex 3 months before we were married... So it just all depends how well you get along.

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 02:21 PM
Twicky. When you awe vewy, vewy sure. vewy, vewy good answer

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 02:22 PM
Probably after a few years, best not to rush these things. That is called dragging your feet

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 02:23 PM
I don't see there is a time limit. When it feels right for both then go for it.. Heck only knew my ex 3 months before we were married... So it just all depends how well you get along. I fully agree with you

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 02:24 PM
I think it depends on the connection, the frequency of dating etc. But in general I think at least a year, because it takes about a year for the pink fluffy clouds to subside and you start to see each other for who you really are. Then it is jump in or run for the hills

Cacutie59 Joined Sat 08/30/14 Posts: 471	Wed 04/13/16 02:31 PM
I'd say six months to a year..

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Wed 04/13/16 02:45 PM
I think it depends on the connection, the frequency of dating etc. But in general I think at least a year, because it takes about a year for the pink fluffy clouds to subside and you start to see each other for who you really are. Yes, I agree. Had one gal move in after a couple of weeks. Then I was kicking her out after a couple of months. What I thought was witty repartee was really a chick off of her meds.

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 02:51 PM
I'd say six months to a year.. I guess it would be different for each couple depending on many circumstances

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 02:53 PM
I think it depends on the connection, the frequency of dating etc. But in general I think at least a year, because it takes about a year for the pink fluffy clouds to subside and you start to see each other for who you really are. Yes, I agree. Had one gal move in after a couple of weeks. Then I was kicking her out after a couple of months. What I thought was witty repartee was really a chick off of her meds. a woo woo girl. I can see that it would make a difference

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Wed 04/13/16 03:27 PM
without rings and contract BAD IDEA FOR THE GIRL....THE GIRL IS THE PRIZE NOT THE GUY....MAKE THE BOY EARN THE COOKIE......

joeminn Joined Fri 04/08/16 Posts: 28	Wed 04/13/16 03:31 PM
without rings and contract BAD IDEA FOR THE GIRL....THE GIRL IS THE PRIZE NOT THE GUY....MAKE THE BOY EARN THE COOKIE...... Best answer yet

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Wed 04/13/16 03:40 PM
without rings and contract BAD IDEA FOR THE GIRL....THE GIRL IS THE PRIZE NOT THE GUY....MAKE THE BOY EARN THE COOKIE...... Oh yes, the ring. That too. Doesn't have to be a wedding ring (right away), but if the next Mr Crystal doesn't buy me a ring, no way there's going to be any moving in together. More like he'll be moving out. Out of my life.

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Wed 04/13/16 03:47 PM
I think it depends on the connection, the frequency of dating etc. But in general I think at least a year, because it takes about a year for the pink fluffy clouds to subside and you start to see each other for who you really are. I totally agree with this !

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 04:01 PM
without rings and contract BAD IDEA FOR THE GIRL....THE GIRL IS THE PRIZE NOT THE GUY....MAKE THE BOY EARN THE COOKIE...... Oh yes, the ring. That too. Doesn't have to be a wedding ring (right away), but if the next Mr Crystal doesn't buy me a ring, no way there's going to be any moving in together. More like he'll be moving out. Out of my life. I have a small plastic key ring. Would that do?

wolfman3838 Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 1355	Wed 04/13/16 04:03 PM
I think it depends on the connection, the frequency of dating etc. But in general I think at least a year, because it takes about a year for the pink fluffy clouds to subside and you start to see each other for who you really are. I totally agree with this ! It is either that or wait for the dark clouds to possibly engulf you.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76367	Wed 04/13/16 04:06 PM
I think it depends on the connection, the frequency of dating etc. But in general I think at least a year, because it takes about a year for the pink fluffy clouds to subside and you start to see each other for who you really are. Yes, I agree. Had one gal move in after a couple of weeks. Then I was kicking her out after a couple of months. What I thought was witty repartee was really a chick off of her meds. Humm yeppiers made that choice once myself he lasted 6 months before I told him it was time for him to move on... Just a bad choice on my part.. some work out some do not... At least he was not a psycho or anything like that, just did not work out... for me...