bad can be a good thing

I like this guy.... I want to know how he got the research...

I have been with someone 13 years younger then myself. We were together for almost 3 years, it was a very good relationship. I broke up with him because he mentioned that he wanted children and I couldn't. To be fair, I told him to find someone his own age and go have children.
He did have his daughter BUT he still calls me. He doesn't understand why we can't be together just because I can't have kids.
Now I have a son that is 19 so I feel kind of strange about dating younger men. I always think, would I want an older woman dating my son. I guess age is just a number but if my son brought home an older woman...I don't know if I would look at it that way

I think the movie Freaky Friday explains it well. Freaky Friday is a 2003 comedy drama film starring Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis as a daughter and mother whose bodies are switched because of an enchanted Chinese fortune cookie. This is the third time this film has been made by Disney, and the second in ten years. The original was made in 1976, and a 1995 television remake was produced for ABC in 1995. This story is based on the book of the same title by Mary Rodgers.

What happens when a couple gets together and have a child they call each other momma and daddy so that the child will call the woman momma and the man daddy. The mother can like being call momma as it can give her respect. The father can like being called father because it can also give him respect. The respect can come from the child. But it can go deeper than that. According to transitional analyses there is the child, the adult and the parent that resides in all humans. Even though the man is the father to the child he is also suppost to be an adult. Even though the woman is the mother to the child she is also supposed to be an adult. So the two are suppose to be equally adult but they both are also suppost to be parents, too to the child. In the movie when the changeover took place and the daughter's mind went into the mother and vice versa it represents transactional analyses well. The father liked being called daddy by what he supposed to was be the mother but in actuality was his daughter. There is a war that can take place though since of the transactional analyses. The adult male can say to the adult female you aren't my mother and the woman can say to the adult male that you aren't my father. This can happen because the adult resides in the male as well as the female adults but the child also resides in the adult male and adult female and it likes to be cuddled.

Why do girls like older men?

Haven't had it happen to me,is it just a cliche'?
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I have no idea...but now that 18 is way in the rear view mirror, I'm just grateful they do!

Mature not Milf.Older women are refined and sexy.

more mature, more definite goals in life. you can't get that with a guy in his early 20's.

i like em all myself, lol

That's cause us older guys rock!

Sweetiepie covered it though. But then again, not all older guys are mature.....like me. I am still a kid dang it!

Why do younger guys like older women?

First off .. it's become a fashionable trend. Sorry but that's true. (used to be dating an older women was off limits - but Demi/Ashton helped change that)

Second and more importantly ........ cause we're smokin. And I don't mean cigs/j*nts.

I mean we have our sh*t together, we are not just sexual but sensual, no game-players, we know WHO we are, WHAT we want, and we LIKE ourselves.

Any other questions?

BTW .. the 'hunt for younger men club' thingy ...........

I've never ever ever 'hunted' for a younger guy. I think that's a bit over the top in assumptions.

Just because many younger guys like us, does not mean we are doing the baiting. No way here anyway.

We are who we are and it's like a magnet is all.

I could blow you up into a man!!

well, my magnet has been pointing to younger guys...definately not by choice, thas for sure!

personally, i like older men simply because of the stability in the relationship...MOST, and I say MOST know what they want, dont play games, and want the stability themselves!

OMG!

misswright....that was a good one...too damn funny

What an offer! I might have to see if the Laws of Physics could/would work on that.

Wait. Are you saying you are full of hot air?

Why thank you, thank you! I try!

<<taking bows>>

I'm full of something Goof, but I don't think they call it hot air where I'm from.

older women know what they are doin bed

Some of us younger ones would surprise you...