There's a certain someone on here (whom would HATE the attention) that got the nerve, and took the risk.

Can you lay it out? Admit? Ask the question? How brave are you?

Not talking about when you are in your flow, "on your game".

When you are tired and vulnerable,
Do you still bite the bullet?

Do you put yourself out there?

Firstly, I think you shouldn't do anything bold when you're not on your game. When you're feeling tired and emotionally unstable is not the right time, is only asking for more trouble. Best find your inner balance again, and then...

As for the question... about making the first move I gather? I rather not. I simply like a man to make the first move. I've been there in the past, taking the initiative, but deep down it's not how I want things to go.
Now inspiring a man so he takes action, sure. So it's not like you sit back and do nothing. That don't work either. But I want a man, and I do not want to have to do the masculine thing anymore.

Also, looking back, I now see that in the past I often took initiative because that gave me a sense of control. A false sense of control, but still. For me it's far scarier to 'only' inspire, be a woman, be open and vulnerable, and let the man take control. Scary as hell!

Did I put myself out there? Yes. Did I ask men out? No. Would I? No.

I only bring it out on special occasions....

Sometimes you have to step up to the plate even when you're not on your game. If you're swinging, you still might hit a home run.

u gotta know the battles worth fighting,, sometimes you will win and sometimes you will lose,,, but make it worth it

you never know who might be watching and you never know who you might have an impact upon

Thats funny, in a perplexing way.

I don't really see life as a battle. I see it as an experience.

I don't really care who is watching, I will just be me, whether that is okay with you or not.

Anything you gain from me is not really my concern either.


As brave as I feel I need to be.
It isn't important to me if others think I am or not.


Only when the bullet needs to be bitten.
I can admit when I am wrong and I do learn from my mistakes and adjust my actions accordingly.


Sometimes, when I feel I need to or if I want to.
I trust myself and I try not to offend but I can't control other's perceptions. I tend to be sure of myself and when I am not I ask.
I am on this site making myself, my thoughts and my opinions public so
Yes.

would you agree we are all out there on this site ...
do you believe people can't find what you have said ...
just by googling ...


it does not matter if I am tired or feel vulnerable ...
if I feel very passionate about...
something that I feel others should know to ... I put myself out there ...
and I could be wrong on this but normally it is true
... or I say something like your choice to...
believe it or not ... always seems to be hear say anyway ...
unless you put a vid or link to what you say ... if u can ...

No.
It is cold..out.

battle: fight or struggle tenaciously to achieve or resist something.



@Tom4 it is cool the way you perceive life, my life is a struggle though, and many topics are a struggle to discuss or explain

perhaps, because I do care not only my impact on others but how people treat each other in general, and empathy of walking in anothers shoes requires that I first care to know

I believe you do very well Harmony ...
you get the facts and always well mannered and
your topics & discussions are all ways interesting & mature ...

ty,,,


those types of compliments (on manners,,etc) always mean the most,,,

There have been a few guys who really touched my soul, and it was actually a very liberating feeling to put myself out there with them.:)

Ohhh..I used to have a bad habit of putting it out there everywhere... for anyone... at least if the price was right..lol..

Now I just keep it for someone special..lol. .. but they still have to give me a chocolate bar or a pack of gum..lol

I understand MsHarmony.

In person or after a friendship is made I too care greatly. I have a great ability for empathy. My emotional stability tends to put my friends and lovers at ease.

Online, I am also aware there are a lot of people that are not sure of themselves, putting up an act for whatever reasons or just downright liars.
I find that usually, not always but usually, people that insert humor into serious discussions have issues with dealing with the subject matter head on. I see the need for humor and the misuse of it and thats okay. To each their own.

Sometimes it is hard to accept others at face value but it is something that can be learned by doing.

My comments are not written to point fingers or make call outs. If I need to say something to someone I tend to address them.

Yes, sometimes you are afraid to lay it out or ask questions but if a person is brave enough to say it, it only means that he/she wants clarity of intentions and does not play games with people though you just have to confirm if the sincerity is truthful or not.

Putting oneself out when you're vulnerable is dangerous coz you are not in your balanced state of mind and you can be easily swayed but it does happen though...just have to be cautious with whom you are with...

its brave and bold to put yourself out there but then choosing the battles we would like to fight is way smarter

The last time I put it out there I almost got arrested...

Only when I'm not inside.

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