.... with the absence of elegance, grace, intelligence and belief in God is senseless.

Good one.

To each their own.

yes opinions vary

tale as old as time...true as it can be

Yes it is and I still believe that most men search for a woman with good or great quality to marry and be proud of

The universe is elegantly graceful chaos and quantum physicists believe that if one thing goes wrong all of existence would fall apart at a sub-atomic level that would rip through the universe a trillion times faster then the speed of light.

So humans have a bad habit of creating gods that are say what they want them to say. A wise man once said religious war are basically people fighting over who has the better imaginary friend. Just because you don't like what the religions of man say that doesn't mean that there isn't an all powerful being out there that created everything and is beyond our comprehension.

I recently read an article, written by a scientist, claiming he believes this world is merely a simulation... Created by us.

In other words, The Matrix

And its also true that there is nothing.....

You know, i wrote a short story for a paranormal club i was in. Similar lines. Planet earth experiences a meteor strike. It's mass is 10 times earth. It sneaks up on earth and strikes! Earths inhabitants are vaporized instantly. They all out of body experience and suddenly they are back in the world! living, loving and working and living life. Slowly they realize they are all sharing the last eight minutes of life. It is belived that when a person dies, the human brain continues functioning in a sureal or real mode for aproximately 8 minutes. Its 8 minutes at the speed of light. So S.O.L times 8 min equals Years in real time?

I wrote the story when i had a conversation with a nihilist friend of mine who said, every one I meet is just a figment of my imagination. For all I know we fell into a black hole and this life, is just a halucination before being spagetified. Lol

Einstein went to his grave with a secret. He wouldn't tell anyone what he thinks he may have found but some think it may have been a parallel universe.

He told a friend that if he released his findings it would terrify people beyond belief and he didn't think it fair to do this.
They assume a parallel universe because this is what he was working on when he confided in his friend.

If this were true, things wouldn't look good for the less intelligent and elegant ...
I also fail to see what belief in god has to do with anything.

sunset, a newborn child, a puppy can be beautiful

have none of those other qualities


so what you are saying is what?

that physical looks should not be the only quality to seek in someone?

Yes... Not only the physical...

With this topic I am glad that some didn't gave me that long novel like opinion or out look about this... All opinion is acceptable and it gave me more understanding about the quality of beauty... I expected both sexes to share their thoughts... What I have written here is actually according to men I have encountered here with expectations... When some searching for a relationship weather friendship or marriage they asked for my capabilities et al... Whether external or internal beauty needed to be given sense for them literally...

This is my first thought with what I always experience here... Beauty with the absence of elegance, grace, intelligence and belief in God... This thought came from men who approaches me here and asked for marriage or relationship... They are literally seeking for the quality of beauty... Then I turned them down as I felt that I can't comply with the quality they're looking for or I couldn't be who they're want a woman to be cause it's not me

Something...anything that stimulates woderful feelings inside.

Beautiful..........

That looks like something Dave would eat, only his bento would have a real cat not one made out of rice.