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Topic: why is this frowned upon by most women ?
thebushcutter's photo
Tue 01/02/18 11:59 AM
w e all have preferences, likes and disslikes when dating.

I prefer ladies who look smart in dresses or skirts but who also wear stockings and suspenders or nice tights , most women think a man liking women in nylons is a weird request. I have been called a pervert.
Why do some women feel angered at this.
I feel annoyed when women demand only bald men or really tall men but i assume this is the way on these sites.

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 01/02/18 12:00 PM
It's preference. Some won't get that and get butt hurt. Oh well

no1phD's photo
Tue 01/02/18 12:05 PM

w e all have preferences, likes and disslikes when dating.

I prefer ladies who look smart in dresses or skirts but who also wear stockings and suspenders or nice tights , most women think a man liking women in nylons is a weird request. I have been called a pervert.
Why do some women feel angered at this.
I feel annoyed when women demand only bald men or really tall men but i assume this is the way on these sites.
..hmmm... why would they think you were a pervert what do you do when you first meet them ...slip them a pair of nylons and say can you please go to the ladies room and put this on please... just so I can see what you look like in them.
If so.. then yeah a little creepy and perverted..Lol..

soufiehere's photo
Tue 01/02/18 12:08 PM
Your preferences are just as silly as theirs.

thebushcutter's photo
Tue 01/02/18 01:18 PM
no1phD
i go for women who dress smart in their pictures in the first place.

i dont take tights to dates lol

if the date is wearing them then that is a big bonus for the future but i still have to like her first.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 01/02/18 02:21 PM
At times, I prefer a woman in a dress and at times I prefer women in jeans & tee shirt. Personally, I think women in dresses are very sexy. However, the dress has to fit the personality.

I tend to like dresses with the 50s look but slightly above the knees. Gowns are great when the activity calls for them but normally gowns are too formal.

I also like women that wear skirts with shorts or short tights under them.

Dresses and skirts remind me that person is a woman but the activities I like can be rough and tumble. Dresses are not appropriate and can restrict her enjoyment having to constantly 'watch' herself.

Most important is that 'she' feels comfortable and natural. A tomboy look is only good when she is doing tomboy stuff. Slacks and blouses are normal for employment standards, or a pants suit.

I dated one woman not too many years ago that would dress freestyle when going out but always came home and changed into a house-dress. She said it was just more comfortable and I liked it.
Not that there was anything wrong with her choices otherwise, I just preferred to see her legs and thighs.

Some women have an aversion to dresses. I can understand that, I have an aversion to suits and will never wear a necktie again. I lived as a mechanic most of my life and there was never a need to wear a suit, I don't even own one.

But... If a woman I am close to gets me a suit I will wear it for her. Its the tie that I hate, not the suit.

http://www.pinterest.com/tomishereagain/menstown/


Looks really nice!


Also looks very nice!


As does that^


And That^

But this is down-right Sexy


no photo
Tue 01/02/18 02:31 PM
They’re good for doing a bank job as well.

Stu's photo
Tue 01/02/18 02:59 PM

It's preference. Some won't get that and get butt hurt. Oh well


rofl rofl

I prefer personality over dress or anything else for that matter..

Is that perverted?

:banana: banana?

no photo
Tue 01/02/18 03:01 PM
I prefer my women in break a way clothing

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Tue 01/02/18 03:09 PM
Actually, I think the problem isn't the specific "preference," It's more that the "preference" doesn't have to do with the woman's character, or personality, or even with her physical traits, it has only to do with her wearing a "costume." That comes across as objectification rather than attraction, hence the generally negative reaction.

TMommy's photo
Tue 01/02/18 04:45 PM
more like a fetish
if you state this in your profile
then ask any female you message if she wears dresses and stockings
then ask her for pics
then keep talking on and on and on
about her legs, the nylons, the garters

ya you do come across as a perv

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Tue 01/02/18 05:01 PM

w e all have preferences, likes and disslikes when dating.

I prefer ladies who look smart in dresses or skirts but who also wear stockings and suspenders or nice tights , most women think a man liking women in nylons is a weird request. I have been called a pervert.
Why do some women feel angered at this.
I feel annoyed when women demand only bald men or really tall men but i assume this is the way on these sites.

I'm not quite sure what the problem is here?
As far as I know women wear tights with dresses/skirts and most every woman will regularly put on stockings & garter belt or hold-ups for her man. Not on a day to day basis maybe. We also want to be comfortable. So if that's what you're after, your just demanding.
Personally I don't like a man who's demanding and dictating of what I wear. I need a man who accepts me for who I am and what I myself want to wear and feel comfy in. I'd not change 'me' to suit a guy.
But to say it is perverse? If you want a woman who wears that most of the time, it's a matter of finding one who likes that herself.

no photo
Tue 01/02/18 08:40 PM
Do support hose count?

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 01/02/18 08:46 PM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Tue 01/02/18 08:51 PM
I just remember those silly things that came in a plastic egg that always seemed to agitate women and make them look fidgety and uncomfortable.
NOT a sexy look.

Showing my age I suppHOSE!


Lol, they always ended up on the dryer exhaust.

AngelHappiness's photo
Wed 01/03/18 04:50 AM
Edited by AngelHappiness on Wed 01/03/18 04:54 AM

w e all have preferences, likes and disslikes when dating.

I prefer ladies who look smart in dresses or skirts but who also wear stockings and suspenders or nice tights , most women think a man liking women in nylons is a weird request. I have been called a pervert.
Why do some women feel angered at this.
I feel annoyed when women demand only bald men or really tall men but i assume this is the way on these sites.



As you said we all have preference :wink: I wear cute, sexy and beautiful clothes now to inspire fitness not to flirt Or to catch the attention of boys.. to inspire people.. to let them see that things can change (not like this before, only this year) :blush::blush::blush: it also adds confidence :wink: Guess we can wear any as long as we are comfortable...

Anyway, we girls can feel man's intention.. none will think that you are perv if you will treat girls with respect... :grin:

Stu's photo
Wed 01/03/18 05:11 AM


w e all have preferences, likes and disslikes when dating.

I prefer ladies who look smart in dresses or skirts but who also wear stockings and suspenders or nice tights , most women think a man liking women in nylons is a weird request. I have been called a pervert.
Why do some women feel angered at this.
I feel annoyed when women demand only bald men or really tall men but i assume this is the way on these sites.



As you said we all have preference :wink: I wear cute, sexy and beautiful clothes now to inspire fitness not to flirt Or to catch the attention of boys.. to inspire people.. to let them see that things can change (not like this before, only this year) :blush::blush::blush: it also adds confidence :wink: Guess we can wear any as long as we are comfortable...

Anyway, we girls can feel man's intention.. none will think that you are perv if you will treat girls with respect... :grin:


The last line is key to it all, treating everyone with respect, women and elders especially. Women should wear what they are comfortable in and proper for the environment they will be in i.e. work, church, out on the town, etc.

thebushcutter's photo
Wed 01/03/18 02:23 PM
but..................... iam not saying iam "demanding" women wear these items just to please me, iam looking for a lady who enjoys wearing and feeling comfortable in dresses/skirts and nylons, of course no one can wear the same types of clothes all the time but i would like to meet a lady who does feel comfortable in them quite often or daily when out.

one of my exes , who i dated for over a year ( who always wore black trousers and tight jeans )told me towards the end that i wasnt "tall enough" for her !!!!! obviously a cop-out

i dont want to meet a woman then try to change her appearance, i want to meet "the" lady straight away.

thebushcutter's photo
Wed 01/03/18 02:25 PM
tom4Uhere

btw the 3rd picture down is my fave.

AngelHappiness's photo
Wed 01/03/18 03:13 PM

but..................... iam not saying iam "demanding" women wear these items just to please me, iam looking for a lady who enjoys wearing and feeling comfortable in dresses/skirts and nylons, of course no one can wear the same types of clothes all the time but i would like to meet a lady who does feel comfortable in them quite often or daily when out.

one of my exes , who i dated for over a year ( who always wore black trousers and tight jeans )told me towards the end that i wasnt "tall enough" for her !!!!! obviously a cop-out

i dont want to meet a woman then try to change her appearance, i want to meet "the" lady straight away.



Got your point :grin::grin::grin:I have a newly found friend (guy from another country) he's also the same with you.. he's attracted to ladies wearing skirts, shorts, leggings and dresses.. he wants someone with a girly look and like you he doesn't want to change anyone (but he was the one who suggested to throw my ugly clothes since i am losing fats... fatter before... after his suggestion i started throwing my clothes where i look ugly and started buying dresses, fitted skirts and shorts... adds more confidence receiving compliments from the people around)

Wearing those makes a woman sexier in look (just an opinion :grin::grin::grin:)... anyway being sexy is an attitude and not about the body type and everything is about confidence :wink:


You are not a perv for being attracted to those kind of girls but as i said, treat them with high respect :wink::blush: that's all

Stu's photo
Wed 01/03/18 03:16 PM
^^^ like the new profile pic.. :thumbsup:

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